Wen: I'm Su Yan.

Recently, I just finished reading "If you are still alive, you should try to make yourself happy" by Cai Lan. There is a passage that is very touching. He said: everyone wants to be a "home" when learning a subject: painter, calligrapher, seal engraver and photographer. This is a mental burden, and in the end, most of us can't become "home". If we fall in love with one thing and only care about hobbies, we can't be "home". So what? What will it mean to us in a hundred years? Who cares?

I'm impressed. Yes, it's a little early to teach children to be sensible, but it's definitely not like Teacher Sanmao. In the article My Ideal, Sanmao was deeply disappointed that she wanted to be a rag collector when she grew up, and the blackboard eraser smashed it. Children's ideals, no matter how naive and ridiculous, should be encouraged and supported as long as they are written truly. Deliberately guide children to a higher road and be vain people such as scientists, writers and painters, or forget it. If there are children who really want to become famous and start a family, naturally they should be encouraged more. Some children want to pursue freedom, like Sanmao, and go to collect junk all over the world. It is also an interesting way of life, and of course they should be supported.

A third-grade boy wrote that he wants to be a big player when he grows up, earn a lot of money, buy a mansion, marry a reliable wife, have a group of children, and build several big bookshelves at home with his favorite toys on them. It was difficult for him to think of finding a wife and finding a reliable one since he was a child. I forgot to ask him what kind of wife is reliable.

Treat people according to their own needs. If a wise and experienced person had encouraged and guided them earlier, he might have been ignorant when he was a child. If he had been civilized earlier, he would not have taken too many detours. Only when he was five years old did he understand the meaning of life, the meaning of life. Of course, it is a blessing to understand, but it is a little late. If you can understand it earlier, you may be able to achieve something.

Fortunately, I got it later. In the dream of a lifetime, only the word "persistence" is well adhered to, and the writer's dream never gives up. Even the more I write, the more I feel that dreams may be just dreams, and it is unrealistic to dream of growth. Neri has long recognized what Cai Lan said. Take a hobby and you won't have a home. So what?

In another woman writer Tao's book "Gentleness at the moment", I read a passage about writing:

I gradually understand the advantages of writing: I can write down everything I like and tell everyone, the people and things I like, and how to arrange my favorite combinations. With a pen, beautiful people can travel and live in places they yearn for, master interesting skills and conduct advanced research. Writing is to have, how environmental protection, how to enjoy. This skill, which can only be possessed by luck, is worth cherishing.

People who secretly read, write and love to write are really lucky. They write whatever they see and how they want to write. Because they want to write rich content, they gradually learn to see with their eyes and ponder with their hearts. They can see many things that people who don't write can't see, and they can understand many complicated people. They also have a childlike curiosity, like to get to the bottom of the casserole, like to explore and take risks.

Reading other people's books is more, and experiencing what others have experienced in books, although not personally feeling, can also know the bigger world through other people's brushstrokes. Too many authors have become famous and married, and their opinions and insights are several times better than ours. These books are full of wisdom and insight. Reading their books is like playing games with masters. Read more, and your skills will be enhanced unconsciously. Combining the opinions of many other people, and then sorting out the output, a personal cognitive system is formed. Invisibly, they are more knowledgeable than those who don't read, write or practice, and have an open-minded attitude towards the people after tomorrow.

The dream remains the same, from the end, this life remains the same. Writing is bound to become the ultimate goal of personal life. He doesn't want to get married or become famous. He can live every full day with his heart, record his daily life happily, live one day, not waste one day, and ask for nothing else.

To live, you need to enjoy life.