1, learn to master.
You need to listen to him more and don't give him too much discomfort. Nowadays, the pace of daily life is fast, and daily life and work are not satisfactory. It is very important for couples to understand each other, which is conducive to adjusting their bad psychological state. If one party only wants to be diligent, but does not have to master the other party, it is easy to have emotional conflicts. Therefore, when this kind of lover asks you to express your opinions, you should master why you want to express your opinions with you.
Cannot be completely _ changed. You need to get your boyfriend back, but you haven't changed at all, trying to touch him with expressions or actions of love, hoping that the other party will get back together and get mixed up with you. Many couples break up, not because they don't feel your love, but because they accept some behaviors that don't like you. If you don't change this behavior, even if he is moved by your words and mixed with you, that feeling will not last long and our relationship will not be improved. If you are really determined to save your boyfriend.
2. Don't take the tolerance of ex-boyfriend for granted.
When two people are in contact, it is unlikely that everything will be smooth sailing. In the whole process of getting along, you may touch his bottom line again and again. When he was so annoying, he didn't choose to give up on you. You only knew that he was wrong. It was not until everyone broke up that you found his goodness, and you found or fell in love with him. You are arrogant, and he tolerates you as always. Self-confidence is a good thing, but you know that blindly following the trend of self-confidence usually makes him think you are annoying and always thinks of many things about you.
So don't take his tolerance as your blatant. In the whole process of getting along with everyone, some girls who have made comparisons will constantly test whether their boyfriends love themselves very much and do something that touches the bottom line of being a man. They feel that they will not lose their temper easily and will tolerate themselves if they love themselves for a long time. However, you trample on his self-esteem and test his bottom line again and again, and everyone's tolerance is limited. When he can no longer rationalize the bad behavior you have done, you test his bottom line unscrupulously, and always let him refuse you at first, and even guarantee that he will never see you again.
If you do something or say something beyond his endurance, you can't rationalize it, causing two people's emotions to drop to freezing point, and then you will never be able to return to that happy time. "Don't tolerate him, you can be arrogant, to find out the bottom line of his life, to avoid his love for you and carefully consume slowly, and you just started complaining that he doesn't love you or spoil you.
Still love him? You need to find that you lost your boyfriend because of your "work", so you must correct all your princess diseases, femininity and arrogance from the beginning.
How to save feelings after breaking up? When he spoiled you before, he clearly pointed out to you that after breaking up, he should find out the reasons for his departure and correct his shortcomings. In addition, if you want to keep each other's hearts, you must improve your practical value and present yourself with a brand-new corporate image. In front of him, in addition to changing the external corporate image, you also need to change your own essence. When we get along again, he thinks you are more and more gentle and kind, and it is easy to be tempted because of you.
3. Details determine success or failure
The emotional difficulties of two people are mostly due to too many differences accumulated at ordinary times, which leads to a little misunderstanding and can be the fuse of breaking up. Therefore, in the case of resolving differences, we should learn to be refined and modest. As the saying goes, take a step back, fully consider the difficulties from the other side's point of view, and avoid the trend of feelings developing in a bad direction. In the development of feelings, details determine success or failure, especially in the recovery of boyfriends. Without careful planning of recovery, we need to be unable to recover successfully.
It is necessary to correctly identify the psychological state of ex-boyfriends. Some girls don't pay attention to their ex-boyfriends' psychological state, whether their ex-boyfriends' psychological state is good or bad, and whether they want to chat with you. They just want to say that what you want to express will not be accurately described to him, but it will make him more tired of you and more unwilling to be with you. Therefore, if you express your opinions, you should pay attention to the psychological state of your ex-boyfriends. Now,
How to save feelings after breaking up? Didn't say you could learn to let go of your emotions. The only thing that can be put is solid wood chopsticks. You can't forget his kindness to you and his happiness together. In any case, you can't forget your ex-girlfriend and make sure you are sincere to him. After you broke up, you spent a lot of money allocated to him. You have thought about yourself and fully considered improving yourself. Usually he breaks up with you because he thinks you are no longer fit to be his girlfriend. What can I say to save my ex-boyfriend's heart? Never fit in. Only when you let your ex-boyfriend see your change will his love for you be aroused and you will be promoted to mix with him.