If you have cancer, you must first reflect on the shortcomings in your life. More than 90% of cancer patients are living an overdraft lifestyle, no matter the reason is ideal, life pressure, so-called enjoyment or various desires. At this time, you should let go and let your body and mind rest. Everything is a small matter except life and death! It is wisdom to figure it out and really let it go.
And then think about the way to live. No matter which treatment you choose, don't be superstitious about so-called authority. First, we should understand the nature of cancer and understand that it is a whole-hearted and system-wide problem. All the palliative methods are wrong. In fact, it is not difficult to really understand the truth of the cure rate, just take some time to verify it. Don't believe in the so-called authority, the so-called mainstream, life is your own, and there is only one, you must grasp it in your own hands.
The principles of choosing appropriate treatment methods are as follows: First, a doctor should be a former cancer patient who died of a serious illness and become a doctor. A person who has experienced it knows the mystery best; Secondly, there are many visible cases of real cure; Thirdly, there is a comprehensive systematic view, and the treatment plan must be implemented in diet and rest; Fourth, we must be able to prescribe the right medicine and adjust the prescription according to the change of the condition, not the folk prescription or secret recipe.
In short, cancer is just a chronic disease. Being able to completely cure cancer is a test of a person's wisdom and courage. After it, the understanding of life has also improved!
There is such a person in our village. He is 49 years old. He is a married single man. Sadly, he got lung cancer and said he wouldn't be treated. He walks around the village every day, holding a cigarette and telling everyone that he has cancer. He also smiled and said: live a good day and be happy.
His life is actually very poor, and his family is very poor. His parents died in his early twenties. He has a younger brother and married a daughter-in-law. Because of poverty, he had no daughter-in-law for the first 40 years.
Later, his aunt and relatives helped him chip in to build three houses. Later, he was introduced by people from other villages and married a daughter-in-law. But this daughter-in-law is ill, that is, hyperthyroidism, big neck disease and prominent eyes. Later, he worked hard and cured his daughter-in-law in two years, but it didn't take long for her to leave, which was still a great blow to him.
I have been single since then, and the conditions are not good. It's really difficult to find a wife. I've been to his house. It's dirty. Who wants to get married? Cancer was diagnosed last year, which is probably related to his smoking, living habits and work habits.
But there is nothing he can do about cancer and he has no money to treat it. Finally, he gave up going home and lived day by day. His brother-in-law takes care of his diet and other problems every day, and he can feel the warmth of his loved ones at the last moment. After that, there was no one. The only three rooms were given to his brother's house because they had no daughter-in-law and no children.
Today, I saw his brother take him to the hospital on a motorcycle. He came back, but he didn't. Maybe his condition got worse. Let's go to the hospital for a simple treatment, and the final life will be so ordinary. What else can we do? Eat well, drink well, play well, sleep well and wait for death, so maybe you can live for a few more years. what do you think?
I am a cancer patient. In 16, nasopharyngeal carcinoma was diagnosed in stage 3, chemotherapy twice and radiotherapy 16. How to spend the rest of my life? I think this is also a topic that all patients often ask, but real life really can't satisfy you, such as economy and the severity of illness. It's a little far, so tell me what I think. Since I got cancer, I cherish my present life more, because I really don't know when I will leave. I am the pillar of my family. What I think now is how much I can contribute to this family in my life. I never give up on myself, and I often fantasize that miracles can happen to me. If one day my body doesn't allow me to work, maybe I will take some money and travel all over the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and I will obey God's will if I fall down.
Cancer is also a healthy and happy life! First of all, my father-in-law has suffered from rectal cancer for 29 years and has coronary heart disease. He is 79 years old this year. Every morning, I will go to the morning market to buy breakfast and vegetables, take a nap in the middle of the day, visit the night market at night, and watch the news and sleep after I get home. My father-in-law is frugal and careful with his money, and he doesn't want to buy expensive things. Nothing will hit him. He thought he was ill and couldn't handle it, so my grandmother and mother-in-law were dying and he didn't show up. My father-in-law said: Go to the hospital, listen to the doctor and do what you have to do. Money is not a problem. My boss is a big boss. It's up to you. If I am in poor health, I can't go.
My father-in-law is the eldest son, very filial!
My neighbor's sister began to defecate after uterine cancer surgery, such as traveling, buying clothes and falling in love with square dance. It's been 8-9 years now, and I don't remember this time clearly.
In fact, it is very important to find yourself sick. Besides, you should conserve your strength. If you want to run a long distance, be sure to fill up the tank and don't leak oil! It is most important to regulate the spleen and stomach, which is the foundation of the day after tomorrow. I also need to eat some diet with kidney essence. Some are congenital kidney essence deficiency, and it is more important to tonify kidney and replenish essence. Some are congenital spleen and stomach deficiency, and the oil tank leaks oil first, so the natural constitution is much better. At this time, do what you like that is good for your health, and your mentality must be maintained. Your thoughts are very important. Don't let emotions affect your mood. I remember a saying in the Bible: If you are sick, your heart is unbearable and your heart is sad. Who will bear it?
