Time flies. In a blink of an eye, most of our women retired at home after 50 years old, and the dream of a better retirement life is about to begin.
However, for us women, life is more about responsibility and obligation. When I was young, I liked to live a lively life every day. As I grow older, I feel that quiet solitude is the best way to enjoy life.
In life, those women who like to be quiet and alone are the ones who know the true meaning of life best. In their minds, silence is the spice of life, the luxury of life and a good attitude towards life.
Especially for us retired women, if we can enjoy the rest of our lives quietly, we will have a different life for our inner cultivation.
The senior leader of our Taiji team is 56 years old and has been practicing Tai Ji Chuan for ten years. Now, she prefers to find a comfortable place alone, and enjoy the happiness of Tai Chi in the world of music and Tai Chi.
Sometimes, we will meet in the path of the square, talk about Tai Chi together and talk about life after retirement.
Gao Jie told me that we women used to think that we were gregarious and learned to practice Tai Ji Chuan with large troops. It is lively and seemingly gorgeous, but more often, behind all this noise, it is boring and lonely.
When you really enjoy a person's Tai Chi biography, you will understand the charm and happiness of quietness, and realize that quietness is the best life for us women.
When you are happy to share your joy with others, because you feel the connotation of a boxing game and want to share it with others, you find that it is only your own monologue; When I am unhappy, I want to talk to someone, only to find that no one wants to listen.
Life is a lonely existence, and those so-called bustling noises are just people's inner desires. When we get used to an emotion that we can't digest alone, although it seems lonely, life is not good.
This kind of life is actually the happiest day for our retired women and a rare enjoyment of life.
Retired, has withdrawn from the interpersonal stage at work, should learn to get rid of, set sail again, rather than looking for the so-called prosperity.
Quiet is the best choice for us retired women. Quiet is not only the enjoyment of our soul, but also a kind of self-released leisure and a free life.
If you can really enjoy quiet solitude, you will certainly enjoy all the benefits of silence. Maybe you can't see it for a while, but after a few years, you are still the same, and your heart will be more peaceful.
Writer Xue Xiaochan said: When people reach a certain age, they have to recycle. When they received the last one, they had three confidants, a cup of light tea, and lived in the way they wanted.
When we women retire, we quit the historical stage of work, so we don't need to participate in those useless social activities, let alone see whose face we are playing. Live high, live high, is our most correct choice.
Some people think they can find their place in the crowd. It seems that they have no friends around them, feel lonely and feel that their days are too boring.
In fact, think about it, those so-called gregarious, so-called well-connected, well-connected people, or the pursuit of high emotional intelligence in the crowd can only make you fall into a strange circle of chasing fame and profit when you are old.
Life is limited, and everyone is retired. Don't waste energy and time on meaningless things, cherish the freest self at the moment, live a better self and meet the best self in quiet solitude.
When people retire, it is a quiet blessing to adjust their mentality in time, not to panic, not to please, not to chase, to precipitate their mood, to experience the truth of life, and to enjoy the beauty of life simply and quietly.
In quiet solitude, savor the fragrance of fireworks in life, enjoy the beauty of solitude in time, truly let go of the complexity and triviality of the world and be a quiet woman.
It is said that being able to enjoy the beauty of quiet solitude is a luxury that we retired women can't buy with money. Not only washed our hearts, but also calmed our hearts, and talked to our hearts alone in quiet solitude.
In the quiet solitude, we enjoy life gracefully. Under the autumn sunshine, a book and a cup of warm black tea, under the ginkgo tree on the moonlit night, we quietly play a set of Tai Ji Chuan of our own.
Such quiet time alone is a top luxury for us women. You don't need to turn on the light by mistake, you don't need to push a cup for a change, you just need to enjoy the beautiful scenery quietly.
Zhou Zeng said: The human body is dominated by thoughts, and a good attitude is the best health care.
After we retire, the most talked about topic is health preservation. The most basic thing for keeping in good health is to cultivate your mind first, to cultivate it well, to calm your mind, and everything will be quiet.
From the heart, those women who are old and young are not so rich in life, but so quiet in mind.
Those women who start to get angry and complain without saying a few words will eventually make themselves look like they used to hate. Because of their bad mentality, they also changed their appearance.
Most women with a good attitude like quiet people. They will face all kinds of complicated things in life with a smile and think of ways and measures quietly, instead of putting the blame on anyone or blaming anyone.
Quiet will make women not panic, quickly get a clue, better control their emotions, and keep themselves in an active position, instead of being at a loss and looking for solutions outside.
A quiet woman can let herself precipitate in reflection, calm down in life and become peaceful and peaceful. The face of a woman with such a mentality must be peaceful, beautiful and comfortable.
Gao Jie said that when we retired women like silence, we add a good condiment to the rest of our lives.
A woman's best life begins with retirement. The good and bad of the past are gone. We must learn to let go and give up moderately in order to live our own retirement life.
Quiet solitude after retirement will make women love themselves more and more, feel that their life is still so young and beautiful, and will enjoy life more actively.
I used to work, work, study, life, children, the elderly and my wife. Now that I am retired, I quietly tidy up my room at home, read my favorite books, drink a cup of fragrant tea, talk to my heart quietly, feel my beauty, and make my retirement more comfortable.
It is said that women are the vane of the family. Women can enjoy life quietly after retirement, and their wives around them will enjoy life naturally.
Every day, colorful meals, warm words, clean and tidy home and mutual care between husband and wife have made our retirement a beautiful old life.
Retirement is a starting point of life and a voyage of our own life.
Women who can be quiet and alone must be quiet and powerful, and they will enjoy quiet and alone as a luxury in life; I will also make my old age wonderful and elegant in every corner of my life with a quiet and lonely mind; I will also regard quiet solitude as a condiment in my life, so that the rest of my life will be beautiful and happy!
A retired woman who can be quiet and alone is the one who knows life best. Because no matter how old she is, she can live the life she wants and live a comfortable life. A person with a rich heart must be a person who likes to be quiet and alone!