What is impatience?
The convenience of society stifles people's patience, and in the process of losing patience, our input ability becomes weaker and weaker. As we all know, on the one hand, it is weak, on the other hand, it is strong. Similarly, when the input ability is weak, people's impetuous spirit becomes stronger. Impetuous qi is the product of indulgence of desire, which is produced for the convenience of catering to the weakness of human nature. The common feature of these weaknesses is that they always attract mankind to a more comfortable and faster road.
Come to think of it, it is normal for people to live in such an atmosphere full of desires at all times. This also fully shows that we are always making our patience weaker and weaker.
For example, anything we want, as long as the idea of "wanting" appears, the next step is to get it as soon as possible, because there are many convenient conditions, our needs can be met immediately, especially in material enjoyment. If we encounter resistance that we can't get quickly, we will have any shortcuts and take shortcuts without hesitation. People pay more attention to the result than the process, and the process is just a means, as long as the goal is achieved. Many times, if you don't think about it, you will bring those negative effects to yourself later, but only think about the result, because the result can satisfy that kind of psychological "want", which makes many people simply unaware, and sometimes ignoring the process may be fatal.
For example, I saw a report a few days ago about a health video. A person saw an online report about health preservation and said that he could prevent the three highs and so on. He joined a health club, and after listening to the people in the group talking about the various benefits of health care, he also practiced it himself. He stayed in the intensive care unit for seven or eight days, that is, he didn't eat for seven or eight days, and finally he got himself into the intensive care unit, causing kidney failure.
Some people may think it's ridiculous for me to tell this report. Does anyone really think that skipping meals for seven or eight days in a row can bring health? In fact, there are such people. It can be seen that sometimes it is really acceptable to do whatever it takes to achieve an urgent goal. This is probably a bug of human nature. Some purposes, if examined irrationally, ignore the means, the negative impact will be particularly serious and even life-threatening.
The core reason of this wonderful phenomenon is impatience with the result and eagerness for success, because cognition is blinded by the desired result, and there is no question about this process at all. This reminds me that a few years ago, when Apple's mobile phone was the hottest, a person had no money to buy it, or even sold his kidney to buy an Apple mobile phone. Although this case is extreme, it also fully shows that people sometimes have no lower limit for a desired purpose.
People lose patience and do things only by desire. More often, they use brute force, and their cognition will become very low. They don't talk about strategies and rules at all. At this time, people can do anything to achieve a desired goal, which may be insignificant to outsiders, but for himself, they can't get it, and there is a very strong sense of loss in their hearts. This feeling is his own. Finally, patience is eroded a little, and people lose their autonomy.