A touching letter
My son:
I wrote this memo based on three principles:
1, the fate of life is impermanent, and no one knows how long he can live. Some things are better said earlier.
2. I am your father, and no one will tell you if I don't tell you.
This memo records all my experiences gained through painful failure, which can make you make fewer mistakes in your growth.
Here are some things to remember in your life.
Don't care too much about people who are not good to you.
In your life,
No one has an obligation to be nice to you,
Except me and your mother.
As for those who are nice to you,
You should not only cherish and be grateful, but also take more precautions.
Because everyone does everything for a reason,
He is kind to you, not necessarily because he likes you.
Please, you have to understand,
You don't have to treat each other as real friends too soon.
No one is irreplaceable,
Nothing is necessary.
Seeing through this,
In the future, people around you will no longer need you.
Maybe when you lose everything you love most in the world,
It should also be understood that,
This is no big deal.
Life is short,
You are still wasting your life today,
Tomorrow you will find that life is far away from you.
Therefore, the sooner you cherish life,
The more days you enjoy life,
Instead of expecting a long life,
Might as well enjoy it early.
There is no such thing as love,
Love is only a temporary feeling,
And this feeling will definitely change with the days and moods.
If your so-called favorite leaves you,
Please be patient,
Let time wash slowly, let the soul settle slowly,
Your pain will gradually disappear.
Don't expect the beauty of love too much.
Don't exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn love.
Although many successful people have little education,
But it doesn't mean you can succeed without studying hard.
What you learn is the weapon you have.
People can build a family from scratch,
But you can't be unarmed, remember!
I won't ask you to support me all my life,
Similarly, I won't support you for life,
When you are old enough to be independent,
My responsibility is over.
In the future,
Do you want to take a bus or a Mercedes?
Eat shark fin or vermicelli,
Everyone is responsible.
You can ask yourself to keep your promise,
But you can't ask others to keep their promises.
You can ask yourself to be nice to people,
But you can't expect others to be nice to you.
How do you treat people,
Doesn't mean people will treat you like this,
If you can't see through this,
You will only add unnecessary trouble.
I have been buying lottery tickets for more than ten or twenty years.
Still poor and white,
I haven't even won three awards,
This proves that people should be developed,
You still have to work hard,
Nothing for nothing.
Relatives have only one fate,
No matter how long I will get along with you in my life,
Please also cherish the time together.
In the next life,
Love it or not, we will never meet again.
Appreciate what has been lost in life and pursue what we haven't got yet, as long as it's not too late to start now.
XXX
XXXX。 X. X
Touching letter Part II
Pingping:
Hello, I hope you can read this letter carefully, thank you.
You're right, people should learn to forget.
If there is an afterlife, I will wait for you.
You were so kind to me before, I will never forget it. You have asked me many times if I really love you, and my answer is yes every time. Yes, I love you very much. I really love you. At that time, you could do everything for me, but what about me? But I can't do anything for you. I hurt you, deeply. I know you love me very much, I really do, but I have done too many things to disappoint you. You give me opportunities again and again, but I let you down again and again. .....
You're right. If you love someone, you must give her happiness. I was confident that I could give you happiness, but the facts show that I can only give you harm and never be happy. Yes, I love you every day, but I dare not pursue even the most basic love. How can this be called sex?
I know my image in your mind now can only be described in four words: liar and playboy. Yes, I have cheated you and caused you great harm. For me, too much pain makes you die completely. I brought all this on myself. I just feel sorry for you. If there is an afterlife, I will wait for you, love you, take care of you and try my best to give you the happiest life.
You call me a playboy, and I don't know if I'm a playboy, but now I really only have you in my heart. Xiao Min seems to have left a very strange impression on me. As for other girls, I don't seem to have any other feelings, just a simple relationship between colleagues and friends.
