Kindergarten parenting experience 1 Children are parents' treasures. We all look forward to their healthy, happy and healthy growth. In the process of educating children, besides teachers, parents also play an important role. Since having children, life has become more colorful and sweeter in hardships. Watching our daughter grow up day by day, we also learned a lot of parenting experience and knowledge. Here are some experiences.
First, set an example and set an example first.
As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers and families are children's first schools. Parents' behavior is always affecting their children, because children's imitation ability is particularly strong, and words and deeds are better than words and deeds. Parents should set an example. As long as you promise your child, you must do it, not perfunctory. We told our daughter not to litter. I remember once I threw my used napkin on the coffee table, and she corrected me on the spot. In this case, I told her to do a good job of supervision in the future, so that she would take the initiative to throw the peel scraps into the trash can every time.
Second, form good habits.
1, moral, polite, distinguish right from wrong.
Personal morality is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders and love others from an early age. Although children don't take the initiative to call people, they have made progress. Correctly treat what happens around you, and children don't have a correct concept of judging things right or wrong when they grow up. Willing to criticize children, but to master the temperature of criticism.
2. Cultivate children's interest in reading.
We bought a lot of story books for our daughter before, and basically told them to her before going to bed every day. After each story is finished, we will tell her the little truth in the story. Because she is still young and illiterate, it is quite difficult to read to us, so we bought her books such as "Baby Telling Stories" and asked her to read pictures and make up stories for us, so that she could gradually develop the habit of reading actively.
Now sometimes she can sit alone and read quietly for an hour. It is necessary to invest in intelligence. Don't look down on children. Her growth in this respect will surprise her parents.
3, put an end to partial eclipse, picky eaters
Sometimes we will hear the words "My baby only likes meat, not vegetables and fish". We need to know that children actually eat everything. But why is there such a statement? In fact, it is caused by parents' accommodation in childhood. Therefore, we should pay special attention to the partial eclipse in early childhood. To prevent children from being picky about food, parents should first set an example, and every dish should be delicious when eating. If our parents show that they don't want to eat, the children will definitely discount these dishes. If the child only eats one dish and ignores other dishes, then parents should put this dish away instead of accommodating the child, because this will not only affect the child's intake of comprehensive and sufficient nutrition, but also make the child develop a willful, selfish, uncontrollable and annoying character.
Ask her to do something.
It is understandable that parents nowadays regard their children as treasures. But we should also cultivate their self-reliance ability, because we can't stay with them all our lives. At home, we will let her do what she can, such as wearing her own clothes; Brush your teeth, wash your face and apply cream; Help hang clothes, fold quilts and carry stools. Of course, sometimes you may feel sad, but as long as you stick to it, there will be unexpected results. Now as long as it is her own thing, she will try to do it herself. If we help her, she will be angry.
Third, praise and encourage more, and establish self-confidence from an early age.
Many things about children sometimes seem trivial or even ridiculous to parents, but they are all a process of growth for children. We should always affirm our children and help them do better. In daily life, a little finger will give children spiritual encouragement, which will make them dare to say and do things and face anything with confidence. Every time we affirm her performance, she will show a proud and satisfied expression. We see it in our eyes and enjoy it in our hearts.
Fourth, take part in more activities.
Children are naturally fond of playing, and we can't stop them from doing this and that just to save effort. This will obliterate many abilities of children. It will also limit the development space of children. Activities can include some interests, such as painting, dancing, playing the piano, traveling, outdoor activities, making friends and physical exercise. But pay attention to persistence, don't fish for three days and dry the net for two days, and be careful not to impose your own requirements on your parents.
Fifth, give children the right to choose.
As mentioned earlier, don't impose your own requirements on your children, but let them have the right to choose. This is also a kind of respect for children, because children also have their own ideas and dignity as individuals. You can't deprive children of such rights just because they are still young. If children are forced to obey themselves too much, they will have rebellious psychology, which will make their psychology unable to grow healthily. Giving children the right to choose can help them know themselves, affirm their abilities and enhance their self-confidence. Tell stories before going to bed at night. We will let the baby choose a few stories to listen to today. She will tell two to five stories, and then she will sleep consciously after listening. Because she thinks it's her choice.
Sixth, strengthen safety awareness education.
