What should kindergarten children do if they are tired of learning?
First, parents should indoctrinate their children before they go to school.
Director Rong said that the best way to solve this problem is that parents often educate their children before they enter school, saying, "Mom and Dad have to go to work and can't take care of you well. You should learn to take care of yourself." "The big brother and big sister next door can sing nursery rhymes. Do you want to sing nursery rhymes like them? Your mother will send you to school if you like. " "Going to school can not only learn knowledge, but also make new friends to play with ..." In short, it is to explain the benefits of going to school to children at the beginning of school, so that children can look forward to going to school from the bottom of their hearts and gradually eliminate the fear that "going to school" is a new thing for children.
Second, parents should learn to be cruel when sending their children to kindergarten.
Parents should learn to be "cruel", give their children to teachers, and let teachers persuade crying children. It is not advisable to take the child home because he is crying, which will not only encourage the child's dependence, but also make them think that "crying is unnecessary to go to school", which will definitely make it more troublesome for parents to send their children to school in the future. Therefore, bite your teeth on the first day of school, give the crying child to the teacher, let the teacher persuade the child, and then pick up the child from school early that day.
Third, parents and teachers join hands to make children interested in learning.
In this regard, parents can communicate with teachers what measures should be taken. For example, the homework assigned by the teacher at the beginning, it is best for the children and parents to finish it together, and then transition to let the children finish it independently ... so that the children can gradually get rid of their dependence on their parents. When children finish the homework assigned by the teacher, parents and teachers had better say some words of praise to encourage them, so as to stimulate their interest in learning.
What if the baby doesn't want to go to kindergarten?
1, bring the children familiar with the kindergarten in advance.
If we take our children to the kindergarten to play before school starts, the children's crying will be reduced when school really starts. Therefore, parents are advised to take their children to kindergarten to familiarize themselves with the environment before entering school. If possible, it is recommended to go there several times to let the children know what is interesting in the kindergarten, so that the children will even look forward to the kindergarten.
2. Adjust your child's schedule.
Some children are very different from their families because of their work and rest in kindergarten. For example, I don't sleep during nap time, but I want to sleep during class time. Children may feel that kindergarten is not as good as home, so they start to feel homesick, then they start to feel anxious and start to cry.
Parents should let their children develop the same schedule at home as kindergarten as soon as possible, so that children can adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible.
3. Cultivate children's self-care ability
Anxiety is sometimes caused by children's poor living ability, and kindergartens can't do what they need to do. Therefore, before children enter the park, parents should give guidance on life skills, such as learning to eat, drink, wear and go to the toilet by themselves.
If a young child can't do these things by himself, he or she should be taught to ask the teacher for help, for example, telling the teacher that he or she needs to pee.
4. Help children find small partners.
If conditions permit, children can go to kindergarten with familiar children. Many parents will choose a kindergarten close to home. If there are children in your community who also attend this kindergarten, you can let your children go to school with friends. With familiar people, their separation anxiety will be relieved a lot.
5. Give children a sense of security
When the child is crying, don't scold him/her, give him/her a hug, comfort him/her, and tell him/her that his/her mother (father) will definitely pick him/her up on time and wait for the child to calm down before leaving, instead of dragging the child into the classroom and then forcibly leaving.
Be sure to pick up the children from school on time. You can pick up your child with his or her favorite toys or snacks in the first week to make him or her feel that he or she is taken seriously enough and give the child a sense of security.
6. Enhance the attraction of kindergartens.
When parents pick up their children from school, don't pick them up and go home at once. You can play with them in outdoor activities at school for a while. When the child is having fun, parents should show that it is time to end and promise him to come back tomorrow, so that the child may "miss" playing in the kindergarten and have the motivation to come back tomorrow.
7. Communicate interesting things about kindergarten with children.
After children go to kindergarten, parents should communicate with their children more about kindergarten, such as asking their children what the teacher said today, how many classmates you met, which classmates played with you, and so on. Over time, children will find many interesting things in kindergarten and will fall in love with kindergarten more.
8. Parents should adjust their mentality.
When children cry and don't want to go to kindergarten, many parents will be soft-hearted and shaken. You know, although children are young, they are very sensitive to their parents' emotions and mentality. When he senses that his parents are wavering, he will strengthen his idea that he does not want to go to kindergarten.
Therefore, parents must have a good attitude, maintain a pleasant emotional state, send their children to kindergarten, and encourage their children to make a little progress in time. Don't peek outside after sending the child away, lest the child see his parents crying even more.
9. Actively communicate with teachers.
When you enter the park, you must tell the teacher the basic situation of the child, such as whether you can eat by yourself and go to the toilet by yourself. Only after the teacher knows the child's situation can you take better care of it, and the child will not resist the school because of these discomforts.