1. As long as the child's hands and feet are warm, he won't get sick for the time being. If you find your child's feet are cold when you wash their feet or take a bath every night, you may get sick. Most of these cases are cold cases. Boil ginger brown sugar water for children quickly: children before one year old only need to add a small piece of ginger, 2 pieces for 2-4 years old and 3 pieces for 5 years old. After drinking, let the children go to sleep quickly and drink again the next day, which can generally be controlled in time.
2. If the child's hands are cold and feet are hot, it means that the child is wearing less clothes, and it is necessary to add clothes to the child in time.
3. The child always vomits or wants to vomit when eating, indicating that the child has caught a cold. Please follow the first method above.
4. As long as the child is uncomfortable, look at the tongue coating first. If the tongue coating is white, it means you have a cold. Think about what you gave your child these two days. If there is cold food, stop quickly and give the child some ginger soup. If the child's tongue coating is red, give the child plenty of water, or boil radish water and pear water for the child to drink, and then rub the soles of his feet at night, just a few dozen times, and the child's anger will soon disappear.
Sleeping at night is the key. As long as you don't catch a cold and pay attention to eating less cold food, children are generally not easy to get sick.
6. If the child has a stuffy nose, look at his tongue coating. If the tongue coating is white, eat it according to the diet prescription of cold and cold; At the same time, you can rub your child's back and heat it, so that the child's nose will pass.
7. Eggs can be eaten during a cold, fish and shrimp can't be eaten, and eels can be eaten.
8. You can often eat oranges in winter.
9. Children's drooling is a manifestation of spleen and stomach deficiency and cold. The treatment method is simple. Simply put the yam and a proper amount of water into a pulverizer to pulverize, then pour the mushy yam paste into a pot, cook it with medium heat, stir while cooking, and boil it. Feed the child half a bowl every day, and it will stop drooling in a few days.
10. Washing eggs with ginger juice is a way to get rid of gastrointestinal cold. Just drink it when the tongue coating is white and the gastrointestinal tract is cold. If the tongue coating is not white, you don't need to drink it. People with poor gastrointestinal tract can nourish the gastrointestinal mucosa without adding ginger for many years after getting rid of a cold.
1 1. There has been a saying since ancient times: "A long illness will lead to deficiency." Children often have asthma, which must be deficiency and cold in the body, and occasionally asthma may be heat asthma. In addition, remind parents and friends that children who are prone to tonsillitis must eat less ginkgo. Ginkgo biloba in pharmacies is dry and difficult to boil, so it is better to use fresh ginkgo biloba.
Second, parenting common sense that is easily misunderstood by parents
First, breast milk is very important for children's growth and development, so the longer the lactation period, the better.
Breastfeeding does play an important role in children's growth and development, especially for infants within six months, but breastfeeding for too long is not good for children's growth and development. Because with the growth of age, children grow up day by day, and the demand for nutrition is gradually increasing. Protein, fat, sugar and other minerals and trace elements contained in breast milk are far from meeting children's nutritional needs. At the same time, the secretion and nutritional value of breast milk also decreased significantly with time. In addition, if the lactation period is too long and other supplementary foods are not added, it is easy to cause children to "only eat milk and not eat non-milk", resulting in malnutrition. Generally speaking, the shortest lactation period should not be less than six months, ten to twelve months is appropriate, and the longest lactation period should not exceed one and a half years.
Second, the child's temperature is higher or lower than 37, indicating that the child is ill.
The body temperature of infants changes more than that of adults within 24 hours a day, because their thermoregulation mechanism has not been established or perfected. Usually, a child's body temperature will be lower in the morning and higher at night. In addition, after breastfeeding, nursing, crying, playing or being held for too long, the body temperature will rise, sometimes even as high as 38.3, which is normal. When the body temperature was measured, the anus was 36 to 37.7, and the oral contents were 35.5 to 37.2, which still belonged to the normal range. It can be seen that you can't think that a temperature higher than or lower than 37 is sick. Of course, if the temperature continues to rise with other symptoms, you should see a doctor.
Third, children's obesity means being strong, so the more children eat, the better.
In fact, obesity and strength are completely different things. Being strong means that children grow energetic, rosy and strong under reasonable nutrition, and obesity is a manifestation of overnutrition. Obesity caused by overnutrition is a potential crisis for children's health. Eat as soon as you wake up, sleep when you are full, stay in bed and exercise more, and replenish at any time. If the child is a little unhappy, he will be served by chocolate, baobaokang, lysine, ginseng and royal jelly, which will lead to the child's own physiological rhythm and immune function not being reasonably adjusted, and he will be fat, weak and ill. Children begin to gain weight from childhood, and the probability of diabetes complicated with hypertension and coronary heart disease in adulthood is much greater than that of healthy children. Therefore, a reasonable diet, a reasonable diet structure and reasonable nutrition are the guarantee for the healthy growth of children.
Fourth, children who have too much activity suffer from ADHD.
In modern times, some families attach importance to and even spoil their children, which often makes them more lively and naive. But some parents say that their children have ADHD when they see their children active, which is wrong. It should be pointed out that "ADHD" is also called "attention deficit disorder", which needs to be examined by a pediatrician or a pediatric psychiatrist before it can be diagnosed. It cannot be simply considered as "ADHD". "ADHD" mostly adopts comprehensive treatment, including guidance and education, drug treatment and so on. However, ordinary children with excessive activity do not need medication, but focus on guidance and persuasion.
Fifth, children grind their teeth at night, indicating that there are parasites in their stomachs.
