So how can we enhance our charm and become a "heartthrob" that everyone loves?
First of all, a special place, special you.
When a man starts a new love, the first sentence of a friend is "beautiful" or "where did you meet?" There are many reasons why these kind people ask lovers and beautiful women where they first met. However, the ultimate reason why men ask about the place where they first met is because they want to know what kind of woman a beautiful woman belongs to.
It may sound mysterious, but it's true. You know, women are all the same, but because they meet in different places, they feel different to men. Therefore, women must understand the causal relationship between the places where they go in and out and the people. For example, you often go to bookstores and nightclubs, which gives men a completely different feeling. Or maybe you are a frequent visitor to a tasteful health club, which is different from all kinds of luxury stores you frequented. The former gives the impression that you attach great importance to the quality of life, while the latter gives the impression that you are a nouveau riche.
So, dear ladies, please think carefully before deciding where you should appear.
Second, you are waiting for an adventure.
When it comes to love, men like "cumulative winning rate". There are many ways for a man to "accumulate winning percentage", such as through his own sex times or according to his love experience, but "adventure" must be an indispensable way for a man to accumulate winning percentage, which is also commonly known as "chatting up". So how can you attract men to talk to you?
Fortunately, it is often not because of your looks that men like to strike up a conversation. Although a woman with outstanding appearance can get extra points, in the process of chatting up, the atmosphere is far more important than appearance, and what is more important than atmosphere is your attitude. I don't know, even a beautiful woman, as long as she keeps texting or her mobile phone is close to her ear, who else can strike up a conversation with you smoothly? This kind of woman not only has a low rate of being accosted, but also blocks the possibility of others approaching.
However, if a woman sits firmly in the corner of a street cafe with the expression "Oh, it's so boring, it's better to have a short shock to relieve boredom" and the jade finger turns the coffee cup, it will definitely attract men to approach her. Therefore, in the streets, cafes, every moment and corner of daily life, we should always keep the mentality of waiting for a prince charming who has not yet arrived. This is the most practical preparation for meeting prince charming unexpectedly.
As a woman waiting to strike up a conversation, the most suitable position is a seat that can accept all the scenes indoors and outside the window. I strongly recommend Starbucks, or a window seat in a slow-paced coffee shop. In addition, relax your vision during the waiting period, and it is easy to observe pedestrians or drinkers passing by. Don't forget, men prefer to talk to women who are looking out of the window, rather than busy women.
Third, you are smiling at the electric eye.
Men always look around, which is one of the most striking differences between men and women. No matter what he does, men will look around. They don't do this to find something specific, or to have something novel to attract their attention. It's just nature.
In any case, because of this innate habit of men, women will meet men's eyes without preparation. At this time, most women will feel that men's eyes are full of teasing and take an attitude of ignoring them as much as possible. But doing so often loses many beautiful encounters. If a man's eyes stay on you, it means that this man has a strong affection for you. Please don't judge him as a frivolous person on the grounds of "judging people only by their appearances". In a sense, excluding factors such as birth, education, property, etc., it will be more sincere feelings to have a good impression only by appearance.
Therefore, when you feel the sight of the opposite sex coming, please raise your head decisively to judge each other and carefully observe every detail of him. If you feel "electrocuted", you should take care of each other's eyes with a smile. From the nature of men, as long as there is a woman's smile, they are destined to move forward. Because they will think that a woman's smile carries an amazing marriage.
Fourth, "chest light" if you now.
In today's fashion, how to "bare" is more important than how to "cover". Since the expression "sexy" is no longer an ugly dirty word, but has become a commendatory term to praise and envy iele, then we have reason to consider how to be naked, how to attract men's attention and attract good feelings.
Compared with women, men pay more attention to visual judgment, so women need to master the degree and scope of "nudity" and the effective means of "nudity" in order to attract men's attention.
The premise of "nudity" is appropriate, not the more the better. If you are naked a lot, it will attract a lot of men's attention, but it will not cause men's good feelings. Just as men rarely have sexual fantasies when they see completely naked women, but they fantasize that women wear stockings and short skirts, women's nudity should have a feeling of "appearing naked", so it is the ability to make men "brazen" and turn around frequently.
Fifth, your smell.
In fact, women don't understand the truth: men don't have to look for it, let them look for it themselves. It should be noted that creating good conditions for men to take the initiative to come to the door is an effective way for women to find the right husband. This is far from waiting for a man. At this time, perfume is one of the effective "weapons" to promote men to take the initiative to come to the door.
There is a fact that we can't deny that the fragrance that a man accidentally smells from a woman can stimulate him more than any words and actions. According to the law that "men can only take the initiative to find their way", "fragrance" is an essential virtue for women.
The first condition for emitting good fragrance is harmony with time and place, that is, the fragrance of women should be completely integrated into the atmosphere of the venue.
The second condition is suitable and natural, too much is not enough, and it is better not to wear perfume if the fragrance is too strong.
The highest level of using perfume is "smelling nature". Compared with the strong perfume smell that can be smelled from 100 meters away, the fragrance that attacks people when passing by is more charming. The specific point is "the feeling that the fragrance just hits people, but it floats away."
Women remember that beauty can attract men's attention for a while, but eyebrows without fragrance will never be effective for a long time.
Sixth, you have a beautiful back.
If you ask me, "women can arouse men's good feelings just by their backs." You may find it a little puzzling. However, the attractive figure of a woman has magical power, which adds more mystery and expectation. As long as you observe carefully, it is not difficult to find an example of "just because the back is charming, you can't help but go over and chat up." Different from the front of a big book, a woman's back can not only show her naked heart to a man, but also show her clever hidden side. It is through the observation of a woman's back that a man imagines and believes the truth hidden in the depths. From this point, it can be said that "the back of a woman is actually the door to her soul."
Seeing a woman's neat and beautiful back, men will think you are a good woman with good behavior, while seeing a woman with messy back, men will definitely think she is a sloppy and lazy girl. In daily life, we often ignore the invisible parts of ourselves, but we don't know that these invisible parts are far more important than the visible parts. Although men are easily attracted to women with beautiful positive images, it is easier for men to walk into women when they see their beautiful back.
Therefore, a woman with a beautiful back, although it may look ordinary, will certainly exude a strong charm. Women must understand that between "beauty" and "charm", men will definitely choose charm.