Everything is bitter, only to cross the river.

Adults are two-faced people who slap themselves in the face.

How hypocritical are adults living?

That is, the night before, I was so sad that I kept saying "life is not worth it".

When I got up the next morning, I had to say to myself, it was another energetic day.

Who doesn't have a few late-night friends who complain about the hard times of life?

Who hasn't been overwhelmed by trivial things in life countless times?

But what can we do?

There is no choice but to persist.

Because people will say:

However, there are not so many big things to die for in life.

It's always those moments that defeat us:

He slandered his wonderful work, bullied his fool, and made a remark about his loved ones.

Those casual indifference in other people's mouths suddenly piled up, making us despair of the world again.

But these, nowhere to say, everyone is very tired, and no one understands these nuances.

"Please answer 1988" and say:

Those who don't say that they are wronged and say that they are melodramatic can only swallow and digest themselves.

So countless people pretend to be energetic during the day and no one cries at night. Pain is always a sniper's shot at night, and no one can stop it.

Adults need to arrange their time in advance even if they collapse.

On the day my friend divorced, no one knew.

As usual, she arrived at the office on time, squeezed the subway for breakfast, prepared meeting materials for the leaders, cooperated with colleagues, and talked and laughed with customers.

It was blue that day, and her state was like a breeze, as professional as usual.

Until a weekend, everyone got together and someone asked, why are you alone today?

After three rounds of wine, she was left with only her mouth and no tears:

"We have been apart for a month."

"What? ! Why didn't you say something so big? ! "Everyone was shocked.

What's the difference between speaking early and speaking late? It's already like this. Do we have to delay another day?

Yes, adults have their grievances, as always. Your collapse is your own business and has nothing to do with others.

We are no longer the children who can get into bed in a bad mood and ignore anyone for three days and three nights.

Of course not.

Even if others agree, I can't bear it.

The moment she finished, I suddenly thought of what Vivian Wu said to Sun Li in The Story of Hot Mom:

Ruthless and biting, but the reality is hopeless.

Yes, life is too hard. No one wants to risk losing his career and let his emotions get out of control when he just fell out of love.

Want to collapse and cry? Please arrange the time first.

The favorite place for adults is the bathroom.

Because only there can you be yourself.

Cry if you want, cry if you want, and give yourself courage through the sound of bath water.

Then dry your tears, walk out of a few square meters of sadness and give the world a smiling face.

No matter how collapsed a few minutes ago, I turned around and it was still that powerful mother, virtuous wife, sensible daughter and capable employee.

Many articles tell us:

Be an emotionally stable adult. You can't cry at this age No more willfulness, no more growling.

You see, the sadness of growing up is that you have lost the right to cry.

Once released willfully, it seems to be a heinous crime.

But whose life is easy?

Behind the glamorous, a chicken feather. Under happiness, endless sadness.

I like Fan Tiantian who dares to love and hate, always careless, always talking loudly and laughing loudly.

People think that she lives a carefree life, but how many people know the pain of washing and cooking for her boyfriend, giving everything and accompanying her for eight years, and finally drawing water with a sieve?

People saw her powerful and reckless appearance, who would have thought that the role she begged for was only one minute left.

The father brought friends and relatives to support his daughter. Finally, in the cinema, everyone can't find the flash. Who knows the embarrassing situation?

Some people say that the so-called maturity means turning crying into a silent mode. No matter how sad I am, I won't tell anyone because I know it's useless.

Apart from superficial comfort, perfunctory understanding and hurried company, the rest are still lonely and face the difficulties of life alone.

Liveliness is only a temporary consumable, and it is loneliness that supports your life.

There is a classic saying in "Good Sir":

Do you know the biggest difference between adults and children?

Adults should clean up their own mess.

It's as small as a messy home after indulging in drunkenness, and as big as a company waiting for your punishment after desperate disappearance.

In other words, it is an outbreak of serious illness and minor disasters in a rage.

We can't afford anything.

So if you think about it, forget it and put up with it.

When I went to see the movie Nobody, my friend said that the role of Chen Jianbin was so humbled.

The whole person is a word: mourning. Two words: unlucky.

Yes, it is not easy to live.

But, you see, he is still trying to live.

For dignity, for inner strength, for dreams, for love, for being different.

The most popular sentence in these two years is probably: this world is not worth it.

However, many people will still add:

The world is not worth it, but you are.

Everything is bitter, only to cross the river.

Life is not easy, I hope to cherish it.

So, no matter how sad you are now, take a deep breath and clear your mind.

When you wake up, it is a new life.

Theme of this issue

Have you ever held back your sadness?

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Author: Xing Yan, a rational Pisces woman, is a media person from overseas returnees. Expose the truth of life and write a warm-hearted life. I wish you a sense of security through vicissitudes of life. Weibo: Xing Yan WeChat official account: Xing Yan speaks (ID: Xing Yan speaks). Please contact the author for authorization.

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