The Origin of "Primitive" Little Star: Recording the Difficult Abortion Road after Three Big Month Abortions in Linlin

This article tells the story of a strong girl who finally realized her mother's dream for the fourth time after three miscarriages in three countries and four cities. She, a patient in Linxi, Linlin, is as independent, strong, virtuous and elegant as ever.

A few days ago, Linlin left Shanghai for home with her four-month-old baby Xiaoxing. Daughter Xiaoxing is the biggest gain of her one year in Shanghai. Her background is hard. On the day of parting, Linxi obtained Linlin's consent, and she was willing to share her story with Linxi.

20 15 One day in June, Linlin joined the "Abortion Group with Big Month". At that time, she was very sad to tell the story of her third failed abortion:

In order to protect the fetus, she returned from Brazil after pregnancy, rented a room in Guangzhou alone, and went to the clinic of Professor Zhang Jianping in the Second Hospital of Sun Yat-sen every week for more than five months.

"At 24 weeks, the baby suddenly stopped moving. The sky is falling, and I am disheartened. " She said. The grief at that time could not be described in words. I made great efforts and spent tens of thousands of yuan on medical expenses, but I still didn't keep my third baby.

"You don't know how difficult it is to register for outpatient service in Zhang Jianping. You often have more than 30 blood tests and take heparin twice a day ... I thought it would be successful this time. " When she spoke, she showed helplessness, sadness and disappointment. ...

Due to the excessive use of blood-activating drugs, sudden induced labor leads to postpartum hemorrhage. The emergency attracted the attention of the director of the hospital department at that time and operated it personally. Fortunately, it is safe and sound. After a little recovery, she is still thinking about having a baby of her own in the future.

There are already several "elderly" patients in the group, who have provided her with experts with a higher success rate and treatment plan for miscarriage prevention in the big month. Many sisters encouraged her: last time, it was wrong to protect the baby. Maybe the reason was not found. I didn't get enough medicine. Come to Shanghai and have a look.

In this way, in September of that year, on a crisp autumn day, Linlin came to Shanghai alone. She made an appointment with Linxi, Feifei and Xiaojin, and these patients who had the same experience began to seek medical treatment in Shanghai.

"Shanghai, this is my last stop, my last effort!" That's what she said

According to the examination plan of two experts in Shanghai (one in obstetrics and gynecology and one in rheumatology and immunology), no obvious abnormality was found. Lin xi and Feifei (female doctor) like to study hard. After reading the book Recurrent Abortion, they decided to make a thorough investigation and went to a famous thrombus expert to check coagulation again.

Linlin's case really puzzled experts, so she decided to join the clinical research team and give her a free examination of a group of genes such as coagulation factor gene (Leiden mutation). Two months later, experts informed her that there really was a gene mutation of coagulation factor.

Experts believe that the problem of gene mutation is not serious. Can't the third abortion be controlled by heparin twice a day? However, no problem has been found in the immune problem that was concerned about in big month.

"When you are not pregnant, maybe the problem is hidden; Many immune problems can only be aroused after pregnancy. Everything is subject to pregnancy. " In the face of no abnormal inspection report, Linlin thinks so after discussing with experts and patients.

She looked at the previous photos at the seaside and recalled a scene: every time the skin at the seaside came into contact with seawater and was exposed to the sun, red butterfly spots would appear. She told this phenomenon to experts in rheumatism immunity. Experts believe that although there is nothing unusual in the current test report, this symptom may have adverse immune problems. She was prescribed medicine before she got pregnant and asked to have a check-up two months later.

Before Christmas in February, 65438, Linlin took medicine, changed planes twice and bumped for more than 30 hours, and finally reunited with her husband who worked in Brazil in South America. With her husband, Linlin became the original little woman again. The sky there is very blue and the scenery is pleasant. Linlin buys food, cooks and cooks soup every day, runs for fitness at the seaside, wears China cheongsam and communicates with local people. A nourishing life only needs a lovely baby.