There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so in the process of children's growth, it is necessary to cultivate their own safety awareness and strengthen education in this regard. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Cultivate children's safety awareness at the right time and in the right way, and teach them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to their different growth stages and different environments. Here, I would like to thank the kindergartens that launched a series of safety month activities soon after entering the park. By participating in activities, they formed a certain sense of security.
Being a parent for the first time is not an experience. I just want to share our experience with you. Finally, I hope to communicate with teachers and parents more, and let us work together to create a good environment for the healthy growth of children and make them happy.
As a mother of two daughters, I am ashamed. I don't care much about children's eating and drinking, and I know little about the theory and experience of parenting. Only in the process of getting along with children, through observation and practice, I have a little insight and share it with my mothers.
First, children are born different.
I felt the difference between Lou Lou and Xin Lou from the moment they were born. Although they all gave birth naturally, they were all breast-fed and brought up by the same aunt. Whether it is language development or personality characteristics, the two sisters are really worlds apart. Lulu was born smart and articulate. She can sing and recite poems and ride a bike at the age of one and a half, but Lulu is very sensitive, insecure and afraid of strangers. The new building is one and a half years old and still doesn't talk much. She is stubborn and bent on her own way. She was fearless and ran around.
At first, we were a little worried about the new building. How come we don't like reading and can't talk compared with girls? But slowly observing and expecting, the new building also has many bright spots in character. As a mother, having two daughters is the greatest blessing in my life. How can we be picky and compare? Understanding their differences and discovering their different highlights is the most important career in my life. I warn and remind myself that I can never say "You are far behind my sister …" "You should be like my sister …" and so on. I don't want them to feel the pressure of comparison, I want them to live in their own glory.
Second, my sister let Lou experience giving up and getting.
When the new building was born, although we did a lot of homework, the psychological impact my sister brought to the building was not small. Adults feel pressure when they encounter competition and exclusion at work, while children's performance is more direct. Lulu got a lot of information from the book about adding new members to her family. She is psychologically prepared and has a kind and sensible nature. Her performance more often reflects the rare forbearance of a three-year-old child. Because of this, I often feel sad and spend more energy on architecture. But the building itself, while experiencing the discomfort of giving up, is also constantly harvesting joy. One day, she told me excitedly, "Sister will call me Sister! She doesn't call others, she only calls her sister! "
On another occasion, she proudly said, "My sister is outside and everyone wants to hug her. She was frightened and threw herself into my arms. She wants me alone! " "What moved me even more was that one night when the three of us were at home, the power went out suddenly and it was dark. The new building cried at that time, and the building immediately said, "Mom is going to hold her sister, don't be afraid! "Now, anything you eat in the building should be given to your sister, and anything you buy should be saved for your sister. I also saw it from the growth of children. Don't care about children being wronged, don't worry that children will suffer. If you are not wronged, you won't know how to tolerate and understand. If you don't eat more losses, you won't feel too much sense of ownership.
Third, a mother can't ignore her own life.
The concept of equality between men and women means that the most unequal period has come. Women need to constantly balance work and family. Although I can also choose to be a full-time mother, on the one hand, my personality is seriously unsuitable. More importantly, my words and deeds are always affecting my daughters. I hope my more positive attitude towards life can bring them a positive impact. I hope that in their eyes, I am more than just a mother at home.
Now I'm often busy at work, sometimes I need to travel, and I have some necessary entertainment every week. Children are actually very adaptable. They understand that I am working, but mothers often feel uneasy themselves. Loulou often says, "When I grow up, I will go to work and earn money to buy you many beautiful things."
My husband and I agree that all aspects can be balanced and coordinated on the premise that family and children are always the first. We insist on picking up and dropping off our children personally every day and taking them to study by ourselves. A family of four travels every weekend, so as long as we are at home, we will accompany our children by ourselves. My husband and I play tennis every week, get together with friends every week, go to the movies occasionally after the children fall asleep at night, and I go for a walk after the children's lunch break on weekends.
Lulu knows that mom has a lot of things to do. In the eyes of children, everyone has their own space, and no one is around her 24 hours a day. Only when the mother is happy can the child be infected with happiness. Living like a butterfly, children can also feel the charm of their mothers. Lulu often says, "Mom, you are so beautiful, and I want to wear a beautiful skirt like you." She often fiddles with my things and says, "When I grow up, will you give me such a beautiful necklace?" I will buy a beautiful skirt and let her wear my necklace according to her request, and then tell her, "If you are kind, brave and strong, you will become a real princess."
