? Are you experiencing confusion and struggle like me at present? Tired of sleeping in the bed for many years, tired of the comfort and temperature in the quilt?
? Dragging a tired body around the city day and night, punching in and out, either on the way to work or on the way home, squeezing the subway to catch the bus every day, colleagues have a bad relationship, the salary is barely enough, and the work content is the same.
You are like a machine, constantly overdrawing and belittling yourself. You want to jump ship and do what you want. Oh, it's over. You have no unemployment insurance, no social welfare, no salary, rent, water, electricity and property will follow, and you are afraid that you will starve to death in the street without food. You are under pressure from all directions, such as repayment of loans at work, car loan, mortgage, and parents in life.
? You even live two extreme lives. You wear the most expensive mask and eye cream during the day, but you stay up the longest at night. Today you eat all kinds of spicy food, but tomorrow the thermos cup is filled with medlar and jujube health tea. ...
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? Finally, one day, you have a medical report, and your life and health begin to turn red. You realize that you have to make some changes.
? Yes, if you want to live a life you like, you must first do things you don't like and are not good at. If you don't worry about your daily work, supporting your family, rent, utilities and property fees, it will be too difficult. But it's a good thing you know the crux of your illness. If you are not timid and don't care about other people's eyes, try to give yourself the right medicine, get rid of the big cancer that devours you inside, and try to live as casually as possible, maybe life will be different. May you sing.
When I was a freshman, a group of people around me studied hard, so I worked hard, and my grades were among the best, and I also got a scholarship for the whole school year. ? I became a "three good" student in everyone's eyes. At that time, my goal was to work harder. It doesn't matter whether I like my major or not. As long as I do well in the exam, I have a chance to get a scholarship, so there is a voice in my heart telling me to work hard to be a top student. Well, it looks perfect. Winner in life, winner in study, winner in bonus, no delay.
In my sophomore year, everyone was keen on all kinds of competitions and won all kinds of trophies and honorary certificates, so I followed in your footsteps. I also participated in countless competitions and won the most awards in my life, so I began to satisfy myself, mentally and materially. Thought I was excellent. I will write some articles of my own style, and I will also know some fur skills of photography. It has won various praises from teachers, classmates, relatives and friends. In fact, I know my weight in my heart. I'm not as strong as they think. I just did what everyone was doing-studying hard to get a scholarship.
When I was a junior, I saw that people around me were preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, so I began to think about whether I should take the postgraduate entrance examination. This endless road only knows that as long as you are admitted to graduate school, you will have a high master's degree certificate, enjoy better education and resources, have more opportunities and meet more outstanding people than others. I am bound by everyone's inherent things and frameworks. I didn't get a chance to catch my breath. Others think that civil servants are good at postgraduate entrance examination, so they buy information and plunge into the sea of books. Others think that teaching is a stable profession, with many holidays and comfort, so you take the teaching materials, but you don't like noisy and naughty children. Doctors have more money, so you go to study medicine. You don't like working late at night. Try asking yourself: Do I really love these things in my heart? Answer: No, but I finally went against my heart and set foot on this road with a tortured heart. Every day is very painful, self-doubt, self-rejection, but after a long time, there is still no adaptation, habit and love. After reading so many books, attending so many classes and listening to so many experiences, you still can't convince yourself to be happy.
When I was a senior in high school, everyone began to face recruitment. At this time, a large number of people began to submit resumes and look for jobs, so there was another voice in their hearts. I failed to enter graduate school. Should I get a job? Many people have experienced the final evaluation of the initial test and re-examination test, but there are still many people who have not got the offer, because many enterprises are not short of ordinary talents at all, and there are too many top-notch college students. Therefore, some people face the risk of failure in the postgraduate entrance examination and miss the autumn recruitment resources.
As the time for postgraduate entrance examination approaches, I feel less and less confident, so I struggle inside. Should I give up the postgraduate entrance examination and find a decent job? But you didn't prepare your resume, because you don't have internship experience and professional knowledge to prepare for the exam. Your shortcomings, self-confidence, uncertainty and inner entanglement have all become your shortcomings in job hunting.
? On the surface, you look normal. You will play, laugh, eat and have classes with everyone. You live a regular life from nine to five, live a heartless life, have classes, even if it is not your favorite class, even if you are doing a job you don't like.
