A sudden flash of light in the night sky lit up the confused, lazy and complacent face in front of the glass, leaving only emptiness and regret.
Sheng Ruxi, an older single white-collar worker played by Shu Qi in The Leftover is King, once said: I am despised by the whole world. Why don't you question the whole world, but you should question me with the whole world?
The 30-year-old who has undergone great changes in age, world outlook and evaluation criteria seems to be easy to assimilate and difficult to adhere to.
37-year-old Orfila, in the face of marriage, career crisis and mental frustration, has changed from being stubbornly eager to be recognized by everyone to choosing what she likes now. Her transformation is ultimately based on loving herself.
Being a gregarious person will eventually be confused, and being an unsociable person is to love yourself deeply.
What is unsociable? Not to release your inner self at will, not to lose your temper and ignore other people's feelings. But don't force yourself to agree, and don't hurt your initial heart.
Yang li Ping, who is in his fifties, regards peacock dance as his life. She was married twice, but neither chose to have children. Being together less and leaving more led to the weakening of the relationship between husband and wife, and even restricted her diet for many years because of maintaining her figure.
Such artists finally got hot reviews and hot searches. The core of hot comments is gregarious "tolerance", even accusing her that a woman's biggest failure is that she has no children.
Venus is also an excellent modern dancer, and her dance troupe is always full of enthusiasm, confidence and satisfaction. As a dancer, she is famous internationally.
As a woman, her family is harmonious and her educational concept is advanced. But she has always been restricted by gregarious "gender", and it seems that the struggle for gender can destroy all her achievements.
But whether Orfila, Yang li Ping or Venus, they all chose to be unsociable pure people.
When 37-year-old Wu Xin came to the stage of "braving the wind and waves" and chose to compete with a group of outstanding female stars, she didn't just care about fame and achievements, but chose to do what she liked and do a cool thing.
Why is Wu Xin getting more and more awkward? There are many talented and attractive female stars in the bustling and charming entertainment circle, and naturally there are green leaves.
Orfila is recognized as a green leaf and an ordinary person among the stars.
Ordinary appearance, average figure, low professional ability, and even not picky about emotional intelligence.
It seems that she can appear in front of the public for so many years, relying on the aura of Happy Camp.
As her acting skills were scored low, there were fewer and fewer lines in the variety show, and she began to feel uncomfortable.
Facing this world, I am timid, afraid to stand out and full of grievances.
Why?
Because her courage to hit the wall was killed by time, the cost of happiness was infinitely compressed, and finally she became a humble middle-aged actress.
In "Braving the Wind and Waves", when the two sisters were arguing about the order of appearance, Shen seemed to be in control: the two sisters took the initiative to sign up.
However, the number of sisters is too large, and the constant collision when reporting the number leads to chaos in the audience.
Wu Xin immediately came out to take control of the overall situation: report to the ten parties first, and discuss the rest slowly.
The audience was very surprised that Orfila's ability to control the ball and react was so strong?
In fact, this question also appeared a few years ago, when Nana missed the happy camp because of pregnancy. Orfila actually controlled the audience, whether it was a topic or a joke, which was commendable.
When she participated in "Star Detective", she overwhelmed Sa Beining and several high IQ stars with her brain power, and even sharply questioned He Laoshi, making it impossible for He Laoshi to explain the loopholes smoothly.
Is she incapable? It's just that the whole world doesn't need her to be smart
When she first joined the camp, she wanted to make a big show. As a young man with high IQ and high education, she could have become a shining star in variety shows.
However, the positioning given to her by the program group is vase and silly sweet, and the star explodes CP, which sets off the star's high emotional intelligence and wisdom.
He Laoshi once explained to her in the variety show that the positioning of the program group for Orfila is the little princess. But in a work accident, she was cut into short hair.
Finally, he was scolded by the program group because his short hair ruined Orfila's design.
When attending the new Wulin Congress, Venus asked her: Did you get robbed by Nana? Wu Hao immediately responded: the positioning is different.
Therefore, Orfila's humbleness and misfortune all come from being suppressed. Her best years were wasted, grinding her from an ambitious young man to a frustrated middle-aged man.
In "My Daughter", I soak my feet every day, put on my makeup silently and then take off my makeup, and fight Lego late at night to interpret loneliness and loneliness to the extreme. Even rated as: the most common appearance among all girls.
Braving the Wind and Waves releases Orfila, the coolest and most self-centered. Only when he is suppressed can he be released, and only when he loses himself can he see what he wants to pursue most.
As a poor host, Orfila can only concentrate on variety. It seems that there is no choice, but it is actually a turning point.
After several variety shows, the audience's harsh criticism of Orfila seems to make her face up to her "frustration" and "sense of giving up".
In "Riding the Wind and Waves", she said: After 35 years old, she suddenly saw the manuscript. At the age of 35, Orfila still felt girly. Then every year, 36-year-old Wu Xin and 37-year-old Wu Xin are losing weight.
She gradually realized that she had entered middle age and saw her unhappiness and frustration.
When she participated in the challenge program with Han Geng, she cried and shouted at the same time, overcoming her fear of heights and not wanting to drag down Han Geng's progress.
Wilber Pan and I participated in the variety show of love. From the very beginning, we were cautious, and finally we were willing to stand on the stage of "China Hip-hop" to surprise each other.
She is making progress every time, but every time her purpose is to show everyone a better self.
However, in front of the camera of "Braving the Wind and Waves", she changed her statement: It is cool to find something confident at this age.
She really likes the women's group, even a little girl who secretly supports her in private. So 37-year-old Wu Xin came to this variety show to pursue what he likes and make himself happy, not to make the audience happy.
In fact, Orfila, who is unsociable and willing to love himself deeply, is the coolest.
Under the pressure of sleepiness, she chose the last one to go on stage in order to humble her sisters.
After taking the stage, he danced and sang boldly, and even dared to talk about the arrangement of the program group, saying that he was too sleepy.
She is no longer a silent and transparent person, because this is her favorite variety, not a variety that caters to the public's choice.
Many people will be self-centered, generous and kind, and then self-centered. This is a process from gregarious to unsociable, from catering to others to loving oneself.
Therefore, in the face of the doubts of the world, it is rare to persist in order to show the most attractive self. For example, Orfila chose the coolest women's group to challenge. For example, Yang li Ping devoted her life to peacock dance. For example, Venus suffered so much to release her true gender.