It is often said that parents are teachers for their children all their lives, and their words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children's cognition of life. I think example is more important than words and deeds. In daily life, we have no reason to ask our children to do things we don't want to do, such as going to bed early and getting up early. We can't expect infinite from our children but have no demands on ourselves. If we want our daughter to be independent, confident, generous and elegant in the future, then ... let's start from ourselves!
Kindergarten parenting experience 3 For children's education, I have been groping for progress. While learning parenting books and predecessors, I also combine my children's characteristics for education. After going to kindergarten, the baby is growing sturdily under the careful cultivation of teachers. Her every progress makes us parents feel proud and proud. I mainly have the following four experiences.
First, appreciate education.
Appreciating children is the best way to cultivate their self-confidence. The loveliest thing about a child is not her cleverness and liveliness, but her confidence. Self-confidence will help her face the challenges from study and everything else bravely now and in the future. The process of cultivating self-confidence is a long-term, gradual and intangible process.
In daily life, a look, a gesture and a compliment from parents are invisible forces, which can stimulate children's fighting spirit, enhance their confidence and inspire their courage. When the baby takes the lead, gets a small sticker and takes the initiative to help us with housework, we will give her a "great" and give her an appreciative look. Our children grew up in such an atmosphere. It is natural and extremely simple for parents to love their children, but it is difficult to know how to love them. Numerous parenting practices have made us understand the truth that "if you love children, you must know how to appreciate them", and the effect of encouragement and praise is far better than reprimanding and beating.
Second, mutual respect.
Let children know how to respect teachers and parents, which will help children consciously correct their daily behavior. Teachers and parents are the most important and sacred people in children's minds. Establishing the prestige of teachers and parents in children's minds and letting children consciously and sincerely correct their behaviors according to the requirements of teachers and parents is helpful to cultivate children's good study habits and living habits, which is a valuable asset for children to benefit from all their lives. Let children learn to respect teachers, and ask parents to set an example and respect their own teachers. Parents should fully support and cooperate with everything that teachers ask them to support and cooperate, with the aim of establishing teachers' lofty prestige in children's minds.
The best way to teach children to respect their parents is to keep their promises. Let children keep their promises from childhood and know what a promise is. On the one hand, it helps to establish the prestige of parents, on the other hand, it helps to cultivate the excellent quality of children. At the same time, we should also respect children, who need equal education. There is a famous saying called "squat down to look after the children". We should kneel down to keep the same height as the children, look at the problem and the world with children's eyes, so as to truly respect and understand the children. Only under this premise, parents are more willing to actively create more time and space to understand, analyze and care for their children and provide them with the most suitable education.
Third, guide education.
"The father wants his son to become a dragon, and the mother wants his son to become a phoenix", which is the expectation of parents. However, if this expectation exceeds the range that children can bear, it will become a burden for children and hinder their happy and healthy growth. We don't want our baby to live for parents' expectations. Let children develop freely is the principle we have always adhered to in the process of educating children. However, free development does not mean laissez-faire. Teachers and parents are navigators in the process of children's growth. When she was in trouble, we gave timely guidance.
At the same time, pay attention to find her shortcomings, advantages and interests, and give targeted guidance. Our purpose is not to make her famous and have a family. We just hope that she will be more confident and appreciate the joy of life because of her own ability in her future life!
Fourth, the way parents educate their children should be coordinated.
In many families, fathers and mothers have different attitudes towards children's education. I think in family education, the mother is the main body and the father is the assistant. This is not to say that father's education is not important. On the contrary, fathers play a decisive role in the educational process. In children's minds, dad is the pillar of the family, the man of our family, and his words and deeds are role models for children. Therefore, in family education, dad should take the lead. While the father grasps the general direction, the mother pays attention to the details of education, and the educational methods are not contradictory, so as to educate the children well.
In my family, there are parents who criticize their children's shortcomings at the same time. Later, I learned that this would scare the child and make her lose confidence. I think such a thing should be avoided as far as possible. It is impossible for a child to grow up without making mistakes. As parents, we should have an tolerant heart, tolerate her shortcomings, guide her to correct her mistakes, keep calm, and don't take drastic actions, otherwise parents can't do a bad thing no matter how many good things they do. Please remember.
These are my four superficial experiences in parenting. We know that every step of the baby's growth is soaked with the teacher's hard work and sweat. I sincerely thank the teachers who helped my daughter acquire knowledge and grow up happily!