I suggest you take half a day off a week and put aside all the pressures: work and life; Put all your troubles aside; Put aside the leadership! Forget everything that makes you unhappy, enjoy it and play with it for half a day. Don't spend extra time sleeping. Sleeping won't solve the problem!
What are you playing? A lot! Sing karaoke; Watching movies; Drink coffee and chat; Dance; Then lesbians play more games than gay men: go shopping, go to the clothing market, see beautiful clothes, take them down and try them on, look in the mirror and admire themselves. It doesn't matter if you have no money. Because there is no rule that you must buy it if you try it. Enjoy it and give it back to the boss. If you want to play, you should find some interesting and cheap ways to play. Don't tell me you are old, these are all young people's games. Celebrities don't have these shelves. Look at Su Dongpo: "Old people talk about teenagers", teenagers are really young!
Now that you have played, you must be happy! The purpose of playing is to have fun. Have fun. Don't laugh. What's wrong with laughing? Laughter makes you younger. Laughter is a very good relaxant, which can relieve a person's nervousness and depressed mood. Moreover, according to the research of a German smile scientist named Cirkel, a person who laughs for three minutes is equivalent to moderate exercise for 45 minutes. Therefore, for lesbians, laughter is a very good way to lose weight, including some gay men who have begun to gain weight.
In today's society, some people, especially some young people, are often impetuous. Although the influence of the changeable external environment is one of the reasons, the most important reason comes from people themselves. Because impetuous is an emotional expression of people, impetuous people are often restless, idle and ambitious. So stay away from impetuousness.
Stay away from impetuous life and aim high. Zhuge Liang has a famous saying: "Indifference leads to no ambition, and quietness is not far away." A peaceful and quiet mind comes from an indifferent life, and a strong thirst for knowledge and a sense of responsibility comes from a lofty pursuit of life and a correct value orientation. To stay away from impetuousness, we must have the belief of "not afraid of floating clouds to cover our eyes" in order to be broad-minded, ambitious and persistent.
Stay away from impetuous life and be indifferent to fame and fortune. Being indifferent to fame and fortune is a detached attitude towards life and a sublimation of personality that can stand many tests. Everyone, not everyone can stand the dull days. Although plain work and life can live the style of true self, it is difficult to do a vigorous career to show off to others, so there are more impetuous people who pursue wealth, fame and fortune for quick success. In fact, life should be a process of being indifferent to fame and fortune, striving for progress and pursuing ideals, and learning to be content and give up. Contentment is by no means a comfort to the weak, but a portrayal of indifferent life. If we can do this, we will have the strength to resist all the temptations of fame and fortune, and we will certainly live a more chic and fulfilling life.
Stay away from impetuous life and live sincerely. To stay away from impetuousness and be indifferent to life is not doing nothing, but asking us to treat life with a normal heart. Life is rich and colorful: warm memories, deep thinking, beautiful reverie and warm yearning show the profound connotation of life; Life is severe: the journey of life is full of ups and downs, and there are always many regrets and losses. In the face of ups and downs and regrets, some people pull a long face, complain about the injustice of fate and are disappointed with the misfortune of life; Some people can face reality, adjust their mentality, face setbacks correctly and face life sincerely. Life needs courage and wisdom. As long as we face life sincerely, work hard and struggle hard, everyone will have their own colorful life.
Stay away from impetuous life, you should be calm and single-minded We should learn to meditate and be broad-minded with knowledge. Learning can meditate, knowledge can measure things. Without the attitude of learning meditation, there will naturally be more impetuousness. Inner peace, although the world is ever-changing and complicated, I am pure and safe; If you are impetuous, even if your life is calm, you will be uneasy. Wang Guowei, a modern scholar, put forward three realms of life in The Thorn on Earth. The first realm is "last night, the west wind withered the green trees, and I climbed the stairs alone and looked at the horizon", which means that I must stand tall, look far and choose my own goals; The second realm is "I don't regret my clothes getting wider and wider, and I am haggard for Iraq", which means that I will try my best to achieve my goal after I have determined it; The third realm is "looking for him a thousand times, suddenly looking back, but that person is in the dim light", which means looking back a thousand times and suddenly finding that the goal you are fighting for is in front of you, and success is waving to you. With these three realms, impetuous hearts will naturally stay away from us.
Let our life stay away from impetuousness. It is true that the world is flat. Life is short, as long as you live healthily and happily and do something useful to the world.