1, Boya and subcycle
Boyazi period is often used to describe bosom friends. This story comes from Liezi Tang Wen. The idiom "high mountains and flowing water" is a metaphor for bosom friends and wonderful music.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a man named Yu Boya in the State of Chu. He was proficient in temperament and superb in piano skills. But he always feels that he can't express his feelings about all kinds of things with fascination. After the teacher knew it, he took him to Penglai Island in the East China Sea by boat, so that he could enjoy the natural scenery and listen to the waves of the sea. Boya saw the waves surging, the waves splashing and seabirds flying.
When I hear the sound, it seems that the harmonious and beautiful music of nature has sounded in my ear. He couldn't help playing the piano, and his voice turned at will, melting the beauty of nature into the sound of the piano, but no one could understand his music. He felt very lonely and miserable.
One night, Boya traveled by boat. Facing the cool breeze and bright moon, he was full of thoughts, playing the piano, and the piano sounded melodious. Suddenly, he felt someone listening to his piano. Boya saw a woodcutter standing on the shore and invited him aboard. Boya played a song praising the mountains. The woodcutter said, "majestic and solemn, like Mount Tai towering into the clouds!" "
When he played the surging waves, the woodcutter said, "It's mighty, as if he saw rolling water and boundless sea!" " "The bosom friend Boya said excitedly. This woodcutter is Zhong Ziqi. Later, the little chef of hippo died young. When Yu Boya learned about it, he put the last piece of music in front of Zhong Ziqi's grave, then broke the string and stopped playing drums.
2. Lin Xiangru, Lian Po
After the meeting, Lian Po and Lin Xiangru returned to Zhao. Because Lin Xiangru made great contributions, the prince of Zhao named him Shangqing, above Lian Po.
Lian Po said: "As a general of Zhao, I have made great contributions in siege and field operations, while Lin Xiangru, though only a few words, is above me.
Besides, Lin Xiangru is a lowly person. I feel ashamed and don't want to be under him! "
Threatened: "I must insult Lin Xiangru when I see him." Lin Xiangru refused to meet him after hearing these words. He often pretends to be ill when he goes to court, and he doesn't want to compete with Lian Po for ranking. After a while, Lin Xiangru went out and saw Lian Po in the distance, so he turned around to avoid it.
In this case, the guests advised him together: "We left our parents and brothers to serve you because we admire your noble character. Now that you are in the same position as Lian Po, General Lian has spread some bad words, but you are afraid of him and avoid him. You are too scared.
Mediocre people are ashamed of this situation, let alone their relatives! We really have no talent, please allow us to leave! "
Lin Xiangru resolutely kept them, saying, "Do you think even the generals are better than the king of Qin?" The doorman replied, "(Even the general) is not as good as the king of Qin." Lin Xiangru said, "With the prestige of the King of Qin, I, Lin Xiangru, dare to scold him and humiliate his courtiers in the Qin court.
If you can be humble, why are you afraid of General Lian? But I thought of such a problem: the powerful state of Qin did not dare to invade Zhao easily, just because of the two of us!
If two tigers fight now, they won't both survive. The reason why I do this is to put the urgency of the country first and personal grievances second! "
Hearing this, Lian Po took off his clothes, put Vitex negundo on his back, and led him to Lin Xiangru's house, where he pleaded guilty through the door. He said, "I am a humble person. I really didn't know that the general tolerated me to this extent!" " Lin Xiangru and Lian Po finally made up and became friends who vowed to share life and death.
3. Chen Yi
Chen Zhongzi Gong Jing is from Yichun, Zhang Yu. I have been friends with Ray since I was a child. He is from the same county. Ray is Zhong Gong, a native of Poyang, Zhang Yu. They studied Lushi and Yan Chunqiu with the same teacher. The local satrap recommended Chen Zhong as filial piety. Chen Zhong demanded that his fame be passed on to Ray. Chen Zhong applied to the satrap for more than a dozen times, but the satrap refused.