You call me shameless, yes, I admit it. If it weren't for this, we wouldn't have achieved what we are now. You often suspect that I use your qq chat for something or something. I can only tell you that I am really wronged. I really regret knowing your qq password, otherwise I won't let you scold me for unwarranted charges every day. In fact, sometimes I don't care. As long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if you scold me several times. ...
Pingping, in fact, sometimes I am quite ambivalent. I really want to be with you, regardless of everything, but I am always afraid that I can't give you happiness. Your life has always been comfortable. If I can't give you happiness, I will ruin your life. Yes, I love someone and give her happiness. How could I not know this sentence? In my heart, you are noble, you can't live our life, and I don't want your living standard to drop, so I feel too timid.
Maybe this is what you call I can't control you. ...
However, when I am with you, I really feel very happy. I'm afraid this life can only be memories. Remember what I said to you? After you, there is no one else? This is a true portrayal of my heart, but believe it or not, you never believe me anyway.
You stupid goose, you like money every day, you know? How I want to become a printing machine, so that you can count money every day, haha, it is estimated that there will be many more wrinkles on your face at that time, aunt selling sweet potatoes.
Sometimes it's funny to think of you before. I always call me an aunt who sells sweet potatoes. Haha, then I am not the uncle who sells sweet potatoes. Ha ha laugh
In addition, you must take care of yourself in the future, eat on time and reasonably every day, and don't always go hungry. This is not good for the stomach, because the quality of the stomach will affect people's life, and nourishing the stomach is equal to keeping in good health. Don't shy away. Eat a reasonable diet every day, get up early for half an hour, cook your favorite dishes, don't be so lazy, go to bed early at night, and don't always stay up late, as people will get old quickly and do great harm to their health. Although the internet is very tempting, we must restrain ourselves. Besides, you always have a headache. I think it's just that you spend too much time in front of the computer. One is radiation, and the other is sitting posture. Besides, it's not good for your eyes, so you must pay attention to your health.
Remember when you told me that your life would not last long? I always remember this sentence, fool. Don't always say that in the future. People who love you like that will be very sad.
If so, if so, I really want to accompany you through this short journey. I'm afraid you'll be lonely, really. I want to accompany you to make you happy, go where you want to go and do what you like. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Every time I think of what you said, my heart is very sour and I always feel like crying. Fool, stop talking. You should live well and live happily. I forbid you. You should live 65,438+0,000 years. Live well, okay?
It is said that the Lama Temple can make a wish for a visa, and it is especially accurate. I will take time to go there and wish you happiness and longevity.
I will keep the gift you gave me for life. I know it contains a lot of your love and blessings from your heart.
I wonder how your teeth are. Does it still hurt? Take the time to go to the hospital to fix your teeth, so that you won't feel uncomfortable when it hurts. To tell you the truth, I feel bad when I hear you say you have a toothache. Haha, I don't know if I have a heart-to-heart conversation.
Also, just don't smoke. Why do girls smoke? Just like my little sister, it does great harm to my teeth, so I must quit. If they are really in a bad mood sometimes, they can try to exercise and run to adjust their mood, which can both exercise and adjust their mood. Kill two birds with one stone, don't you think, silly goose? Why learn from others and become a smoker? Ha ha.
As for drinking, you can drink a little, but don't overdo it. Red wine is better, don't drink it often. It's ok to drink occasionally at ordinary times, but remember not to go out drinking alone with a strange opposite sex. Be sure to remember to protect yourself at all times. I hope you can listen to this sentence once, ok?
For online netizens, don't trust them too much, and don't meet each other easily. I am an example, so be sure to avoid them.
When we talk about friends again, remember not to find someone younger than you, because someone younger than you is not reliable at all. Whatever he says or does, don't be afraid. Don't show your feelings, because a little emotional expression will have a very, very high probability of development and a very small result, so avoid it.
You can talk about someone your age or a few years older than you, but you must have a stable job and be able to support this family, so that you will not be too tired in the future.
Another thing is that you are right. Love that is too easy to get will not be cherished, so we must grasp the degree. Every man doesn't like women who associate with him too casually, even when facing himself, I am a man, which I know very well.
