I am deeply attracted by the kindergarten culture of my son and daughter and have been practicing it. These simple twelve sentences have nourished my life and I can't help but want to share them.

? The first sentence: it is really important to be with whom in this life.

We are who we are now, not only because of our genes, but also because of the people we contact and see. If the people we contact are full of positive energy, then our life will be illuminated by their energy.

The second sentence: stand in the future and arrange the present.

? This sentence makes us more forward-looking!

? Feng Lun said that there are three ways to think. The first way is to stand in the past and look at today, just to remember, just to complain, to remember and then to be complacent. This is an error-prone thinking;

The second is to judge the present by judging the present, that is, to judge whether what I did today is right or not by what I saw from others. This is not foresight, but only horizontal comparison and judgment;

The third is that it can form a forward-looking force. It must be standing in the future and arranging today. Stand at a certain point in the future, and then see all the changes that have taken place at that time, possible changes and inevitable changes in the future, and then decide what to do and what not to do today, focus on the future, find the law, and arrange your own affairs according to the law.

The third sentence: I believe, I understand.

There are three kinds of people who believe this. Most people are, I see, I believe! This is in line with the old saying that seeing is believing. Another one just saw it and didn't believe it. The highest state is that I believe and I look! Many great inventions and innovations are based on what I believe and what I see!

The fourth sentence: concentration will win?

? "In the sun, take a convex lens, let the sunlight pass through the convex lens to form a bright spot, and aim the bright spot at the matchhead. In a short time, the matchhead will ignite a raging fire. "

I played this game when I was a child. This is the focusing effect of convex lens! This is the power of concentration! When all the power is used in one place, it often produces magical effects!

Many of us are the same in life and work. For a while, I signed up for many courses, such as sports, food, meditation, writing, psychological counseling ... I was exhausted from all kinds of courses every day and had no time to spend with my children. I wanted to grow up better and be with my children through study, but I didn't succeed. Faced with desire and temptation, I had to learn to give up and concentrate only on tutoring, books, writing and video content. Because I believe

What water drops and stones pierce is not the power of water, but the power of persistence!

Therefore, the belief is firm and the goal is clear! Accumulate and eventually become a road!

The fifth sentence: performance is king, and growth is great.

Performance is king and growth is great-it means that the focus of doing one thing is different. Performance is king, and it is result-oriented. No matter what the process is, as long as the results are achieved or the established goals are achieved, it is victory.

Growth is process-oriented, focusing on the process of event implementation. The development of things is the process of the implementer's growth, which may be more significant than the existing one.

? In the process of educating children, we should pay more attention to the thinking, growth and inspiration brought by the process.

The sixth sentence: management by objectives emotion, management by objectives behavior, management by objectives contradiction, management by objectives team?

I didn't understand this sentence at first, but after a series of events, I deeply realized it. All emotions, behaviors, contradictions and management should be based on goals. ?

? In the whole process, we will have emotions, behaviors and even contradictions in the team. However, if we always manage ourselves by goals, then we will correct our behavior, manage our emotions and reduce the contradictions in the team in this process, so that we can achieve our goals more quickly.

The seventh sentence: the problem itself is not a problem, but how to deal with it?

This sentence is what I often say to children. It is normal to encounter problems in life, work and study. How to solve these problems is what we need to pay attention to.

? If we have been entangled in why this problem happened and who caused it, instead of thinking about how to deal with it, then this problem has always been a problem.

? How to deal with the problem?

? First, regain your energy. Don't always focus on anger, procrastination, tension and anxiety. Standing on the front line to see the problem, pulling it out can solve the real problem.

Second, look inward. First of all, you should know what problem this symptom exists to solve.

? You must see the essence through the phenomenon of this problem, and then you can solve it and formulate new treatment methods. When we are immersed in pain, we are often dragged down by it and forget to look inside to see what the real problem is.

Eighth sentence: the method is always more difficult than it is.

? Nothing is insurmountable if you think about it. The shortest way to overcome difficulties is to correct our behavior while doing it until the difficulties are solved.

Ninth sentence: realize self-interest in altruism?

? Egoism is instinct, altruism is our choice. As long as there are contradictions and conflicts in egoism, war will come. But we must understand that everything in the world can survive and circulate because of altruism. The degree to which you meet the needs of others is the degree to which you have achieved yourself.

Tenth sentence: I am the root of everything, and love is the ultimate destination.

? I actually mean my thoughts. My thoughts are the root of all the complicated problems I feel, such as love, hate and hate. So great and selfless love is the ultimate answer to these questions.

? Love can stimulate people's potential, change people's weaknesses and heal broken hearts. All complicated problems can be solved with love.

Eleventh sentence: If people don't plant flowers, they will grow weeds.

? In fact, our hearts are like a piece of land. If we don't plant flowers, we will grow weeds. It should be pure and beautiful, but sometimes it is inadvertently infected by negative factors such as laziness, boredom, selfishness and desire, thus becoming barren.

At this time, if you want to forcibly remove them, you will be even more tired and even at a loss. It's better to focus on the little things around us, remove the weeds in your heart with good qualities such as sincerity, purity, kindness and gratitude, occupy the wilderness with virtue, and let those bad ideas and habits disappear naturally without knowing it.

A person whose heart is full of flowers will be himself sincerely, bless others in good faith and silently bless strangers.

Twelfth sentence: innovation will change history, and non-innovation will become history.

? The times are changing and the historical rings are advancing. It is important to bring forth the old and bring forth the new, otherwise it will be eliminated by history and become a real historical relic.

? Many people may think that this is chicken soup after reading it! I want to tell you firmly that you are not "chicken soup" when you practice, but all you don't do is "chicken soup".

Many things that you think are "chicken soup" have been turned into chicken soup in life by other people's actions. They are nutritious, delicious, refreshing and nourishing for life. All demos are choices. You choose to believe, and you will see.

? Therefore, I sincerely invite you to practice these twelve golden sentences together, open yourself up and invite these words to nourish our lives!