It was not until the next year that Rey became Xiaolian. Later, Chen Zhong and Lei Yi both paid a visit to the business. Rey was dismissed from office for suffering rather than being an official at the same time. When Chen Chong saw Ray leave, he resigned and went home on the grounds of illness. After returning home, the Secretariat praised Ray as a talented person.
Ray wants to give his reputation to Chen Zhong. The Secretariat disagreed. Ray pretended to be crazy and refused to accept the recommendation. Because two officials, Chen Heyi, work together and maintain the same rank. It can be said that grades are equal and inseparable.
Therefore, their fellow villagers said that "glue paint is better than thunder and Chen". The implication is that the glue paint sticks together and thinks it is very strong, but the friendship between Chen Zhong and Ray is stronger than the glue paint.
4. Yuan Bo Juqing
Fan Xing, whose name is Ju Qing, was born in Jinxiang, Yangshan (now Jinxiang County, Shandong Province) and named Fan Yun. He is friends with Zhang Shao from Runan, while Zhang Shao is a scholar. Both of them are studying in Imperial College (the highest institution in the imperial court). Later, Paradigm wanted to go back to his hometown. He said to Zhang Shao, "I will come back in two years, and I will visit your parents and children through your home."
So they agreed on a date. Later, when the appointed date came, Zhang Shao told his mother in detail and asked her to prepare the table and wait for the paradigm. Zhang Shao's mother said, "It's been two years, although the date has been agreed. But thousands of miles away, how can you be uncertain about anything? " Zhang Shao said: "Paradigm is a man of his word, and he will certainly not break the contract."
Mother said, "In that case, I'll make wine for you." On the specified date, the example has indeed arrived. Meet Zhang Shao's mother. Fan and Zhang had a drink and then said goodbye. Later, Zhang Shao fell ill, and his condition was very serious. Branch and Yin Zi from the same county are coming to see him day and night.
Before he died, Zhang Shao sighed and said, "It's a pity that he didn't see my life and death." Yin Zizheng said, "Zhi and I are both committed to making friends with you. If we are not your friends, who can be? " Zhang Shao said: "You two are my lifelong friends; Fan Juqing of Yang Shan was my best friend after my death. "Zhang Shao died of illness soon.
Paradigm suddenly dreamed of Zhang Shao wearing a black hat and robe, and hurriedly called him: "Juqing, I will die one day, be buried one day, and go back to my grave forever.
You haven't forgotten me. How could you not come? "Paradigm suddenly woke up, lamenting and crying, so he dressed in mourning for his lost friend and rode a horse to pay tribute to Zhang Shao on the day of burial. I was already in mourning before I got there.
When I got to the grave, I was ready to leave the coffin, but the coffin refused to go in. Zhang Shao's mother stroked the coffin and said, "Zhang Shao, do you have another wish?" So I don't bury it anymore. After a while, I saw a white car and a white horse, crying. Zhang Shao's mother saw it and said, "This must be Fan Juqing."
After Paradigm arrived, the condolence telegram said, "I left Yuan Bo, I was born in a different way, and I will never say goodbye again." Thousands of people attending the funeral cried for it. Paradigm personally pulled the rope of the coffin and the coffin moved forward. Paradigm lived by the grave, planted a grave tree for him, and left.
5.arborvitae
There is a touching story in the allusions in Zuo Yang. During the Warring States Period, Zuo He met and went to the State of Chu together. On the way, they met with heavy snow. At that time, they were wearing thin clothes and didn't have enough food.
Zuo gave all his clothes and food to make friends, and hid himself in an empty tree and committed suicide. Later generations called this intimate friend with profound friendship "Zuo Yang".
6. Liu
Liu Bei has two sworn brothers, Zhang Fei and Guan Yu. On this day, Liu Bei went to the market to sell a cart of straw sandals. Arriving at the market, Liu Bei noticed a new red notice posted on the wall in front of the market. The notice reads: "Now the country is in turmoil. I hope that people with lofty ideals will sign up for the army and serve the country. "
Liu Bei sighed when he thought of his situation. Suddenly a sneer came from behind: "A good person, why don't you contribute to the country and stand here and sigh?" Liu Bei turned his head and saw a bearded man looking at him with round eyes.
