After the artist's twins married his wife, Mr. Wang gave birth to his son "Brother Jun" and gave birth to his daughter "Qiao Mei" 10 years later. Chen Weiling, who often shares the details of parenting life on Facebook, once said to his son, "Qiao Mei, my brother will take care of you for a lifetime when he grows up." . "I was moved to tears and posted a few days ago to share. Counting the changes made by my son for my sister makes people feel intimate!
Chen Weiling's post revealed that since her daughter was born, this 1 1 year-old son was often asked: "Do you love your sister? Every time my son will respond quickly and seriously, "Of course! Please. Qiao Mei has been here 10 years since I prayed! Mother Chen Weiling even mentioned six major changes made by her son Ge Jun for her sister, including not having to go abroad to play, washing her hands as soon as she gets home every day, knowing that she can't sleep with her parents anymore, knowing that she should whisper at home, helping her get things when she goes out, and even learning to wait and cultivate patience in everything.
Chen Weiling regarded his son Ge Jun as an only child for ten years and always enjoyed the love of his parents. Now he has begun to learn to share the burden for Qiao Mei, and specially posted a confession to his son, "My baby Ge Jun, thank you for your mother, I am proud of you. You are doing very well. My mother knows that you will be the big brother who loves Sister Joe the most in the future. Many fans who are both parents are also very moved after reading the post, saying, "Tears are in my eyes after reading it", and some fans said that my brother's big hand will definitely win the respect of my sister. " The friendship between brother and sister is great! 」
Learning to live in harmony between brothers and sisters is what every parent is happy to see. However, hostility and comparison between children are often inevitable. The rivalry between brothers and sisters often makes parents feel powerless. Older children feel abandoned by their parents. When parents feel that they must protect the disadvantaged, they unconsciously intervene in the battle for affection between children.
When there is jealousy or dispute between brothers and sisters, parents should avoid punishing the strong in order to protect the weak, which will only make one of them resentful. Parents can transfer hostility through the responsibility between brothers and sisters. For example, they can give older children more opportunities to take care of younger brothers and sisters. When changing a baby's diaper, you can ask an older child to help you change the diaper or change clothes. Or you can give the boiled milk to an older child and let him feed it to his younger brothers and sisters. Using children's innate sense of responsibility to establish a harmonious brotherhood will not only help children affirm and respect themselves, but also help them learn the meaning of sharing and cherishing.
Parents must understand the characteristics of each child and treat them in a way suitable for children; Children can also learn more about the differences between themselves and their siblings from the different ways parents treat their children, and learn to respect and understand each other. If a child complains about unfairness or injustice, he can say, "I'm glad your personality is different, not losing your temper." Although he treats you in different ways, he may speak loudly to you. That's because his brother/sister is more attentive and more sensible! However, my mother loves you with the same love.
Set aside exclusive time with older children, communicate with parents alone, and let children know that he will always be the most important person in your heart. Home is like a big circle, and parents, brothers and sisters are small circles in the big circle. Every small circle has increased more love, and the love of parents will only increase, and it will never decrease because of who appears.