If the child is healthy, parents must treat the child as their own. A person's personality is not only innate, but also the acquired living environment and the subtle influence of parents and people around him. Children should not be told that they are adopted from an early age, not their own, so no matter how psychologically tolerant the child is, this is undoubtedly a particularly big blow to a child. If a child knows from an early age that he is not his current parents' biological parents, but someone else's parents, and his biological parents don't want him, if he thinks so every day, he must be unhappy in school life and even feel inferior. Because without parents, children are bound to entertain foolish ideas and perhaps have self-doubt. Is it because they have any defects? Such a mentality of life will have a very bad influence on a child and will also have an impact on his growth and development. Therefore, parents must pay enough love, love their children with their own sincerity, give him due fatherly love and maternal love, and let him know that he lives in a harmonious and warm family, which is also good for his physical and mental development. In addition, if the child hears other people's comments or finds anything during this period, you must tell him that you are his biological father or mother, don't let him doubt, and give him enough love to dispel his doubts.

When the child grows up, at least as an adult, he has the right to know about it. You can find a suitable time and place to tell him about it, tell him that you are excellent and lucky to have such a fate, and give him confidence. If children choose to stay and continue to love, of course, such a family can still be very warm.