The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a very sensitive issue since ancient times. Under normal circumstances, many mothers-in-law will take care of their daughters-in-law because of their weak health after giving birth, but some mothers-in-law are indifferent to their daughters-in-law, even cynical and critical, which makes their daughters-in-law feel very chilling and even angry.

When it's her mother-in-law's turn to be sick and helpless in the future, the treasure mothers will think of the situation that they were isolated and helpless at the beginning. Not only will they not feel sorry for their mother-in-law, but they will be more and more wronged, not to mention helping, and they will have a conscience when they fall into the rain.

Second, why can a woman hate for a month for a lifetime?

1. People can often see people's hearts best when they are most helpless.

It is said that people's hearts are flesh, and the confinement for more than a month is not long, short or short. But it is always at this time that it is easiest to see people's hearts clearly. If the daughter-in-law is the most helpless, the mother-in-law not only does not take the initiative to help, but also stands and makes all kinds of cynicism, without worrying about her back. After that, my mother-in-law is ill, and it is basically impossible for my daughter-in-law to take care of herself.

2. confinement requires frequent begging.

The pain of confinement is no less than giving birth. Usually mothers are very weak at this time, some of them are so serious that they can't even hold their hands. So we need someone to help us.

If at this time, my mother-in-law is not only inconsiderate, but also keeps complaining: Others give birth to children without your affectation, but you have the most things to do! ? If you always hear her mother-in-law say such things, which baby mother can not be sad?

Of course, in real life, there will be many good mother-in-law, who not only cares for her daughter-in-law everywhere, but also helps her daughter-in-law to have a confinement. Usually, this kind of situation will always make the daughter-in-law grateful and will care more about her mother-in-law in the future.

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. If there is a conflict at ordinary times, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can tolerate each other a few steps, especially during the period when the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child and confinement, the mother-in-law will spare no effort to help. I believe the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be solved.

During confinement, did all the precious mothers get careful care from their in-laws? If my mother-in-law doesn't care about herself during confinement, can she let go of the original one when her mother-in-law needs someone to take care of her when she is sick? Resentment gang?