Many people think that children grind their teeth at night because there are parasites in the intestines, so taking medicine to repel insects often leads to futility, and sometimes even leads to drug reaction and malnutrition. In fact, grinding teeth at night is because the child is in the replacement step of deciduous teeth and permanent teeth, and there are different degrees of dentofacial deformities and unsmooth occlusion between upper and lower teeth. Sometimes it is because of emotional instability or mental stimulation, or both. Has nothing to do with parasitic diseases.
Third, the three realms of parental rearing
The first realm-good at parenting
Parents who are good at parenting have a pair of eyes and found that their baby is not a machine, but a lively and changeable life. Parents know that life has its own personality and can't be scripted, so they seriously study various parenting methods and skills.
In this circle, there are confident parents, but their confidence is no longer blind at this moment. They know how to improvise and extrapolate, but they are easily intoxicated with their immediate achievements and may forget to look up at the distance often to protect their eyesight. Sometimes parents lose confidence, because the baby becomes too fast, and the magic prescription that was effective yesterday may suddenly fail, but the problem must be solved, so they try their best to change it. This change may become or may go to the road of no return.
Parents who are really good at parenting are "parenting craftsmen" who pursue exquisite works. They also have this ability, so if they are not careful, they will be crowned with beautiful laurels and become role models for others. As long as parents are not complacent, it is not a bad thing to know how to make progress, but if they are bent on maintaining their reputation, it will be another scene.
If this situation falls not on parents, but on experts, even if it can be called a "master of parenting", it will inevitably fall into the quagmire of misleading children because they are too afraid of humiliating wisdom and too eager for immediate results.
The second realm-busy with parenting.
Parents who are busy raising children are immersed in specific things, but they often know what they know but don't know why. They only care about their own efforts, rarely take into account the baby's real needs and experiences, and often make the mistake of overprotecting or putting pressure on the baby. It doesn't matter if they don't have problems. If they are really in trouble, they are in danger of making mistakes and falling short.
In this circle, some parents are very confident, because they are skilled as "Class-8 workers", eating and drinking in good order, and taking care of Lazar with ease. There are one or two parenting regulations on their desks, and people wearing various expert hats stand behind them, so that they spread their parenting "regulations" everywhere with confidence, so confidently that they don't listen to unpleasant suggestions until their children are judged to have emotional and behavioral problems and lack creativity.
Other parents, on the other hand, tend to be suspicious, because the tricks they devote themselves to learning always hit a wall in their babies. It is clearly written in the book that the baby is going to the west, so many phenomena are like "problems" on the baby, and it is inevitable to see a doctor when he is sick. The master's plaster, the western soup and the secret recipe of the south are all poured on the children, only watching the sunrise in the east and the rain in the west, and the problem comes again.
Parents who are immersed in child-rearing all day are "childcare". They have developed limbs and simple minds. There is nothing wrong with this book. There are too many things with children. What is terrible is that if their "expert consultant" is also a "child care worker", no matter how careless Zhang Lisan is, it will be a set of prescriptions. The result can only be implicated in children-they will "die" in the sinking if they don't break out in the sinking.
The third realm-being good at parenting
Parents who are good at raising children are not born or cultivated, but the result of the common development of heaven and earth. Their upbringing is not only a matter of holding hands, but also thinking with their brains and understanding with their hearts. Only then can they truly enter the children's world, understand the baby's needs, know how to guide, and clarify the development direction. For these parents who can be called "parenting teachers", everything they do is not only for the things themselves, but also for yesterday, today and tomorrow, because they know how to look at and treat their children's development from a global perspective and a long-term goal. The biggest advantage of dealing with real problems is that they are imperfect and know how to choose.
Parenting teachers understand the true meaning of parenting, then become proficient in parenting skills and considerate of parenting, and become "parenting masters". Parents become mentors and friends for children's growth, and experts become guiding lights for parents' parenting.
Fourth, learn from the British super-practical parenting experience.
I began to sleep independently in 4 months.
The British advocate that babies sleep separately from their parents. Only half a year ago, the baby's cradle was at the mother's bedside, which was convenient for feeding and looking after. After half a year, the baby can sleep alone in his own crib.
Britain advocates cultivating children's normal sleep habits (starting from 4 months), which means that children should go to bed regularly and sleep all night. Parents should use the correct method to guide and tell the baby "it's time to go to bed". For example, put on pajamas, sing a lullaby, tell a story, or kiss you then. The purpose of this is not to cultivate the independence of the baby, but to think that "children are very important and parents are also very important." Only by ensuring parents' normal rest can they work and live better and take good care of their babies.
Let children know right and wrong from an early age
The baby will leave and make trouble everywhere, but British parents don't like China's parents, and they soon put everything that is bad for the baby on the shelf, so that he can't touch it and reach it. They think that as long as you tell the baby, he will know what can move and what can't.
Britain advocates that every family should set up a corner to punish naughty children and let them reflect on themselves. It can be a blanket place, a small chair, etc. Babies before the age of one still don't understand why they are right and why they are wrong. Then use a simple "no!" And let him form a habit. As long as he hears "no", his first reaction is that this thing can't move, which can be said to be a conditioned reflex. When the baby is one year old, he can gradually understand what adults say. At this time, if the baby does something wrong, adults should tell him that it is wrong in a way that he can understand. If he does this again next time, he will go to the corner of reflection. If he makes the same mistake again next time, he will be rudely put in the "reflection corner" until he tells his parents "I was wrong, it won't happen again!" Parents clap their hands, kiss their children and tell them "you are a good boy".