? Every time I go home, I tell myself in advance not to say anything unpleasant, whether psychologically or physically, but when I sit in front of them, I forget my decision and tell everything. My mother is 88 years old. Except my third brother, almost all my brothers and sisters are over 60 years old. I am the youngest, but I always let them worry with me. When I went back this time, they all knew that I had just had a gastroscope and asked questions with great concern. They gave me money for fear that I wouldn't accept it. They stuffed it into my bag when I didn't know it, and they didn't tell me until I left. They don't know how much they have subsidized me over the years. Third brother made me a soft and delicious noodle soup. My eldest brother noticed that I had obviously lost weight, and said that anxiety could also lead to an uncomfortable appetite. He told me to relax and learn to decompress myself. My second sister and second brother bought me dried steamed bread and pumpkin pie, and I had a good appetite. My second brother took me to the station, and my second sister and brother-in-law gave me anti-anxiety drugs. Not to mention my mother, who worries every day, but is afraid to ask, for fear of arousing my emotions. I don't do much for the elderly, but my mother has been helping me in all aspects, which is particularly shameful.
? Every time I leave home from college with all kinds of delicious food and full of love, there are countless scenes. Since riding a bike to pick me up, a group of people happily accompanied me on the platform waiting for the train. Later my second brother or brother-in-law drove me to the station, and then I drove myself. These scenes are as clear as yesterday. The times are advancing, the form has changed, but the family relationship is as strong and mellow as ever.
? Children who are parents in this life are born in such a kind, simple, United and friendly family. If my nephew Xue says that if you are a family in love, you will be lucky to be your sister.
? My parents are ordinary workers, kind, honest, upright and generous. They have been honest and practical all their lives. My grandfather died when my father was seven years old, and it was not easy for my grandmother to help others with sewing and bring him up. Dad has been very careful since he was a child, always letting others do everything, and always educating us in this way. My mother was born in the mountains and likes studying since she was a child. She goes to school and writes with branches. At that time, it was not liberated, and such people were rare in that environment. Someone acted as a matchmaker for my mother. At that time, my mother was still very young, and she promised to marry my father on one condition, that is, to let her study. Grandma fulfilled her promise and mom and dad went to school. In the forties and fifties of last century, my mother and grandmother were very remarkable. In the third year of high school, she ran home after class to nurse her eldest brother, and then rushed back to school. A strong thirst for knowledge is the strongest motivation, which makes her satisfied as long as she can learn. I had a big brother in high school and a big sister in junior high school. When she was at school, she went home to take care of the baby while working. In this way, she insisted on finishing junior high school with excellent grades, so she found a job to support her family.
? My mother used to be a teacher. She used to teach in the countryside with my second sister. Later, she left her teaching post because of her voice problem and worked in a government agency. Later, he worked as a director in the first salesroom of Qixian grocery store until he retired. No matter what position you are in, you are conscientious, diligent, hard-working, working wholeheartedly in the unit and taking care of the young and old at home. Is absolute honesty and integrity. My mother is the busiest time during the holidays. Brothers and sisters often work overtime with their mothers and staff on New Year's Eve. I still remember wearing a white coat and weighing snacks, and I was in full swing. Although she later became the director, she always took the lead in her work, rushing to get goods in and out, and carrying a whole box of cans when she was pregnant with me. When she can't move, she leans her stomach a little. Advanced workers have taken countless units, counties and districts, and they are all doing it. Our brothers and sisters all see it in their eyes and keep it in mind.
? There are six children at home, and grandma helps to look after them. But whenever my mother is at home, she just can't stop spinning the top and take care of the family's three meals a day. At that time, the pots at home were the oldest. Now think how hard it is for her to cook a bowl of noodles every day. She greets my grandmother, my father and us first, but she is always the last to eat and never listens to her complaints. My mother is always in a hurry, always sweating like rain, always positive, full of strength, considerate and willing to help everyone. When I slowly think back, a woman like my mother is really one in a million. She is full of righteousness and positive energy, tolerant and generous, never complains, loves learning and lives a positive and sunny life. My father is an ordinary clerk, who is rigorous and meticulous, honest and humble. No matter who asks him for something, he will help him enthusiastically and never fail. My parents have no great achievements, but kindness, honesty and trustworthiness are indeed our life examples.
