Wedding hygiene should start from the wedding night.
Because of the combination of the two sexes, there will be mental tension and fear because of the first contact with sexual life, especially for the woman. The man should take care of the woman, and both sides should take care of each other. The first time * * * can rupture the hymen, causing slight pain or a little bleeding to the woman, which requires the man to move gently. Rough four-crossing not only brings mental unhappiness and physical pain to the woman, but also occasionally serious four-crossing will cause perineal laceration and bleeding, which requires immediate medical attention to stop bleeding.
The first time *** 4, because the hymen has a wound, it is best to wait for a few days after the laceration heals. After marriage, * * * is more vigorous, and sexual life requirements are more urgent, so we should pay attention to moderation.
Generally healthy young men and women can have sex 3-4 times a week at the beginning of marriage, depending on everyone's situation, so as not to affect their work and study the next day. Cleaning the vulva before and after each sex can prevent reproductive tract inflammation and urinary tract infection.
Sexual life should be forbidden during menstruation, which will not only cause reproductive tract inflammation, but also increase menstrual flow due to pelvic filling, so choose a wedding date to avoid menstrual period.
2. Health care knowledge during marriage
Marital sexual health mainly includes the following points: 1. Pay attention to the cleanliness of sexual organs of both men and women before sex.
Men should pay attention to cleaning * * *, scrotum, and remove dirt from scrotum skin folds. Because women are close to the outside, they are rich in sweat glands and sebaceous glands and are easily polluted by urine, so they should be thoroughly cleaned to prevent genital inflammation.
2. Couples should develop the habit of washing their hands before going to bed, and wash their hands with soap and water to avoid contact during sexual life, resulting in female urinary tract infection. 3. Women urinate immediately after * * * and clean the vulva.
What is the pleasure of being inseparable? 4. The first sexual life at the wedding will lead to the rupture of the hymen, which will cause bleeding and pain. We should stop natural life properly. 5. Sexual life is strictly prohibited during menstruation.
Because of menstrual bleeding, uterine opening and low body resistance, * * * can easily cause female reproductive organ infection, and even secondary infertility, resulting in adverse consequences. 6. The frequency of sexual life during marriage should be moderate.
Because the original natural barrier function of female external * * * changes with the beginning of sexual life, excessively frequent * * * will increase the chances of inflammation of urinary system and reproductive system. Newlyweds and young couples usually have sex twice a week to avoid dizziness, backache, leg pain and mental fatigue the next day.
3. What do you need to pay attention to when you are married?
Newlyweds should understand each other's sexual anatomy and physiology, read relevant books, and master relevant sexual health knowledge in order to have a satisfactory sex life.
First of all, the surrounding environment and the layout of the room are very important to the life of husband and wife. Bedrooms should be comfortable, bedding should be neat, and indoor air circulation should be maintained.
Fresh air contributes to a good sleep after sexual life, thus quickly restoring physical strength and spirit. It's best to have sex in soft light.
The * * * part of sex comes from vision, and the whole dark environment has lost this * * *. Creating a comfortable environment and atmosphere through soft light and color helps to arouse sexual desire.
Therefore, it is best to decorate the bedroom with soft colored lights. Secondly, couples should pay attention to cleaning genitals before sex.
The female * * * has self-purification function and the endosperm is sterile. Sexual life will bring dirt from * * * and * * into * *, and may cause infection.
Besides taking a bath regularly, you should always wash your genitals with warm water. Rinse before each sex. In addition to wiping the scrotum surface, the foreskin should be turned up to expose the coronal groove, and then washed with soap and water.
The cleaning of female vulva should pay attention to the dirt around the size of * * * and * * *, and finally clean * * * from top to bottom. * * *, then the external genitalia will be cleaned, and women will urinate once. Urine has scouring effect, which is beneficial to prevent urinary tract infection.
Pay attention to the hygiene and cleanliness of sexual organs, which is helpful for men to prevent dermatitis and dermatitis, while women can prevent genital inflammation and urinary system infection. Women come to menstruation for 3 days every month, and the endometrium is physiologically peeled off during menstruation, and there are fresh wounds in the uterine cavity, which may bring human bacteria and easily cause reproductive organ infection and inflammation.
Moreover, menstrual pelvic bleeding, * * * will cause increased menstrual blood and prolonged menstrual period, which is not conducive to women's health, so menstrual period is prohibited. If menstruation occurs on the wedding night, it can't be * * *. If you don't pay attention, it is easy to cause reproductive organ inflammation, endometritis, cervicitis and pelvic inflammatory disease.
* * * The frequency should be appropriate to prevent overclocking. After marriage for a period of time, * * * is relatively strong, and * * * requirements are also more urgent.
