It is better to ask for help than to ask for help;
First, "The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong": "A gentleman seeks for himself, and a villain seeks for others."
Interpretation: A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others.
Second, "Wen Zi Suntech": "It is better to blame others than to blame others."
Interpretation: It is better to blame yourself than to blame others, and it is better to beg others than to beg for yourself.
Practical significance
Generally speaking, don't ask for help if you can, Dont Ask For Help. It is better to work hard than to ask others. Success through your own efforts can make you a confident, useful and respected person.
The help of others is of course important, and sometimes we really need others' help, but if we love asking others for everything, it will not only add trouble to others, but also easily make us form the habit of relying on others and lose our confidence and self-esteem.