In fact, everyone has to die! It's just a matter of time. Who knew it would be over if you died? Hydra thought he was dead, but he didn't know that he had become a dragonfly. Don't be too sad about getting cancer. Maybe it's broken. How about becoming a butterfly? Experience will give people a lot of things they didn't understand in the past. What's the good of trying to break your head now? Nothing can change in sadness, just do what you have always wanted to do! I wish you peace, health and happiness here!
How to spend the rest of your life with cancer? What kind of cancer do you want to see first, such as pancreatic cancer? Or lung cancer? Or bowel cancer? Or breast cancer? Because even if they belong to the advanced stage, the prognosis and survival time of different types of cancer are very different. If the survival time of advanced pancreatic cancer is short, the remaining days are short, and the significance of active radiotherapy and chemotherapy in the hospital is not great, then try to cherish the last stage of life, have fun, and meet the unfinished things or unfinished dreams for the rest of your life. If the treatment effect of breast cancer is generally good, don't give up easily. Reasonable and standardized treatment, even if you endure the pain of treatment, you should try to cure it and get a better life. Secondly, it depends on the stage of cancer, that is, how to stage it. No matter what kind of cancer, don't think about how to spend the rest of your life in the early stage, because most of the early cancers can be cured, and the cancer that can be cured is equivalent to a benign tumor. Let's get rid of it once and for all, and you will be normal for the rest of your life. However, I came into contact with an early gastric cancer patient after operation, and now he is my friend. He himself said that he used to be a very competitive person. Since the operation for gastric cancer, he wants to get through it and stop fighting so hard. Naturally, the rest of his life will be much easier. Finally, how should cancer patients who are determined to be incurable and already in the absolutely advanced stage spend the rest of their lives? First, explain what should be explained, such as inheritance. If you make a will, it will be notarized The purpose of the next treatment is to minimize the pain, travel as painless as possible, and enjoy the rest of my life. Don't rely too much on the hospital, except in the dying stage. For the dying stage, try to get in touch with religious people to ease the fear and pressure of death. Let the family spend more time and care more. I hope this stage can be passed peacefully.
I am at the end of 19. It was found that nasopharyngeal carcinoma was locally advanced without distant metastasis. Of course, the situation is not optimistic.
Originally, the family was not rich. It's okay to make ends meet. The disease lost all the money in the family, and the family was penniless. When I went to the hospital for chemotherapy before, I thought it could be cheaper. Now that the treatment is over, I wonder if I can make some money. I really have the money to travel around the world, but I can't walk without it.
I always remind myself to calm my mind. How can I calm down again? I really want to go out and look for a job, but I am afraid of a relapse. I'm determined to test my white blood cells four times a month. I just hope that my health will get better soon and my indicators will be normal soon, so I have reason to persuade everyone to let me go out to work.
I was going to find a doorman to watch the gate, but I didn't want to do it from the bottom of my heart. After all, he is young and has a family. I often browse job search websites to find suitable jobs. I envy those who can make money from the bottom of my heart, and I often recall them. If my health permits, I must be at work, because I like money, so I have to work part-time. Especially from the moment I got sick, I felt that money was very important. I spend money all the time in the hospital. If it weren't for the employee's medical insurance, if I didn't choose the process when taking medicine, if my family didn't have the money to see me. I think I will die.
Now I have finished five months of treatment. Every day, various sequelae accompany me, coughing. Pharyngolaryngitis pneumonia. Low white blood cells. Limited mouth opening. Dry mouth! And many other symptoms. It's annoying. I'm saving money now, and I'll never buy anything I shouldn't have bought again. Eat a lot of good things for yourself every day, milk and eggs. Noodles, steamed bread, rice. All kinds of dishes. Eat something for a change!
I want to raise myself firmly. Go out and find a relaxing job, earn three or four thousand a month, and take more rest. I'll never do the dirty and tired work again. Whenever health comes first, I won't be so stingy with myself as before. I should eat, eat nutritious food. Early to bed and early to rise!
Try to make some money. Easy money! Anyway, I have to pay social security, so that I can afford to see a doctor and support the elderly. Of course, I don't know if I can live to that day. At least I'm mentally strong!
The first thing to say is that having cancer does not mean being sentenced to death. Cancer does not mean death. It depends on the specific situation.
Most cancers are likely to be cured if comprehensive treatment based on surgery is carried out in the early stage; Some advanced cancers may be cured. Of course, most advanced cancers are difficult to cure, but that doesn't mean they can only live for a long time. Some people can also live with tumors for a long time through treatment. However, it is true that some cancers are in the late stage, and there is no effective treatment, or even if they were effective in the past, they are still ineffective in the end, facing the last "few days left", that is, the dying stage. This is actually something that everyone will face sooner or later, but cancer patients come earlier and are likely to be accompanied by more pain.