Healthy young men and women, 3-4 times a week at the beginning of marriage * * * is not too much. There is no fixed pattern for the frequency and time of * * * between each couple, and there are great individual differences, which are related to age, physical health, mental state and occupation. If you feel happy and meticulous after * * *, that's appropriate.
If you feel listless, tired, weak, backache, dizziness and loss of appetite after * * *, which affects your study and work the next day, it means that * * * is too frequent and should be reduced appropriately. People who are weak or suffer from chronic diseases (such as hepatitis and lung disease) are prone to relapse due to the frequent occurrence of * * * *, so special attention should be paid.
The newlyweds should start caring for each other and take care of each other, which will make their feelings more harmonious.
4. How to pay attention to hygiene measures on the wedding night?
On the wedding night, both men and women have sex for the first time. In order to ensure the health of both parties and the harmony of sexual life, we should pay attention to personal hygiene before and after * * *.
Generally, the following measures should be taken: 1. swim
* * * Before the wedding, the newlyweds should take a bath, wash their sweat, and get rid of the smell of sweat, so as not to disgust each other and hate the smell of sweat when they are in bed. When taking a hot bath, special attention should be paid to cleaning the external reproductive organs, removing the dirt on the * * * *, especially the dirt and dirt on the * * * crown groove and the skin scales with long foreskin, and removing the dirt in the folds of the size * * * * to avoid bringing these dirt into * * *.
Bathing with warm water can also speed up blood circulation, which has a benign effect on reproductive organs and is good for sexual life. If you don't have the conditions to take a warm bath, you should also wash the external genitals with a basin of warm water.
If possible, both men and women can spray a little perfume on the chest, forehead, armpit and other parts in the past to give people a pleasant feeling, or they can * * * *. But when spraying perfume, don't spray it on the genitals, so as not to cause inflammation of the reproductive organs.
2。 Change underwear.
After bathing or scrubbing, put on clean underwear. 3。
Brush your teeth and gargle. * * It is very important to brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before. Husband and wife share the same bed. When whispering, they will face each other, and when kissing, they will face each other. If their mouths are smelly, they will make each other sick and disgusted, thus reducing * * *.
Therefore, after taking a shower and washing your face on your wedding night, you must brush your teeth and rinse your mouth. 4。
Put toilet paper or clean towels under the bride's hips and mouth. The first time * * *, the hymen will bleed if it is damaged. In the process of * * *, when * * * twitches, it may also bring out secretions in * * * and * * *. In order not to dirty sheets and mattresses, toilet paper or clean towels and cloth should be folded into thick mats before * * and placed under the bride's hips and mouth.
* * * Stop, that is, fold up the mat and take it off. 5。
Prepare toilet paper and clean towels. * * * is used to wipe each other's genitals, and cleaning after * * * is more important.
After * * *, when the groom pulls out * * * from * * *, the bride can take toilet paper in both hands and wrap the freshly pulled * * * in one hand, so that the mucus on the * * * will not surge; Cover * * *' s mouth with toilet paper from the bottom of * * *' s mouth with the other hand to prevent the mucus in * * * from flowing to * * * and buttocks. The groom can use toilet paper to help wipe the bride's vulva. Although this practice of wiping each other is a trivial matter, it will generate gratitude in each other's hearts, which is undoubtedly an extra compensation for sexual life and is conducive to the newlyweds to enhance their feelings. If both husband and wife do not feel tired after * * * *, it is best to wash their genitals with warm water immediately.
* * * With self-cleaning function. So don't wash * * * with water after * * *, and don't wipe it with toilet paper or towel, so as not to damage the intima of * * * and destroy its defense function. .
5. What do you need to pay attention to when you are married?
It is very important to pay attention to sexual hygiene when you get married. It can not only prevent some diseases caused by neglecting sexual hygiene, such as cystitis on honeymoon, but also avoid fertility disorders caused by affecting sexual function. Therefore, the newlywed sex life should be: (1) Keep external hygiene at all times.
In addition to taking a bath regularly, both men and women should also clean the outside before and after each sexual life to prevent infection or mutual pollution. (2) Strictly abide by women's taboos on sexual life in various periods: that is, women should abstain from sex during menstruation, pregnancy, puerperium and lactation.
If the menstrual period is * * *, it will increase the chance of reproductive tract infection and anti-* * antibody, and it will also cause pelvic congestion, menorrhagia, prolonged menstrual period or backache and abdominal distension. At the beginning of pregnancy, sexual impulse will cause uterine contraction, which may lead to miscarriage. In the last three months of pregnancy, * * * will cause abdominal pressure and even premature delivery.
