See a sentence on the Internet:
The text is rough, not rough. Although the rushing Yellow River is magnificent, its momentum of devouring mountains and rivers is inevitably frightening. On the contrary, the trickle on the side of the mountain is quiet and remote, nourishing health and having the beauty of flowing water.
In life, if every day is as hectic as a war and you can't calm down and feel life slowly, it will be a gift of life.
Life is long, don't seize the day, you might as well slow down-watch the sky at dusk, clouds in spring, flowers and snow in winter.
Life is precious. The slower you live, the more blessings you get.
Slow down and stop worrying.
My friend Kobayashi, the head of an enterprise department, is very busy at work and has little time to spend with his family. The pressure of work, her husband's complaints and her daughter's alienation all made her feel anxious.
Not long ago, she was promoted to vice president of the branch.
In order to seize this opportunity, whether it is the work summary, performance report or the speech to be interviewed over the years, she has repeatedly considered and revised it to make it perfect, so she works overtime until midnight every day.
Unfortunately, the day of the interview happened to be the day when she held a parent-teacher meeting for her daughter.
As soon as the interview was over, she drove to school. As a result, her car broke down halfway. She had to sit on the side of the road waiting for help while she was anxious to get angry, and finally delayed the parent-teacher meeting.
Life should be lived slowly. Slow life is life. Every day, time drives me away, so I am very tired. "
Yes, she finally felt like a wound robot. She didn't have time to enjoy the intimacy between husband and wife, and missed many times when her daughters grew up.
We are busy every day, because we want to have more time, or stay with our families, or be free.
But the fact is, the work will never be finished, and there will always be many things. No matter how busy you are, you can't take away half a day of leisure.
Everyone in the pursuit of fast and efficient at the same time, will inevitably lose time for calm thinking. Running without a clear direction and being busy without a goal often make people feel anxious.
Only by slowing down and recognizing the direction can we stop anxiety and make life comfortable and calm.
Slow down and feel the warmth of the years.
Wang Jin, a restorer of cultural relics and clocks, unexpectedly became popular because of the popularity of the documentary "I Restored Cultural Relics in the Forbidden City". He is elegant in temperament and exquisite in craftsmanship, and is called "the male god of the Forbidden City" by netizens.
Wang Jin/Kloc-came to the Palace Museum at the age of 0/6 to work on the restoration and protection of cultural relics and clocks.
To outsiders, "repairing clocks and watches" is an extremely boring job.
In a studio of tens of square meters, master and apprentice each occupy a corner and do their own work. There are countless disassembled clock parts on the workbench, and there are still several unfinished clocks to be repaired.
Wang Jin has been doing this "boring" job for more than 40 years. He summed up his career as follows: "Choose one thing,' Zhong' lives."
With his love for this profession, he is patient, immersed in restoration work every day, and does what he likes to the extreme.
These ancient clocks engraved with historical traces have witnessed Wang Jin's persistence and dedication for decades. After years of polishing, he became a "magician" of "repairing time".
The ancients said, "Urgent is slow, and slow is round." .
You have to do things slowly to appreciate the fun; Only in an orderly way can things be done perfectly.
If you try to rush for speed, you will easily make mistakes and delay more time.
I saw a sentence on the internet: "Don't worry, take your time, and you will get the years you want."
Whether it is long-term patient study or decades of hard work, it will not be in vain, and we can all feel the warmth of the years.
Life is long, why not slow down?
Two days ago, my aunt held a dinner party for her family to celebrate the 40th anniversary of her marriage to her uncle. My uncle bought a bunch of red roses for my aunt and wrote a poem for her. Their love and affection are enviable.
Aunt and uncle are college classmates, and they have a good impression on each other in their four-year love relationship, and they have established a love relationship. After graduation, my aunt stayed in school to teach, and my uncle was assigned to work in other places.
Just being together will separate the two places, and both of them are very reluctant.
My aunt wanted to work with my uncle in other places. My uncle said it was a pity to give up the rare opportunity to stay and teach. He begged menstruation to give him a few years, and he would repay menstruation by his own efforts.
So, two people started a long-distance relationship. At that time, telephones were not popular. They wrote letters once a week to tell each other what they thought.
People in love feel separated from Sanqiu if they don't meet for a day, not to mention the time span of several years. However, instead of being pessimistic, they have deepened their understanding of each other through their correspondence in the past few years.
Three years later, my uncle changed his job and returned to my aunt with excellent business ability.
Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, flash marriage is more common, and love marriage is regarded as a child's play.
As the saying goes, "it's easy to fall in love, but difficult to get along with."
When the ambiguity in love becomes the daily necessities in marriage; When the passion in love becomes the responsibility after marriage; When the romance before marriage is replaced by the triviality after marriage, how many people can stand the blandness year after year?
Only lovers who have walked together for a period of time and passed the test of time can have a longer future.
Life is long. What's wrong with slowing down if you want to win people's hearts?
Don't be impatient, slow down, and you will be better off.
The writer Buxia wrote in Sitting in Black and White Time: "The faster you come, the less you will cherish. Take your time, spend time and energy, and cherish what you expect. "
Thinking of the classic bridge in The Journey to the West, Pig Bajie got the coveted ginseng fruit and swallowed it in one gulp, but didn't taste the fruit at all.
The road of life can only go further if you walk slowly. May every step we take be practical and true!
Authors: Snow falls without dust, writer, emotional counselor. If you encounter any emotional troubles, you can click on my avatar in the upper left corner and give me a private message. I'll help you analyze and solve it.