? The first aspect: self-growth.
? Classic study has become my study habit. I insist on reading classics with audio every day, three times a day, reading new content in a week, and following the platform. I manage my time well. Get up early every day to listen to the morning class, take notes, write a diary to sort out the lessons learned that day, and share the gains and growth of each day in the diary. But in June 5438+10, I didn't insist on learning the driving diary. Every day when I come back from driving practice, I am busy checking the homework of fourth-grade children and telling stories to put them to sleep. I fell asleep myself. I got up early the next day and continued to practice driving. In reading, I only read one classmate, Xin Sheng, Wang Yangming and China for five thousand years.
Following the platform closely, I nourish and grow in the platform. Monday's family education class made me understand that educating children really needs methods. Giving birth to a child is as simple as the first step of the long March, but teaching children is a bit of a long March. If the revolution is to succeed, we must constantly explore, practice and summarize, correct from failures, seek methods, solve problems, and constantly learn, optimize and improve. On Tuesday, I learned from other people's stories about growth and listened to other people's stories to think about my life. From teacher Qin Xiao's comments, I peeled off the dark clouds again and again, "I peeled off all my benevolence and saw the spring of heaven and earth", knowing that I am the root of everything, finding the root of the problem from our family background, and then solving the problems one by one and finding myself. In the Culture Lecture Hall on Wednesday, I can learn our excellent China culture in an all-round way, so that I can make up my own culture class. I can share my diary on Thursday, so that I can learn from my family's diary, record my daily growth experience, reflect on my own shortcomings and make new progress every day. Diary allows me to record my growing footprints and enrich my life. Attending Friday's meeting in Gong Yi, I learned how to change from a flower watcher to a flower grower, so that I can calm down and learn the growth and gains of my family's team in Gong Yi. Commitment means growth, and if you give, you get. In Gong Yi's team, I am engaged in the collection and arrangement of pronunciation courses, which is simple, but it is a responsibility. I must calm down and check Li Jiao's pronunciation course, check the time and content, and wait for the list of hosts and sharers in Gong Yi on Friday. This series of work made me calm down and wait for the process of completing the task. In Gong Yi's team, I learned to undertake the work of host and on-site recording, which improved my ability and exercised my mind. The more I undertook, the faster I grew.
2065438+joined the health group in March 2009, followed the guidance of Teacher Zhao, and supplemented diet and exercise every day. My heart is getting stronger. Now all the family members are sick by themselves. Relatives and children have a cold, or their stomachs are uncomfortable. I smoke their stomachs with moxibustion, then drink ginger and jujube water and pat the corresponding acupoints. I'm not nervous when I have problems. What I learned is not to struggle and complain, but to face the problem and solve it. The health team is full of energy. I stick to diet and exercise, and always smile. My 20 19 year is a healthy year, a happy year and a happy year. Thanks to Mr. Zhao for leading us to run happily and healthily on the road of paying attention to health. ?
? In 20 19 years, apart from studying closely on the platform, I got sick instead of seeking medical advice everywhere. I no longer waste time and money to study outside. I learned to seek from the heart and learn to grow up.
Second: family.
? Children's physical habits and study habits are much better. They insist on going to bed early and getting up early every day, learning to read classics, swinging their arms and squatting on the wall, and the children also give their bodies a sense of rhythm. In this atmosphere, children learn and grow in the positive energy field. Although their grades in school are not ideal, they have the motivation to learn on the way to study. He likes reading extracurricular books and sharing them. Every time he runs a reading class, he can keep reading and be the host. From small to large, he can also regard learning as a happy thing. He will also share with me what happened at school. He can come back from school and cook in the kitchen with me. He will help me dry my clothes at noon and clean up my dishes after dinner. I saw that the children were happy, learned to take care of themselves and learned the skills of living independently. These are my learning and growth, and I study and practice in my life with the platform. Children are slowly changing.