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? No matter where you are, you have a lewd face. You don't like it. You hate flattery. You've become a little rebellious and unsociable. You avoid a lot of people. You work hard and do a lot of work, but you still don't understand you. So your mentality collapsed. When you meet something bad in your life, you start to cry and even collapse until you don't eat or see anyone. You start to lose sleep, start to lose your hair, and start.
You start to feel that loneliness is eating you up. You turn around and look back. There is no one to talk to behind you. Even your relatives can't tell you how you felt. You are tense, licking the bleeding wound and healing yourself while chanting. But there is no one behind you, only the abyss. You are swallowed up by loneliness.
? Afraid of loneliness, because now you have nothing to do, and suddenly you have free time, and you are at a loss about the future.
Some people are like this, without concentration and independent thinking ability. If a person is young, you will do what people around you do. If the people around you do nothing, you are no different from a basket case and a salted fish. Finally, you find that others have family background and resources, but you have nothing, and you can't do anything. At that time, you were really a basket case. No one can respect you, no one can remember your name, your face, you just live a mediocre life.
? Sometimes you even feel that everything you used to be proud of is beginning to become illusory. You even feel that you don't have it, and you doubt your ability.
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? The future is like a black hole. You are constantly struggling in the mud pond, and the sea of suffering is endless. Finally, you feel tired. You try to give up, live a seemingly rhythmless life, attend classes, lie dead without classes, stay in the comfort zone like a frog in warm water, and enjoy the peace and comfort before the storm comes. But we are human beings, intelligent, emotional and advanced animals. You begin to force yourself out of your comfort zone and try to defeat your biggest enemy-yourself.
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I won't be willing to be a mediocre person, doing the same thing and receiving the salary of a class. Because from this moment on, I am different from others.
? Nobody wants to be a salted fish all the time. Salted fish will turn over if it is left for a long time. So you began to re-examine yourself, you began to regain your faith, find what you love again, and do what you like.
You feel that life begins to have the motivation to move forward, and you begin to find direction, self-analysis and self-planning. You are not sure whether these things can be realized, whether it is a short-term inspiration, the trajectory of your future life, or your ideal lifestyle. I hope you don't forget what you love inside, because that is all the strength and source to support us through the rest of our lives.
? The most important thing to be a man is to stick to your original heart. You can't drift with the tide like duckweed in the lake, wander around, respect your home everywhere, and end up with a lump of loess. If you want to illuminate others, you must first have the sun in your heart, and then you can drive away the darkness and take away the light and heat.
Because I love literature and writing from beginning to end, I am better at writing what I love than studying economics and management for four years. Even a tree, a flower, a leaf and a grass in my life have life and emotion in it, because human beings have given it the true meaning of life, or some unknown people in my life, I think that is the source of my life. They all deserve me. I was fascinated by them.
Writing can be a very simple thing or a very complicated thing, depending on how you define it.
Of course, in my opinion, writing is not a whining thing, not a sentimental thing. Writing is about your inner thoughts and feelings, recalling a person's mental journey, or what flashed in your mind at that moment. Even if you write essays or essays, you should write them in a warm way, so as to arouse readers' interest in reading and convey a belief to readers that you should learn to love your life and the people around you.
? If you want to write, it is enough to write less sad things and more interesting things, so that friends who read the article can feel warm inside and have a feeling of life.
? Then someone will say, I am very sad today, and I want to create a very strong sad atmosphere for myself. After all, I am a sentimental person, and you are wrong. Cover yourself with a quilt and cry or run around the playground for a few times.
? If you write something professional, you must have credibility and foundation, and even attract some potential readers to subscribe to your articles. When you really have self-traffic, you can skillfully turn it into business opportunities, and your own advertisers will come to you, instead of opportunistically using some superficial efforts and marketing routines to routine others. This will only ruin your own traffic and customers, thus ruining your financial path and proving that you are a mediocre person with no business mind.
I like to write about my own thoughts, inner world and things in my life. I like reading books and taking pictures. I wrote more than 100 inspiration cards in the parallel world, and gained the care of many strangers in the parallel world. They like what I write, and they are also paying attention to what I write, which will give me energy and strength. For the first time, I felt that what I wrote would actually bring warmth and strength to others, so I had a sincere determination to write.
