Confucius said, "Little women are very difficult to get along with. Get close to him, and he will be unscrupulous. Let a woman go home, she will quarrel with you, be unhappy and alienate the villain, and he will deliberately torture you. If you leave home after being angry, women will become dissatisfied women and blame you. "

It is also a China word that only women are difficult to raise. Pinyin is wéI nǐzǐyǔXi m:o r nán y m:ng yě, which means that people like you (referring to Zigong) are the most difficult to get along with. From chapter 17 of The Analects of Confucius, Yang Huo said, "Only women are difficult to raise, and those who are near are inferior, and those who are far away complain."

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Confucius said, "Only women are hard to raise. If they are close, they will feel inferior. If they are far away, they will complain. "

To annotate ...

(1) villain: as opposed to a gentleman.

(2) raising: refers to getting along. Get along well.

(3) Sun: The word "training" refers to resignation and concession.

Confucius said, "Only women are difficult to get along with. If you are near, you are unhappy; If you are far away, you will be blamed. "

The Analects of Confucius is one of the classic works of Confucian school, which was compiled by Confucius' disciples and their descendants. It mainly records the words and deeds of Confucius and his disciples, and embodies Confucius' political opinions, logical thoughts, moral concepts and educational principles.

It is also called "Four Books and Five Classics" with Daxue, The Doctrine of the Mean, Mencius, The Book of Songs, Shangshu, Book of Rites, Yijing and Chunqiu. There are twenty popular Analects of Confucius.