Brazil is not always so beautiful. A few years ago, Linlin quit his job and went to South America with his expatriate husband. There, she got pregnant for the second time, several years have passed since her first abortion 16 weeks. I thought the living environment was better and my mood was relaxed. I can have a baby in Brazil this time. Unexpectedly, in the second trimester, after 20 weeks, the fetus stopped again! This time, Linlin realized that it was not that simple for her! There are no good medical conditions abroad, so it is better to go back to China to have children next time. Thus, there was the third difficult road and the fourth success.

At the beginning of 20 16, Mr. Wang moved to Argentina, followed by Argentina. According to the instructions of two experts in Shanghai, I went back to Shanghai in April to check and adjust the medication plan. Just this month, Linlin was pregnant again! What a surprise! She took Xiaoxing's embryo to three countries, turned twice and came to Shanghai again. After I found out I was pregnant this time, I rented a room next to the hospital and settled down. All this, Mr. Wang is not around. She is such an unpretentious girl.

That's it. Start all over again. This time, in Linlin's heart, it is the last hope.

Unexpectedly, things always torture people like this. After more than 40 days, the embryo was red, and the shape of the embryo was irregular by B-ultrasound. That day, Linlin was very sad. The first three pregnancies, there will be no problems in the early stage, how can there be abnormal in the early stage this time? Is the embryo of poor quality? What happened? She thought about many possibilities and finally calmed down a little. "If the embryo quality is not good, it is useless to protect the fetus. Let nature take its course. "

For Linlin, every step is nerve-racking, walking on thin ice. After a few days, seeing red naturally disappeared; B-ultrasound again showed that the embryo was regular in shape and grew well. This level, temporarily relieved.

After that, I met several experts regularly every two weeks: Professor of Rheumatology and Immunology, Professor of Fetal Protection and Obstetrics and Gynecology, appointed B-ultrasound experts to monitor the blood flow of fetus and uterine artery, and established a card to check the body to adjust the medication in time. Experts are all special needs clinics, and the registration fee is 268 yuan. At this time, in order to save the baby's life, the cost has been ignored. The more I get to the critical period of 20 weeks, the more anxious I am. I really hope I can skip it directly at this stage. But time is always difficult to choose, and the "devil's period" of more than 20 weeks still needs to be faced by yourself.

Looking at other pregnant women in the circle of friends, traveling around for more than 20 weeks, how chic. For normal people, the second trimester is relatively stable and safe. Anyone who has experienced abortion in a big month knows that the second trimester is the most problematic period.

To be on the safe side, the immunologist hung a histone for her before the critical period. When all items were examined in the last 20 weeks, the "standard lupus ratio" began to be abnormal and rose to 1.2 after pregnancy. After three miscarriages in October, the "real murderer" was finally caught at this time, and the experts adjusted the medication accordingly, and all the drugs used were used (3 A, 2 points, top 2, 1 liver). In this way, the terrible second trimester was near misses.

After 37 weeks, I can finally stop taking the medicine. After caesarean section, this lovely little star was carried out from Linlin's belly.

On the third day after Xiaoxing was born, Linxi met Xiaoxing in the hospital. Round body, sleepy, occasionally crying, Linlin said it was not easy to bring her into this world, hearing her cry, my heart ached. On that day, Linlin's milk passage was not fully opened, and Xiaoxing was sucking milk hard. The new mother gnashed her teeth in pain and frowned, but endured not saying a word. She is willing to exchange her pain for the baby to suck happily.

After the baby was more than two months old, Linxi and Xiaoxing met again. After having children, Linlin was happier. Different from other mothers who successfully gave birth to their babies, she and these mothers who struggled to retain their babies never talked about the pain of raising their babies because they had suffered too much before.

Before Linlin left Shanghai, he said to Linxi, "For so many years, I gritted my teeth and never gave up. As long as you don't give up, you will get what you want in the end. Isn't life like this? Too smooth is boring. "

From then on, the prince and princess had a good baby and lived a happy life. And a happy life, she tried her best to get it.