I seem to have no temperament and no confidence at all. What should I do? People should know themselves correctly, because there are great differences between people, and know their own personality strengths and weaknesses. Learning to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses helps to form your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect. To know yourself correctly, we must look at ourselves with a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people need to be confident to complete their goals and careers. ......

First of all, you should have confidence and think that you can do anything. Only when you realize that you can achieve your goal through your own efforts. Confirm from your heart that you can do it and encourage yourself. As long as you are mentally prepared, you won't back down because of a little difficulty. Believe that you can complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people should keep pace with the times. People's development goals change from time to time. As long as you overcome inferiority, build up self-confidence and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing can beat you; You will succeed in your studies or career. You are the most promising young man.

When you are confident, you should also learn to make friends. Only in the intimate words of friends can you be comforted, have a chance to speak boldly, and have an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express your opinions or suggestions, and dare to express your opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, you can integrate into society and get happiness.

Life without friendship is bleak, just like the earth has lost the light of the sun and its luster. Life without friendship is boring, just like a match that has withstood the tide. No matter how you rub it, you can't light the fire of hope of life. A life without friendship is an incomplete life. A person living in the world, since there is no friend, no friend's care, how can he appreciate the real pleasure of life?

Only a life full of friendship is full and meaningful. A philosopher said: two people share a pain, then there is only half the pain; When two people share one happiness, there are two happiness. When you are in trouble and embarrassed, you suddenly get sincere help from your friends, even if it is just a common word of comfort and encouragement. What will your mood be like? Will you feel that your heart has been released with a kind of comfort, and a warm current rises from your heart, making you full of confidence and energy? When you are ecstatic about your success, what will your mood be like if you get sincere blessings from your friends? Whether you feel happy or not.

Therefore, we need friendship and friends in our life. True happiness lies not in the number of friends, but in having intimate friends and intimate friends. We must be careful to find bosom friends in order to really enjoy the fun of friendship. In the vast Internet field, Qian Qian has thousands of friends, all of whom are your good friends. We won't leave you alone.

I hope you cherish your life, stay away from loneliness and be confident, so that your life will be wider and wider. When you have intimate friends, when you are full of confidence in your work, your career will be even more powerful and you will become a successful person! . .

After many failures, I am not confident at all. What if there are too many failures? For a person, there are only two outcomes: (1) more cheerful, get up after failure, and (2) become inferior and depressed. The difference between the two roads is really great, just like the difference between heaven and hell Everyone says that failure is the mother of success, but some failures will really make some people decadent and lack self-confidence, especially too many failures will often backfire. How can they succeed enough? Success is really far away in the eyes of these people. Even so, a person can choose his own ending, just to see if that person is willing to cheer up, make persistent efforts and stand up again after failure. Only those who can bear failure can succeed.

Why can a person be decadent after failure? You have said the answer, that is, confidence is gone. Confidence is really important for everyone. If you lose your confidence, you may even lose your future, so you can lose everything except your confidence. You have to tell yourself that you can't lose the future, so you have to be confident.

In fact, those who fail and can't get up will always be losers. Failure can only help those who make persistent efforts. Only those who fall, get up, fall and get up again can try the taste of success. You should also tell yourself that you can lose everything, but your confidence can't. Although you can't suddenly become a confident person, at least you should have a little confidence in yourself, believe in your ability and believe that you will succeed one day. Only those who persist can win.

Your failure will be your experience. These are all valuable knowledge, and you may not learn if you have money, so don't care too much about your failure. You have to think about it, why did you fail? Maybe you are not lucky enough, maybe your eyes are not good enough, and many reasons have led to your failure. You should learn from failure, don't let failure turn you into decadence, take failure as a lesson, so you won't be decadent.

It is because of your failure that you are cautious. When you do everything, you will think of many possibilities. You will think about what will happen if you do this, and what will happen if you do that, which will lead to your lack of confidence. If you worry too much, it is difficult to make a decision and move forward. Sometimes, it's no good thinking too much. Proper care is good, but too careful care is not good. Sometimes it is necessary to face risks properly in order to succeed. Any problems that arise in the middle should be solved calmly. As long as you have confidence and persistence, you can succeed.

