Longevity is a humiliation from Zhuangzi Waipian, which means that if you live for a long time, you will be easily humiliated. Sick, useless, disrespectful humiliation. China advocates loyalty, filial piety and benevolence, but unfilial phenomenon is widespread.
Zhu Dexiao comes first. People know that children should be filial to their parents. The unity of knowing and doing ends in perfection. Men and women in the world struggle for life and family, and it is common to forget to go home to accompany and take care of their parents. Many people believe that filial piety is to provide parents with a good material environment and is the duty of being a child. What's more, I asked my mother to pay my mother twice her current job salary to give up her job and take care of the children. After being rejected by her mother, she was depressed.
Parents in their prime are useful to their children. Can provide children with material, physical and emotional help. When parents are old and become a burden to their children, how many children can take care of them as their parents take care of them? Some are powerful and unintentional. Some can't do anything. There are very few people with strong hearts.
Old people have various ways to take care of themselves. I passed the park yesterday. There is a song with music in the pavilion by the river. Follow the sound, singing is a pair of old people. There is a musical score on the piano stand. Grandpa plays the piano and aunt sings. My entry made them a little scared. Stop singing. After I left, my uncle kindly said to my aunt, just sing more. Aunt bowed her head and smiled at the music. It seems that they are not husband and wife, like a pair of lovers who are dating. The sunshine is very good, according to the surrounding vibrant flowers and plants, but also according to two old but vivid faces.
This kind of beauty touched me a little. Good relationships are age-neutral. You will take care of yourself more and more when you get older. The elderly pay more and more attention to diet, daily life, health and emotional state of mind. Enjoy your old age. Self-care, independent thinking and healthy mentality are the golden age of old age.
But Zhuangzi is right, it will be humiliating to live for a long time.
Few old people die at the last moment of their golden years. Most elderly people will go through the process of being unable to take care of themselves, being unable to move or even suffering from Alzheimer's disease. The elderly can't provide economic, ideological and material help to their children and future generations, and become a burden to their children. This is an objective law. People like to take care of children because children symbolize tomorrow and hope. But I don't like taking care of the elderly, because the elderly symbolize decay and extinction. Some people want to find a nanny to take care of the elderly who can't take care of themselves at home, but they can't find it. The nanny refused to call and said, although we are both changing shit and urine, I would rather go to a house with children than change shit and urine for the elderly.
Many children don't have time to take care of their work and the elderly at the same time, and eventually send the elderly to nursing homes. This is a society that respects the elderly and loves the young, but there are various behaviors of scolding and abusing the elderly in nursing homes. Because some old people in the family lived in nursing homes, they visited them every day in those days. I feel guilty to be praised for filial piety. It is really a helpless move to be unable to take care of both work and the elderly.
I saw the repairman scold the old man with my own eyes. The cause is naturally the wordiness of the old man, and the children at home must be used to it. This kind of atmosphere will be very wronged when it is brought to the nursing home. Not everyone understands and tolerates their parents as much as they understand their own children, so they can't bear their temper. The old man is long-winded, just asking for something. Not demanding but trivial and frequent, maintenance personnel will lose patience.
In this case, I can't imagine how the maintenance staff will treat my elderly people if they don't come to visit. I only find that the old people are more and more obedient and talk less and less. More and more cautious, I don't know what kind of injustice I have suffered, but I must have been greatly wronged and insulted, and I want to be sad. If we take the elderly who can't take care of themselves home, they can do nothing but hold their breath.
I had dinner with my friends yesterday. There are many nursing home staff on the seat. I like to attend their colleagues' dinner very much. The topic can't be separated from the trivial things at work. It was an idle party, but when it comes to the elderly in nursing homes, I once again thought of what Zhuangzi said: longevity is a shame.
If medical staff talk about patients without feelings, nursing home staff talk about caring for the elderly without feelings. Listening to those 90-year-old people trembling to the canteen to cook by themselves, holding the porridge in the canteen in one hand, shaking all the way, the scene of porridge overflowing made the old people very hurt. The service of nursing home is clearly marked, and what kind of service is provided at what price is understandable, but my heart is still sour.
When people are old, the humiliation of illness, uselessness and disrespect can be seen everywhere. Everyone will be old, and the blessed old man can enjoy his old age when he dies. And more old people don't have a decent life in the last stage of their lives, which makes them shudder at the thought of the old people in the future. Don't just think about respecting the elderly on the Double Ninth Festival. In the last stage of life, it must be painful to live without dignity and dignity. It is everyone's responsibility to take care of the elderly. The last dignity of the elderly in the life stage needs everyone to give it.
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