Be sure to get to know each other first, and have a relationship for a while, but don't be too close, because it is responsible for you, him and your future love. Men are usually impulsive, but women must be calm, even if you love him very much. Don't shy away, because we are a good lesson.
Because those older than you need a home as much as you do, and those younger than you are not reliable at all, so be sure to remember. Avoid avoidance
You are a smart woman, you must be rational, rational and rational.
We have known each other for so long that we often hear about your father. From what you said, we can see that your father loves you very much, and he doesn't only care about interests as you think, so you should treat your father well in the future. If there are any differences, you can sit down and communicate with him. I think he should be a very reasonable old man, don't you think? Stubborn girl
By the way, if you have any more friends, don't chat with other netizens of the opposite sex and keep your distance, which will make your boyfriend very disgusted. Don't believe that he is a generous man, a man of quality. Although he won't say anything, he will be disgusted in his heart. After a long time, there will be problems, either his or yours. Don't shy away. The two of us are typical examples Although I am a shameless person without quality and trust, I still know that I am a man after all.
If we talk about boyfriends again, I still suggest you look for them in real life, not online. Just like your father said, finding one in Tianjin is more secure, don't you think? Be good, don't be impulsive. Isn't your injury enough?
I am not a good person, but also a useless idiot. I'm sad to lose you, and what's more sad is to lose the true love you once had for me. I should have used my life to care for you and this true love, but I tore it up bit by bit and hurt you again and again. Blame me, I can't blame anyone. The culprit of everything is myself.
Remember Stephen Chow's dialogue in A Chinese Odyssey?
"You should do this, and I should die. Once there was a sincere love in front of me. I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it when I lost it. The most painful thing in the world is this. Cut your sword on my throat! Don't hesitate any longer! If God can give me another chance, I will say three words to that girl: I love you. If I have to put a deadline on this love, I hope so? Ten thousand years? "
Yes, you should. I really have no reason and no qualification to keep you.
I also want to have a good life with you. What man doesn't want to spend his life with the woman he loves? In order to be with you, I can give up a lot, but in the end. .................................................................................................................................................................
Sad tears can only be swallowed by yourself, and the road to regret can only be taken by yourself. Pingping, my dear Pingping, can you call your wife again?
Honey, honey, my husband loves you. He loves you very much. Since this life is hopeless, my husband will wait for you in the afterlife. My husband in the afterlife will be an excellent man, a husband who will satisfy you, and will care for you wholeheartedly, so that you will not be so lonely and tired as this life.
Pingping, I will remember you, and I will bless you silently in my heart. Good boy, I love you.
Happy is happy, you know? Well-behaved
Be strong in the future and learn to face life with a smile.
I won't be around you in the future, so you must be good to yourself. Promise me, okay?
By the way,? Husband? There is another regret, I almost forgot, that is, you haven't cooked your husband's specialty-Zhajiang noodles, and his words don't count.
Thank you for reading this letter. Thank you for your love.
Love you forever, asshole.
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Touching letter the third part
Husband:
Hello, sorry, I don't know your name yet, and I don't know when you will appear in my world. Do you know that?/You know what? I have been waiting for you for nearly 20 years, waiting for you, waiting for the person who will accompany me for the rest of my life. I don't know how much longer I have to wait. Please don't keep me waiting too long. It's really hard to wait for someone. However, as long as you haven't appeared, I will wait patiently until you appear. I believe that the monthly book will not forget me.
Let you know about me and your wife first. I'm not beautiful but I'm fine, so I hope you're not too beautiful, but you must be fine. You should have a pair of single eyelids at most, a strong body that can protect me. I'm quiet, and I hope you can calm down, but you'd better be humorous. You always make me happy, make me happy, because I'm a little pessimistic. You have to be knowledgeable and connotative, so that I can treat you as me.