? How hard it is to raise six children is beyond words. Every child's growth is the result of how much effort and sweat mom and dad have paid. Conditions were not good at that time. My mother moved the children to a dry place and slept in a wet place, leaving limited delicious food for the children. Big brother got hemorrhagic purpura at the age of nine, and second brother was badly burned for eight months, and it took a long time to recover. Third brother has been weak and sick since childhood, and there are sick children at home. Mental torture alone is overwhelming. In the process of accompanying children for treatment, my parents often seem to dig out their hearts. My father also paid a lot of hard work and companionship, and his body was not very strong. Fortunately, God bless all the children to grow up healthily. After finishing junior high school and high school, I also went to college. My parents have been kind to others all their lives, and their children are very practical and reliable. They help all children find jobs and get married so that their parents can enjoy their old age.
? My father has coronary heart disease in his sixties, and his children are very filial. My mother takes care of them day and night, and at the same time she has to worry about the family and life of each of our children. After retirement, at least every week, the children will go home to get together and have a meal cooked by my mother. How many laughter and laughter are left in the small yard, and the warm past always flows like a warm current when I recall it.
? Later, my father got sequelae of cerebral thrombosis, and his actions gradually slowed down. He knows everything in his heart, but he doesn't like to talk. He looked at us with attachment and his eyes moved with us. He is becoming more and more like a child, which is distressing and inseparable from my mother. My mother is only two years younger than my father, but she always takes care of her day and night. My mother goes to the neighbor's yard next door to see flowers and plants, and my father will stand at the door and wait for her. The scene of the old couple taking care of each other often makes us feel distressed. Once their parrot was taken away by a cat that came in from outside. My mom and dad were crying and washing cages in the yard, which made me and my son, elder sister, second sister and third brother very sad.
? On October 2012165438+10, my father died of esophageal cancer, and the old couple lived together for 64 years. It was a great blow to my mother and she was gaunt for a short time. But for us, she cheered up and insisted on practicing Qigong. She has been practicing since she was in her fifties to keep healthy. See Yangshengtang every day, take notes, prevent brain degeneration, and don't give children trouble. Over the years, she has written more notebooks than I 16, and even the younger generation has bought her beautiful notebooks for her to choose better ones. Third brother bought her a whole box of pens and correction tape correction fluid. If she made a mistake, she should correct it neatly. I really admire her handwriting, because it is getting better and better. When my father was not ill, he especially liked reading books and newspapers. A person's awareness of learning established since childhood will really lead his life and have great influence and inspiration on us.
? All the children live and work in peace and contentment, and the younger generation has grown up and become a family. Everyone loves each other and is especially filial. My mother often tells me that this kind of life is enough.
? As the youngest child in my family, I always get the most care and love. Needless to say, I have been fond of collecting stamps since junior high school when I was a child. My mother bought the new stamps for me as soon as they were issued. My third brother and I like listening to music until the third year of high school. My mother scrimped and saved and bought us a dual-card tape recorder. I have had a headache since junior high school. My mother took me around, checked all kinds of tests, acupuncture in western medicine and traditional Chinese medicine, bought gastrodia elata wine, and drank two bee milk every morning in high school for three years to help me increase my nutrition.
? My father advised me to study medicine in the college entrance examination, but I didn't want to. He suggested that I apply for Shijiazhuang Railway Institute. I said the name Shijiazhuang is not pleasant to listen to. I remember my dad saying I was too headstrong. He suggested that I take the radio maintenance major, but I didn't listen. I have grown up and experienced a lot. I understand how correct it is that my father thinks I should study a major and technology, and you can live without relying on the government. If I had listened to him, my wish would not have come to nothing. I felt particularly sorry for my parents, especially my dad, who had a bad heart at that time. My second brother took me to find a job and sent me to work. Alas, I was still young at that time. ...
? When I entered the university, my second brother took my family to send me to school.
? Just entering social work, my second brother took my parents to send me to work;
? When I got married, the whole family helped me prepare for the wedding and sent me to my new home collectively;
? With the child, my mother accompanied me for a whole month, taking care of me in every possible way, and the whole family rushed up and down to celebrate the arrival of Xiaohao Egg;
? The child needs to be taken care of, and the mother brings her father to help me.
? I have something at home, my parents are my strong backing, my brothers and sisters are my strong support, and my nephews and nieces are very concerned about their three aunts and six grandmothers. My relatives supported me with faith and affection, helped me and taught me to be a better person.
? In such a big family, I have always enjoyed deep affection and love. With such relatives behind me, I am not afraid of anything, and I can carry through all the ups and downs. They are the source of my motivation and courage.
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