? My state is getting better, and I'm getting stronger. I play the role of a good heroine at home. My two children are healthy and safe, and they can keep up with the team in their studies. My grandmother is much less worried. Both children are in good health, which also reduces the psychological pressure of their mother-in-law. She is always worried about the health of her eldest grandson, because I was a new mother when I gave birth to Dabao, and I didn't have much parenting experience. I didn't take it. I was often sick when I was a child, and often. My mother-in-law and I can't breathe. Mother-in-law is always worried about her children's health and education when she is depressed. Now, following the team of cultivating the mind, I study, grow, optimize and improve myself with the team. I am lucky to follow this energetic, creative and diligent team, and I have learned to pay attention to children's health and education at the same time. I have led them well in these two aspects, which is due to the team strength of the team. I like learning and growing, and I like to change myself. I stand up on my own axis and my ability has improved. Many things are easy outside, and my mother-in-law doesn't have so much nagging and worry. In addition, we seldom live with our mother-in-law, and our contradictions and misunderstandings are much less. Everything is the best arrangement. I manage the time shared by Teacher Qin Xiao, and I arrange it myself. So I can take my two children to arrange meals and daily life, take care of the sanitation of the whole building at home, arrange the management and teaching of cram schools, visit and check the children's homework at night, and the whole person keeps turning, but living a full and happy life, I no longer pay attention to the affairs of three aunts and six grandmothers outside, as if living on my normal life track, without so many entanglements and complaints. All the reasons come from myself. Find the root of the problem and solve it. My concern is a healthy life. I care about my growth and exercise. I don't have the time and energy to worry about my lover's shortcomings, nor do I complain about the problems my parents-in-law gave me. I have gradually let go of things at home, because when I am not strong enough, I can't solve other people's problems, but I will be taken away by other people's problems. I only care about my own growth and do what I can. What makes her mother-in-law happy most is that her two grandchildren read classics, act as hosts and play the piano for her. Dabao has done a lot better in school this semester, and this final exam has also played his normal level. She is happy to go home with two awards. Grandchildren are really happy for their mother-in-law.
? 2020 development plan
? In 2020, Yuan, Heng, Li and Zhen, at this meta stage, I intend to continue to grow up and return to be a baby. I will start from scratch, take root in myself, establish my own central axis, focus on changing myself, continue to read classics, enrich my heart, accompany my children to read classics in a down-to-earth manner, cultivate their behavior and study habits, and persist in practicing calligraphy. Optimize and improve my heart, continue to run my family's Bible reading class, persist in building a family learning platform to cultivate children's aspirations, and focus on fish farming and water. I am no longer eager for success. I stick to my post in the Bible reading class, lead my two children to keep reading the Bible, let them form the habit of reading classics, and keep watching Disciple's Rules and Chinese Character Palace with them. I study internally, insist on learning in the health care group, insist on reporting every day, keep my awareness, mindfulness and awareness every day, keep on paying attention to my health, walk on the right road, first do a good job in the cultural atmosphere at home, rebuild my family style, adhere to the spirit of sharpening my sword for ten years, let my learning methods be implemented at home, and adhere to the concept of "reading classics for life". I don't ask for love anymore, jean. Cultivate your mind to the point where you can see sesame seeds, let your mind settle down, build your own family road from rough to fine, let my children grow up healthily through my words and deeds, make home a warm harbor bend, and make home a navigation for children's minds. I believe that parents will study hard and their children will make progress every day. 20 19, taking many detours. Looking back, I summed up my experience and lessons. Past setbacks and failures have made it a stepping stone to my growth. Growth is a spiral development. I learned to break through myself, make a small fortune, and then set sail in 2020, first educate myself and make myself strong. With enough energy, we can influence people around us, cultivate ourselves, and start from cultivating our own hearts and focus on it.
? It is the wonderful time of 2020 1 month. I use the platform to send my sincere wishes to my family and say goodbye to my family in advance! I wish our Jinggen Society a bright future and thousands of families, and I also wish all the families on our platform a new year and a new atmosphere! Good health! Happy family! Life is harmonious! Everything goes well!