The man named Zhang Fei runs a small hotel nearby. Zhang Fei took Liu Bei to his hotel and asked the bartender to bring food and drinks. While they were drinking, Zhang Fei said, "I don't think you are a substitute either. I still have some money left. How about we cooperate together? " Liu Bei is very happy.
At this moment, Guan Yu strode in and said loudly, "Get some food and wine quickly, I'm going to join the army." Both Liu Bei and Zhang Fei appreciated Guan Yu very much, so they invited Guan Yu to come and sit.
Zhang Fei was very excited when the three of them got together. He suggested, "Can we be brothers?" ? "So in the Peach Blossom Garden behind the hotel, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei burned incense and saluted, becoming three brothers who share weal and woe.
7. Friendship in Guan Bao
Once upon a time, Qi had a pair of good friends, one named Guan Zhong and the other named Bao. When he was young, Guan Zhong came from a poor family and had to support his mother. After Bao knows, please ask Guan Zhong to invest and do business together. When doing business, because Guan Zhong has no money, almost all the capital is invested by Bao.
However, when he made money, Guan Zhong took more than the bag. Bao's servant looked at it and said, "It's strange that Guan Zhong gets less capital than our master, but he gets more when he divides the money!" "
Bao Shu Ya said to his servant, "You can't say that! Guan Zhong was born in a poor family and had to support his mother. It doesn't matter if he takes a little more. "
On one occasion, Guan Zhong and Bao went to war together. Every time they attack, Guan Zhong hides behind. Everyone scolded Guan Zhong and said, "Guan Zhong is a man who is afraid of death!" Bao immediately spoke for Guan Zhong: "You misunderstood Guan Zhong. He is not afraid of death. He wants to take care of his old mother! "
Guan Zhong listened and said, "My parents gave birth to me, but Bao knows me!" Later, the King of Qi died, and the son Zhu (zhū) became king. They eat and drink every day and do nothing. Bao had a premonition that there would be civil strife in Qi, so he fled to Ju 'an with Childe, while Guan Zhong fled to Lu with Childe Nine.
Soon after, the kings of Qi were killed, and civil strife really happened in Qi. Guan Zhong wants to kill Xiao Bai, so that he can be king smoothly. Unfortunately, when Guan Zhong plotted against Xiao Bai, he missed the arrow and hit Xiao Bai's belt, but Xiao Bai didn't die. Later, Bao He returned to Qi earlier than Guan Zhonghe and became the king of Qi.
After Xiaobai became king, he decided to make Bao the prime minister, but Bao said to him, "Guan Zhong is better than me in all aspects, so he should be asked to be the prime minister!"
Xiao Bai listened: "Guan Zhong wants to kill me, he is my enemy, and you let me ask him to be the prime minister!" " "Bao Shu Ya said," I can't blame him. He did this to help the owner correct it! " After listening to Bao's words, let Guan Zhong come back as prime minister, and Guan Zhong really managed it well!
Guan Zhong said, "When I was poor, I used to do business with Uncle Bao, divide the money and take more for myself. Uncle Bao doesn't think I am greedy for money, but he knows I am poor! I used to work for Uncle Bao, but as a result, his situation was even more difficult. Uncle Bao doesn't think I'm stupid, but he knows there are good and bad luck.
I was an official three times and was dismissed by the monarch three times. Uncle Bao doesn't think I have no talent. He knows I haven't met the right time yet. I called three times and escaped three times. Uncle Bao doesn't think I'm timid He knows that I have an old mother at home.
Miyako failed for a long time and died for it, but I was humiliated in prison. Uncle Bao, don't think I don't know shame. He knows that I am not ashamed of trifles, but of not revealing my fame to the world. My parents gave birth to me, and Uncle Bao knows me! "
After Bao Shu recommended Guan Zhong, he was willing to be his subordinate. Bao Shu's descendants were paid for generations in the State of Qi, and more than ten generations had fiefs, so they often became famous doctors. People all over the world don't praise Guan Zhong's talent, but praise Bao Shu's understanding of people.