? Their encouragement made me start thinking, and I suddenly had a lot of ideas. I want to be a professional writer (writing what I love) in the future, not limited to pure literary writing, but diversifying my writing career. It can be sharing interesting things in life, keeping notebooks, managing funds, investing, interviews, talk shows, speeches, sales and other industries. If you like to eat delicious food, shoot it, whether it is soft or not. As long as you love it, can you hone your shooting skills and improve your taste bud sensitivity? When there is enough sediment, you can establish cooperative relations with major food stores, take photos of them, write about food culture, and taste food and take it back.
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? You like cats and dogs, so can you put your cat in a cafe with cats, how much money can you charge every day, share the daily life of cats and dogs, gather people who like cats and dogs and so on. If you like flowers, it can be an art, a hobby or even a profession. You are good at all kinds of flowers. You might as well go to a flower shop to learn flower arrangement, and deal with flowers every day, and life will be better, provided that you have the heart to love life and try new things.
If you like dressing up, you can also be a beauty anchor and fashionista. You can also develop your own clothing and purchasing business through this channel. Don't say those discouraging words. Why don't I have money and funds? So how can so many self-made business leaders in China become role models for the industry? The length of your vision for the future determines how wide your future road can be. Once successful, there is capital, so Wang Jianlin will say that people have goals, such as setting a small goal of 100 million first. Others find it ironic, but I don't think Li Xiangfu's doubts about his adopted daughter have been drowned out. She has only one daughter. Why can't she have money? Are you poor and distressed that spending a lot of money is a waste? A lot of people do. When their lives are not rich, they will hate the rich. I don't deny that I once had it.
? If you like to travel, it's more than simply taking pictures of eating, drinking and having fun. Go to the tourist attractions of the motherland. Should we play with depth and connotation? You can go to the blog to share the travel strategy food of major social platforms and answer your questions. As long as the way is correct and the platform is a good platform, it depends on how you manage it yourself. The shared things attract others by gravity, which can not only gather a large wave of like-minded people, but also accumulate popularity and traffic for themselves in the future and pave the way for their future career.
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If you like to taste coffee, shouldn't you learn more skills and professional knowledge to enrich your brain? You can offer coffee classes to attract coffee lovers, explain professional knowledge and even sell products. Even if you don't sell your coffee beans, you just share your personal knowledge about coffee and make coffee. Please taste your coffee. Is it easier for customers to spend as long as they stay in cafes? Will the turnover of the store increase? Will it retain a large number of long-term customers for the benefit of the enterprise? Want to go abroad, family ability is limited, can you go to the next English software from now on, use fragmented time to memorize words, learn spoken English, listen to ted lectures and practice listening every day? Be prepared for a career abroad, and opportunities will always come to those who are prepared.
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? With the continuous improvement of the quality of life, people now enjoy life more and more, and they will travel or even go abroad when they have holidays. China's culture is also very distinctive, which attracts more foreigners to visit China. If you have a skill, can you tailor the tour guide service for foreigners and provide paid tour guides? Not only the salary, but also the opportunity to get close to foreigners. You can make friends with them, and then have the opportunity to travel to their favorite countries or places you like with a visa. The world is so big, can't we pursue something? Things you want to experience, people you want to meet and different scenery you want to see can all be realized. There are so many possibilities in life, so don't limit yourself to the Fiona Fang mile behind you, OK?
? If I have a goal and plan, then what I will do next is to recharge my batteries, read more books, write more things, blog more, take more photos, find interesting things in my life, and then record them in words and treat every minute of my life attentively. Time is fair to everyone, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, but everyone's utilization rate is different. Therefore, if you don't want to be a basket case, you must grasp the present. You shouldn't complain about the past, don't worry about yourself in the past, and don't hate yourself now. But to see their own shortcomings. I really think I am great at the moment. I can plan my life step by step. Yes, everyone can become a "temporary expert" in a certain field. I believe I can do it, too.
? There is a lyric in Ronghao Li's Young and Promising that I particularly like. "If I am young and have no inferiority, I will know what is precious, and those dreams can't give you my life." May you and I be young forever.
? Don't set limits on your life, because everyone's life is diversified, as long as you dare to do it.
I hope that one day I will make a difference in a certain field, and I will be proud of it, with tears in my eyes.
? Writing this article may be a whim, or it may have been lurking in my mind for a long time. If it is destined to be like this, then don't set limits on your life, you might as well try to do it. Maybe life will be different, don't you think?