How can we live better these days? This aspect has not been paid enough attention in China and has not been done enough. In the dying period, anti-tumor therapy has been ineffective, and the survival time is usually less than half a year. At this time, we should change our ideas in time and don't keep tossing in chemotherapy and radiotherapy. Some people (including patients and their families) were still rushing around for medical treatment until one or two months before their death, hoping for a miracle. Until the day the patient died, they still refused to accept the reality and were still in unrealistic fantasies. At the cost, they missed the rare last time with their loved ones. First of all, people are always tired of seeking medical advice everywhere. Because the focus at that time was still on the treatment of tumors, there was no way to alleviate the pain, including psychological comfort. Unfortunately, pathetic, alas!
In the next few days, one must live with quality, the length of life can't be controlled, and the quality of life is still under your control. At this time, if you are still addicted to the dream of miracles, you will probably not pay attention to the quality of life. We must change our ideas, adjust our direction, and pay attention to the quality of life and psychological comfort. We won't live long, but we will live comfortably and happily. The second is to live with dignity. It is a great sorrow that some patients are still suffering from great pain physically and psychologically until the moment they die. Most of these reasons are also related to ideas. For example, some patients are obviously in pain, but they just dare not put down opioid painkillers, including some doctors who have the same idea, so they encourage patients to endure pain. This is extremely inhuman!
If I have cancer myself, first of all, I have to make arrangements and make a will. I will take this day as a starting point, and every day I live will be regarded as an extra day. Then, I want to see if this cancer can be cured. If possible, I will actively cooperate with the treatment. If it can't be cured, but the survival time may be prolonged after treatment, then I'll try. If it works, but it's painful, I'll stick to it. If the effect is not ideal, but there is no pain, you can also consider it. If it doesn't work and it still hurts, then give up. In any case, if physical strength permits, travel around and finish what you wanted to do before but didn't have time to finish. When there is no hope, refuse all rescue measures.
I am also a cancer patient, and I feel that the wish of most patients is to have fun at home and abroad. There is no way abroad. Can domestic tourist countries give free certificates to cancer patients and go to some scenic spots for free, which can be regarded as doing something for cancer patients? Good life-saving drugs can't be eaten, and the country can't help it. It shouldn't be difficult to get a certificate. Many healthy people can get disability certificates through acquaintances. The country should also do something for cancer patients. Have you done any personnel work in these years?
Life is a journey, life is a huge train, everyone is born with a ticket to get on, but getting on the bus is the beginning of fate. Although life is our starting point, many lives are mercilessly kicked off the train as soon as the train starts, such as those children who die young, such as young cancer patients. The reality of this world is that people get on and off all the time, but ordinary people just don't feel it. This phenomenon is irrelevant, let's not talk about it for the time being, but talk about the situation of ordinary passengers.
We got on the train of fate, through our own groping, or got an independent box, enjoying the life of so-called successful people; Or almost, I got a seat in the bedroom to make myself and my family more comfortable during the trip; Almost, like most people, at least let yourself and your family have a place to sit. Although I have to endure the interference of public life, at least I won't be pushed away by the service staff, and even the station is not peaceful ... No matter where I am, everyone is busy, enjoying the scenery on the sinking road and tasting the food on the bus. All of them are involved in the journey. Even beggars who have no place to stand are lucky to stay in the car.
This is the train of life. Getting on the bus means life, getting off the bus means death. Although everyone knows that the destination is death, everyone prays that it will come slowly or later, and even a stable and comfortable life makes many people think that it will not come ... Suddenly, you are told that your travel plan has been disrupted and you have to get off halfway: because you are suddenly diagnosed with cancer!
How many people's world collapsed? When we are used to the night, that is, the day, there is no fear in the face of the night; However, the news of cancer makes us feel that there is no difference between day and night, and the world of desperate people is eternal darkness. At the thought of getting off midway, every passenger is angry and unacceptable, and his psychology is bound to be distorted. Some people even have the extreme idea of subverting the train and mutually assured destruction. This is an instinctive reaction.
What we take for granted becomes the support of our normal life, but we never think that all this is psychological consciousness. It's not that we can't change, because when others encounter bad luck, we will persuade them, but when it comes to ourselves, we can't get away with it. The biggest harm of cancer to life is to crush the soul, infinitely amplify the horror of death, instill bad emotions into every pore and every cell, and let people write down the surrender book for the disease at the first time ... So people often say that more than half of cancer patients are scared to death, which makes sense; General has no fighting spirit, how can soldiers do their best?
What if you get cancer? The most important thing is to keep a peaceful mind. Depression and despair are necessary, but high spirits are unnecessary. Don't you just get off halfway? It's just early. Who can sit forever? It's lucky to get on the bus, not to mention enjoying the journey. If you are calm, you can still enjoy the last paragraph. Maybe the plan hasn't changed, maybe it won't be extended soon. If you are in a bad mood, there is only one consequence, and you will be kicked off the bus in an ugly way, because no matter what your status, head of state, richest man or beggar, you will be treated equally in front of it.