Later, when people praise their friends for their good friendship, they will say that they are "close friends".
8. Kong Rong Miheng
Mi Heng studied under Kong Rong at the age of fifteen, and Kong Rong is forty this year. There is a big age gap between them, but this does not affect their revolutionary friendship. They are like-minded, get along well, and their feelings go beyond the friendship between master and apprentice, so they become friends again.
When Mi Heng was twenty-four years old, he couldn't forget anything. This skill was very powerful in ancient times After all, there was no quick memory method at that time. The talented Mi Heng soon became famous. It is said that people are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong. Mi Fei also has shortcomings, that is, he looks down on bureaucrats.
Mi Heng is not the only one who has this view. Most of the ancient scholars were children of poor families, so they naturally had a bad impression on officials. But since they don't like it, why study hard at the cold window to gain fame? This is actually a contradictory view, which is why people nowadays hate bureaucrats, but they all want to be officials.
Because of this shortcoming, Mi Heng soon offended Cao Cao. It turned out that this Mi Heng played a good drum, and before that, he spoke ill of Cao Cao brazenly. Cao Cao is also a narrow-minded, just want to humiliate him and let him play drums at dinner.
On the day of the performance, Mi Heng wore his ordinary clothes instead of the drummer's clothes, so Cao Cao asked him why he didn't change. Mi Heng said he could change, but Cao Cao didn't expect him to undress in public and change the drummer's clothes on the spot.
Cao Cao said afterwards that he wanted to humiliate Mi Heng and didn't want to be defeated by him. When Kong Rong learned about this, he was afraid that Cao Cao would think about revenge against Mi Heng and feel sorry for his little friend, so he advised him to apologize to Cao Cao. This person Cheng Xiang, when Mi Zhu took a wooden stick in front of the camp and loudly reprimanded Cao Cao's crimes, Kong Rong finally failed to save his friend.
Later, Cao Cao gave Miheng to Liu Bei, and Liu Bei sent him to see Huang Zu. Finally, Huang Zu was killed because of his arrogance and rude remarks.
At the turn of the year, Kong Rong and Mi Heng said that there is a gap in age, but their thoughts and souls fit well. Friendship is based on like-mindedness, and there is no official age.
It was because Kong Rong felt that Mi Heng was in tune with himself that he taught him everything he had learned all his life. Mi Heng didn't let him down. He didn't flinch or get puffed up in front of Kong Rong. In other words, without Kong Rong, Mi Heng won't forget anything.
There are no learning conditions, so they are also teachers and friends. Both of them are very narcissistic, and it is rare to meet a confidant. Just like Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi, it is enough to have a bosom friend in life.
Extended data:
Eight friends:
The first worship: the bosom friend in Boya period. Second Worship: Lian Po is like a stingy friend. The third worship: the connection between Chen and Chen. The fourth worship: Yuan Boju green chicken and millet turn. Fifth worship: Jiao Dao laid down his life. Sixth worship: Liu's life and death. Seventh Worship: the friendship between Uncle Yi Wu and Guan Bao. Eighth Worship: Kong Rong lost his memory of precession.
Allusions:
In the Song Dynasty in China, there was a story in Shao Bowen's Lu Wenjian: Wen Yanbo heard that Ji Li was very arrogant and unhappy. He said to people, "Ji Li's father used to be my master, so he should be my junior by seniority. He is so arrogant that I have to teach him a lesson. " On one occasion, Wen Yanbo was stationed in Beijing. When Ji Li heard about this, he came to offer his condolences.
Wen Yanbo deliberately let Ji Li sit in the living room, and it took a long time to come out to meet him. After meeting Ji Li, Wen Yanbo said, "Your father is my friend. Please make eight obeisances to me." Due to his junior qualifications, Ji Li dared not expect anything, so he had to make eight obeisances to Wen Yanbo. Wen Yanbo lost Ji Li's pride as an elder.
The idiom "Eight Worship Friends" came into being. Later, people used "eight sworn brothers friendship" to express the courtesy of two generations of friendly disciples when they met each other's elders. In the old days, they were also called sworn brothers with different surnames.
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