Tell you a story: a businessman inherited his father's business and started a jewelry business. However, he lacked the ability to do business, and the jewelry industry was heavily invested, high-tech and risky, so he decided to quit. He sold his only property, switched to fashion design and started a clothing business. However, he failed again. He sold a clothing store and opened a restaurant with money, but he was wrong again. Even several people he hired went to other restaurants, leaving him alone. Later, he tried to do cosmetics business, watch business, printing and dyeing business, and all failed without exception. At this time, he was 52 years old. Since his father gave him the jewelry store, 25 precious years have been stained with failure. He has no self-confidence and thinks he has no talent for business. He calculated his family background and used all his money to buy himself a cemetery so that he could have a home after his death. But he never imagined that 15 days later, he bought the cemetery and * * * announced the plan to build a ring expressway. His cemetery is just inside the ring road, next to a crossroads. He never dreamed that he could make a fortune from the cemetery. He suddenly realized why he stopped doing real estate. He sold the cemetery and bought some land that he thought even had potential. He finally succeeded.

A small chance can change a person's fate. Many times, opportunities are waiting in front of life. The key is patience and discovery. So don't be too disappointed. No one knows your future. Maybe one day you will get ahead.

If you still have no confidence, then think about your own advantages and what talents you have. For example, you are very talented, and you are very talented in painting and photography. In my spare time, I will study more about my talents, do more things I like, do more things I am interested in, look at and appreciate my works, and my self-confidence will be improved.

If you have no confidence in your career, you can do something you are sure of, and you will do it well. If you do well, you will climb up slowly step by step. In a few years, you will climb high and have confidence. Don't hesitate too much. When you make a decision, you should go forward bravely and bear any setbacks. Don't be discouraged, make persistent efforts. Everything should be done step by step, step by step, and don't be too impatient. One day, you will succeed.

You haven't really developed your talents. Just like that story, he engaged in many kinds of business, but all failed because he didn't know where his talent was. Later, he realized that he actually had a good eye for real estate. Don't feel too inferior.

As long as you don't give up, persistence is victory!

I seem to be possessed. What should I do? In ancient times, it was said that it was a poisonous insect cultivated artificially. Originated from Nanzhao State in Sui Dynasty (now southern Yunnan and northern Vietnam). Miao people in Yunnan are very good at witchcraft and magic. Legend has it that magic is a mysterious witchcraft handed down from ancient times in China. The magical power of Meishan School in central Hunan and western Hunan has spread very well. Scholars and bachelors make legends, and the Han people who write seem to feel related; Some medical scientists also believe it and write down some cures.

But too few people know this now.

If there is anything strange or unusual in your body, you should go to the hospital immediately. This is the most appropriate and safest way. Go to the hospital for a check-up and you'll know what the reason is. It's hard to say whether it's a method or not.

Preventive action editor

There are tangible and intangible identification methods after poisoning. Poisoning is extremely easy, but we should pay great attention to the identification methods.

Identification method after poisoning:

1. Eat raw soybeans (black beans are also acceptable), and there is no fishy smell at the entrance, which is poisoning.

2. Chew with moxibustion licorice one inch, and the throat juice will spit out, which is poisoning.

3. Insert the silver needle into the cooked duck egg, including the mouth, and take it out one hour later. If protein is black, it is poisoned. The method of poisoning is very powerful and can make people sick and die. Although there is a cure, don't try it easily.

It is said that the prevention methods are:

1. The houses there are clean and tidy, and there are no dust cobwebs. They are treasures of collectors, so don't associate with them.

Before drinking tea, drinking water, eating vegetables, eating rice, etc., anyone needs to knock on the cups and bowls with chopsticks. It is poisoning. Anxiously asked the host: "Is the dish poisonous?" If you ask, you can avoid drugs.