Puerperal period because the postpartum genitals have not completely degenerated, it will take at least 8 weeks to carry out * * *. During lactation, due to the temporary atrophy of female genitalia, * * * activities may cause tissue trauma and even bleeding.
(3) Choose the right time * * *: It is generally best to choose it at night before going to bed, so as to have enough rest time. The best time should be when both sides have sexual requirements.
6. How to do sexual health care when you are newly married?
If you want to live forever, you should abstain from sex first. If you don't pay attention to health care, it will do great harm to your body.
The most basic thing in newlywed sex life is to ensure hygiene. Keep your genitals clean before and after sex. Women should pay attention to the wrinkles between * * *, and wash them from front to back to avoid the bacteria around the anal gland polluting the mouth of * * *. Men should turn the foreskin over and wash the scales.
Menstruation is forbidden * * * Because the cervix is slightly open during menstruation, the endometrial wound is bleeding, and it is easy to be infected by bacteria, which may affect the future fertility. Menstrual period can cause menorrhagia, prolonged menstrual period and lower abdominal pain. Menstrual blood will make the man's urethra uncomfortable, pollute his clothes and affect his taste. Even if the marriage time coincides with the menstrual period, he will wait until the menstruation is clean before starting sex.
The first night of marriage is the starting point of married life. When the bride enters the bridal chamber, she will be paranoid and uneasy. In a brand-new and unfamiliar environment, there must be many problems to consider. In this regard, women should try to maintain emotional stability, calm and not panic.
For the first time, a man must be gentle and considerate of each other, and must not be rude, too fierce or too hasty, otherwise his wife will feel pain and fear. In order to make the first sexual life successful, husband and wife should not rush to end the relationship just after relatives and friends leave, but should have enough time to caress, hug, kiss and even appreciate each other's bodies.
7. What are the necessary common sense for marriage?
The essential elements of marriage refer to the conditions that the parties must have when they get married.
China's current marriage law stipulates that there are two conditions, that is, both men and women reach the legal age of marriage completely voluntarily. 1. Article 4 of the Marriage Law stipulates: "Marriage must be entirely voluntary, and neither party may force the other, and no third party may interfere."
This provision is the concrete embodiment of the principle of freedom of marriage in the marriage system, and the decision-making power of marriage is completely given to the parties themselves through law. (1) Both men and women should have the ability to express their willingness to get married.
(2) The consent of both men and women to get married must be true. (3) The consent of both men and women to get married must conform to the legal form.
2. Must reach the legal age of marriage. The legal age for marriage is the minimum age for marriage stipulated by law. In other words, people can't get married until they are of legal age, and it is illegal to get married before they are of legal age.
Whether to get married at the legal age of marriage is up to the parties themselves.
8. What sexual health knowledge do newlyweds need to know?
The so-called sexual health care is to adopt healthy sexual behavior according to the physiological characteristics and life rules of the human body in order to prevent diseases and protect health.
Sexual health care, called sexual health care in ancient times, is a novel and ancient knowledge. It is called a novelty because it has only been paid attention to and studied at home and abroad for nearly thirty or forty years. It is ancient because the subject has a long history. With the birth of human civilization, sexual health care has sprouted. As early as 2000 years ago, the earliest medical classic in China, Huangdi Neijing, clearly pointed out the significance of sexual health care. For example, Su Wen's "Ancient Naivety" said: "If you take wine as the pulp, do whatever you want, get drunk, try your best, dissipate its truth, don't know how to be prosperous, always be absent-minded, be eager for quick success, run counter to life, and live unrestrained, then you will be half the battle."
"The' half-hundred-year-old' here refers to aging, and the direct cause of aging is' drunken entering the room', that is, the ignorance of sexual health care. Paying attention to sexual health care is a major feature of ancient health care in China. However, due to the shackles of ancient feudal ethics, especially the influence of Confucianism, sexual knowledge is considered obscene and vulgar, and it is dismissive.
Even if some doctors are influenced by Confucianism, they are secretive about it. Therefore, in a long historical period, human sexual knowledge and theory have not been treated correctly.
People with sexually transmitted diseases are often ashamed to talk about it and suffer from nowhere to see a doctor. People's sexual behavior is not only influenced by the body itself, but also by social environment, psychology, heredity, disease and other factors. A large number of facts show that people need sexual health care very much. How to correctly understand and live a good sexual life is beneficial to physical and mental health, how to do a good job of prenatal and postnatal care, improve the quality of the population and promote human development, these issues are attracting more and more people's interest and attention.
This is just as the ancient sexologist said: "Things in the room can give birth to people or kill people. Such as fire and water, people who know how to use them can keep fit.
What won't work is all dead. "。