Recently, the post-90 s were ridiculed as entertainment jokes, saying that the first batch of post-90 s became monks, which instantly shocked many friends. I was so scared that I quickly picked up the polished mirror and looked at myself up and down. It is not clear whether the Buddha is a Buddha, but some greasy vicissitudes are true.

First, awkward times.

Zray after 90.

A few years ago, people just asked me, "How old are you?" I always tell each other proudly without thinking: "90 years". Then wait for the usual praise: so young, really young and promising. I also want to say hello to each other, so I wave my hand again and again and say, "No, no, I still need to work hard." Things seem to have changed in recent years. When I meet someone who doesn't have the strength to ask his age, I will bite the bullet and answer "more than 90 years old" and prevaricate. Say that finish still trembling, afraid of peer debunk. If you meet a serious and blind Lord, keep asking, "How many years?" My God, after bowing my head to greet each other's uncle a hundred times, I raised my stubborn and noble head and smiled and said "exactly 90". That's not small. May the other person be treated gently by the years. My uncle who has just meditated for a hundred times has been quietly added by me for a thousand times. This is something I'm a little scared of. Compared with the post-80s generation, it is almost immature. Compared with 00, it is pure abuse. Let's just say, in fact, we have passed the age of seniority, and there are still hesitations about not being independent. If you made a mistake when you were young, you can correct it. If you make another mistake, you can correct it. Because you are young, you have plenty of time. No way, opportunities are getting less and less, and competition is getting bigger and bigger. Old people can be lazy and retired, and neither can we. We are still betting on the distant future.

Second, treat love calmly.

Joker

After 90, who once shouted that they would never participate in blind date, quite a few people have had the experience of blind date now.

However, we also have our own sufferings, which we hide in our hearts and don't want to say.

After graduating from college, we step into the society, full of blood and go to unlimited work, work hard and have no distractions. After a few years, our career was on the way to prosperity, but our love was delayed. Therefore, I often hang out on blind date occasions. It has become the norm to make an appointment to meet and talk about Lahei. Isn't there a fashionable saying, obviously lonely, but always don't want to make do? After repeated times, I found that I can live a good life alone, without going shopping with me, without worrying about the lack of exquisite makeup, doing whatever I want, chatting whenever I want, doing whatever I want, and not wronged myself. When you meet someone you can talk to, start falling in love. If you don't meet blind people, treat yourself well. That's great.

Third, a calm outlook on life.

guard against arrogance and rashness

I was taught to guard against arrogance, rashness, modesty and prudence since I was a child. Now when writing the annual work summary, I will definitely clap my chest at the end to assure the leaders that I will be cautious, modest and prudent in the coming year, and I will not be happy with things or sad for myself. Who would have thought, slowly, I really lived what my parents expected.

The unit was rated as excellent. I will laugh twice and stay away when I see waves of people queuing up to the leadership office to express their heartfelt wishes and loyalty. On the one hand, I find it useless to argue, on the other hand, I can't pull my face down.

If you are caught in a traffic jam while driving, you should immediately brake and make way. It's no use arguing for a long time. If you really want to kiss two cars, it will take half a day. It's worth it How difficult it is to ask for leave now.

Eat breakfast on time every morning, and the first thing to do when sitting at your desk is to make tea first. Black tea and green tea change with the season, and wolfberry and lemon look at the mood. Every time an old colleague makes fun of the fact that he has started to keep in good health after 1990, I will respond with a polite smile: of course, it is physical pain. Teenagers don't know that keeping in good health is expensive, and they will still suffer when they are sick.

In fact, the post-90s generation is not aloof and refined. We just live in the present, work calmly and fall in love. We also have persistent things: trying to be ourselves, chasing unsuitable love and modest dreams in our hearts, don't you think?

We stick to our dreams.