3. Travel with garlic. Eat garlic first with every meal. You throw up at the first move. If you don't spit, you die. The shopkeeper is afraid of getting into trouble. Of course, he dare not play tricks.

4. Large water chestnuts, no matter how many, can be sliced and dried into powder, and cooked with hollow soup every morning (calculated at two yuan), which can also avoid harm.

5. Food and wine poisoning is particularly difficult to treat, and it is not appropriate to drink alcohol when going out. The most common detoxification method is to swallow realgar, garlic seeds and calamus with boiling water to detoxify. Gold silkworm, most afraid of being like a mouse, has a hedgehog with prickly hair like a boar arrow, so hedgehog is a specific medicine for treating gold silkworm's method. Others, such as centipedes and earthworms, can often be cured.

Methods are often associated with the causes of diseases. As a speculation on the etiology, the concept of method reflects people's cognitive way. From a pathogenic insect to a generalized pathogenic virus, and then to a disease name with no clear definition, the usage of separating the disease name from the syndrome name appeared later. The change of the meaning of [1] "ancient" has always reflected the basic characteristics of imagination and hypothesis. Traditional Chinese medicine has not been able to get rid of the shackles of imagination for a long time. The diagnosis of diseases by TCM makes the accusations of witchcraft covered by the facts of diseases.

Witches and methods have their own meanings. The combination of witchcraft is used to refer to black witchcraft. Later, it refers to a kind of black witchcraft related to the use of magic, or witchcraft is the imagination of a kind of witchcraft with magic.

Influenced by Buddhism and Taoism, the concept of ghosts and gods in Han society has evolved. The imagination of the cause is combined with the imagination of using black magic. In this combination process, anecdotes played an important role. Traditional Chinese medicine's treatment of "ancient diseases" is based on the imagination of etiology and black witchcraft. Such an idea about evil individuals and their spells was also derived. People are afraid of disease or witchcraft.

The oppression of disease is associated with imaginary evil. These evil people have become enemies of society. Officials, wizards, doctors, monks, Taoist priests, and compilers of mystery novels, historical records and local chronicles all accuse witches of evil and crimes in their own ways, or soothe people's illness and suspicion, or spread preventive methods and coping methods. They are as afraid of evil witchcraft as ghosts and gods. People imagine that people with "magic" are demonized.

Since the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the Han people have frequent contacts with ethnic minorities in southern China. A large number of Han immigrants came from Jiangnan to what they thought was a wild land, facing unfamiliar natural environment and hostile ethnic minorities around them. They suffer from new diseases and difficulties. Traditional Chinese medicine's explanation of these diseases and unfriendly ethnic groups around them aroused their belief in witchcraft in history. They use the concept of witchcraft to explain diseases, and also use it to prosecute and plunder ethnic minorities. Sardonar Lee pointed out some reasons for this rumor about ethnic minorities. However, due to the lack of field investigation, there are some defects in the detailed analysis. For example, when discussing Yao divination, the author accidentally confused Yao witchcraft with witchcraft. [2] This difference is just like "divination" in Zhouyi, which has nothing to do with our definition of witchcraft.

This witchcraft imagination of Miao people not only happened to Han Chinese as immigrants, but also happened to many "aborigines". Zhuang, Buyi and Dong people with a high degree of sinicization also imagine the evil of Miao people living in the mountains. No matter the imagination of Han people, Zhuang people, Buyi people and Dong people, it has played a practical role in strengthening national boundaries and maintaining national distance in real life. When Zhuang, Buyi and Dong imagine the danger of Miao witchcraft, they are also dangerous in the imagination of Han people. [3]

In Qiang between Han and Tibetan, Mr. Wang Mingke described the phenomenon that Qiang people "scold one by one". In the ethnic chain of witchcraft accusations, Han people imagine and accuse ethnic minorities, especially Miao people of witchcraft; Zhuang people and Dong people, although also imagined by Han people, are also imagined by Miao people. Strangely, this imaginary relationship is one-way between ethnic groups, and Han people will not be imagined as treasure-jugglers.

