Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, I will be in the second half of my life. People always live for others in this life. Now is the beginning of real life.
There is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "Stand at thirty, be puzzled at forty, and know your destiny at fifty."
People don't understand what fate is until they are 50 years old, and what can't be arbitrary. The whole person becomes peaceful and understands that everything goes with the flow.
After 50, the following three kinds of people want to spend their old age safely.
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The best reliance is on yourself.
As the saying goes: "The mountain behind the mountain will fall down and everyone will run."
At the age of fifty, the best backer is yourself.
Many people think that they can enjoy a comfortable life for the rest of their lives. In fact, no matter how old he is or how high his position is, the only person who can really hold up an umbrella in the storm is himself.
There is such a story:
A man went to the temple to pray and found Guanyin worshipping himself. He asked inexplicably, "Why do you worship yourself?"
Guanyin replied, "I have encountered difficulties, but I understand that it is better to ask for help than to ask for help."
As the saying goes, "everything is bitter, and I am the only one", and people should understand this truth in their later years.
If you want to rely on others for everything, entrusting the center of your life to others will only make you passive.
Besides, at the age of 50, she is the pillar of the family. Besides taking care of the elderly and children, she should also take care of herself.
Don't be tired because of trifles. It's most important to take care of yourself.
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The most beautiful companion is his wife.
Some people say, "companionship is the longest confession."
After 50, the person who can accompany you for the longest time in this world is not your parents, nor your children, but your wife.
Parents will leave you eventually, children will get married, and it is your wife who can stay with you.
In the neighborhood next door, there is an old couple who love each other deeply.
After they got married, their lives were very harmonious and their families were happy. However, two years ago, my grandmother unfortunately suffered from Alzheimer's disease. My grandfather took good care of her and taught his wife to play the electronic organ to alleviate her illness.
As the saying goes, "Young couples always come for company". The older they get, the more important they will find their husbands.
Especially in his later years, he lived alone and took care of each other. This kind of companionship is irreplaceable by anyone.
My wife is the most precious asset in my life.
People are cared for and cherished.
When you are old, learn to cherish the people around you, because your wife is the one who can accompany you to your old age!
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The greatest blessing is children.
In this life, the greatest blessing is to raise filial children.
The child's warm lamp is enough to illuminate his future life. Children are the sweetest burden for each of us, so we won't feel lonely when we think about it.
As the saying goes, "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."
When you are old, you don't need to worry too much about your children, and don't focus on them.
Although raising children to prevent old age, the real backer is oneself after all.
Don't pin all your hopes on children, don't expect them to support the elderly, and be grateful for the happiness they bring to your life.
It is the greatest comfort and blessing for children to live well.
But when people are old, they should learn to "depend" on their children emotionally, have concerns and hope in their hearts, so that life will be more fulfilling.
In a person's life, with these three supports, you can enjoy the rest of your life and make it colorful!
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