If you don't have enough money to buy our home, I'm willing to take a loan with you to buy our beloved nest. Our home is not necessarily luxuriously decorated, but it must be warm and comfortable. There should be a study with a computer and full books. I hope I can enrich my brain after work. The kitchen should be clean and tidy, with a glass square table, two chairs, a fruit blue on the table, and our favorite fruits in it. I hope we can have a blanket, too. We can sit on the floor with a small table on it. In winter, you can sit on the floor and eat hot pot to add a little warmth to the cold winter. Our bedroom should have a big bed, white sheets and white curtains. As soon as I open the curtains in the morning, I'll wake you up as a lazy pig and bring you clothes to work. I'll make breakfast while you wash. I will cook porridge for you. If you like western food, I will give you hot milk and fried eggs. When you have finished eating, I will walk you out and say goodbye to you with a smile, which has made you hard. I will find a job that leaves work earlier, so that I can go home early and cook dinner for you. I'll show you a table of dishes and I'll wait for you as soon as you get off work. I'll help you put your clothes away and we'll wait for you to wash your hands. Share your troubles at work. After dinner, I wash the dishes and you watch TV. In the evening, we watch our favorite TV programs together. If we don't agree which TV program to watch, can you make way for me, because you are a boy.
Weekend is our day. I hope we can go shopping together for next week. You should bring more things. We should put our things together when we get home. Then, we clean the house and clean up together. I wash clothes and you clean the floor. You should help me dry it after I wash it, because you are very tall. When the clothes are dry, I will iron them for you. I want my husband to clean them every day. Let others envy your wife's virtue. You have to take time to go shopping with me, but we can't waste too much because we have to pay for the house. We will visit our parents for a long time and have dinner with them, so that they won't be too lonely. We should all be filial.
If you work hard and have backache, I will give you a massage and give you an exothermic bath water to get rid of the fatigue of the day; If you want to work late, I'll make you a cup of coffee, sit next to you and accompany you to the end; If you are sick, I will stay by your bed, hold your hand tightly and feed you water and medicine on time until you recover; If it is your birthday, I will blindfold you when you come in, so that you can see the cake and candlelight dinner with candles as soon as you open your eyes; If your mother is always making things difficult for my daughter-in-law, I won't contradict her. I will use my sincerity and filial piety to touch her and make her accept me and like me. But if I am wronged, you should comfort me, Doby. On holidays, I hope to travel with you, to Hangzhou, to Korea and to Europe, but going abroad is expensive, so you can go first. I want to attend the bonfire party with you; I want to eat all the delicious food with you; I want to go bungee jumping with you. I want us to hug each other tightly and jump off the top of the mountain. I have many things I want to do with you. I hope we can be together forever and do these things together. We also want our parents to go out to play. They have worked hard for half their lives, so that they can enjoy their old age, and at the same time, they can increase their friendship and let the two in-laws live in harmony.
If you like babies, I will give birth to them for you. Do you like boys or girls? Boys should be as calm as you, and girls should be as virtuous as me. We should spend all our time cultivating him, making him a useful person to society, finding his own happiness and leading a dull and happy life like us.
Forget one of the most important things, which is money. We take out half of our salary, pay back part of the loan and save some for later use, so that we can travel and send our children to school.
We will inevitably quarrel in life, but we can't really get angry, let alone fight, but we should sit down and talk calmly and find the best way to solve the problem. If you really do something wrong, you should also learn to be considerate of each other and find out more about your own shortcomings. We can't do anything wrong to each other. We should learn to cherish what we have now and learn to be content. If my strong willfulness will accidentally hurt you, can you gently remind me, although I am sincere?
I love my mother very much. I'd rather trade my life for hers. I'm afraid of losing her. Without her, I'm afraid I'll go to Lacrimosa, and I won't have the courage to face life and tomorrow. If one day, she really left me. If I wake up in the middle of the night and cry helplessly, can you let me cry on your shoulder? Can you hold me tightly in your arms, make me feel a little warm, and let me have a support and search after losing my mother?