Since the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the Han people have entered a large number of areas where Miao people live in compact communities. In the cultural communication between Miao and Han people, the witchcraft concept of Han people may enter Miao society through wizards, medical skills and literary works, and be internalized by Miao people.

The concept of witchcraft was introduced into Miao society by Han wizards, doctors, literati and Miao wizards (or other wizards) influenced by this concept, and combined with the original concept of ghosts and gods in Miao society. This formed the concept of witchcraft in Miao society.

Judging from the witchcraft legends and stories in Miao society, it is likely to be transformed from the witchcraft concept of Han people.

Those who move here with small families, poor social relations and bad reputation can easily become victims of witchcraft accusations in Miao society. They generally lack the ability and conditions to counter rumors. Some have become the object of rejection and accusation, passed down from generation to generation. The belief in witchcraft in Miao society has formed related marriage taboos.

Miao people's strong belief in ghosts and gods, reverence for ancestors, simplicity and kindness, and jealousy of evil make witchcraft belief exist for a long time and cannot be eliminated.

The legend of "witch" is often put at two extremes, one is beauty; One is ugly. Are all unusual characteristics. By emphasizing this feature, we can also emphasize their identity as the other. For the beautiful "witch girl", there is often the influence of gender consciousness. Some lepers have the same legend. In addition, there may be a certain proportion of "prostitutes" whose appearance is influenced by consanguineous marriage. People who are slandered by rumors are often described as handsome men and beautiful women. Because these families are much larger than ordinary families, the author dares to speculate that they drowned disabled children. Limited resources are used to cultivate healthy and excellent people. These men and women who are excluded from the main intermarriage circle all have considerable appearance, and the characteristics of appearance have been strengthened after the marriage of close relatives. Therefore, the beauty of "The Witch" may have a certain realistic basis in addition to its great imagination.

I seem to be online dating. What should I do? Cherish your wife. . . . Online games. . Have you seen that woman? Just four chats. Doesn't mean anything. . . It doesn't matter if you try. After all, it is a man. . But you have to be mentally prepared. Hehe, you have a home. . There are small ones. . There are some necessary consequences for you to bear. ~ ~ ~ Think at the worst ~ ~

What should I do? I seem to have changed my mind. It always happens. All right. It'll be all right in a minute. It's just a change of mood

Self-control is not strong, what should I do? Completely unaware. Brother, shake hands! I have no self-control either ... Please help my classmates and family around me. Let them supervise us! But it is best to exercise yourself, set a goal or find an idol. Come on!

I seem to be in trouble. What should I do to see what kind of trouble I am in?

But on the whole, you are not advised to escape, because these are all things you have done, so you should be brave enough to face and solve this trouble.

If you can't afford it, you can seek help from your family and friends, and even the law.

If you can bear it, try to bear it.

I seem to be possessed. What should I do? 1. Solutions for patients with mental illness:

It is strongly recommended to go to the hospital for treatment. Receive psychological and caring treatment. Patients with mental illness need people's understanding and care to recover slowly. Experiment with mental recovery therapy. It is illustrated by various realistic examples that ghosts and evil do not exist and are determined by human spirit, so we should treat them spiritually.

2, evil:

Fitness is strongly recommended. The so-called lack of spirit, all evil into. Have a healthy body, not only not sick, like these ghosts and evil spirits are not close. Naturally, it can be avoided. Solve problems with Taoist internal strength. The charm is to adjust the physiological magnetic field of evil people and people possessed by ghosts to the natural magnetic field through some electromagnetic induction, and the charm is to adapt the natural magnetic field to the human body through sound waves. Of course, I don't want to operate this method. After all, the development of science will make people define this curse as feudal superstition.

I seem to have been cheated. What should I do? I should see if I can recover the loss first and then call the police.

I seem to have done something bad. . What should I do? Apologize separately from your parents, then let them communicate with each other and admit their mistakes. If it doesn't work temporarily, it shouldn't be very important. What matters is the way and attitude of your apology. If the misunderstanding between parents is uncovered, it should not be so serious.