2.60-year-old Lao Li said, I have never been married in my life, and I don't feel so much burden on me. I am very happy and satisfied to live a free life that I like.
Lao Li, 60, is a freelancer. He likes painting at ordinary times. He opened a small tea shop and hired a clerk to take care of it. Usually he just drinks tea with friends, chats, travels and paints with a group of painting friends from all over the country, and lives a carefree life.
When he was young, Lao Li took a fancy to a beautiful girl, but the girl's parents disagreed, thinking that Lao Li was out of tune and could not give the girl a stable life.
Lao Li likes painting when he doesn't like studying, but people in small towns think that only by studying hard and having a good job in the future can they have a better life. In this way, Lao Li came to this city to explore the world with his dreams.
When I was 40 years old, I was introduced to Lao Li. Lao Li felt comfortable, didn't have to worry about his wife and children suffering with him, and didn't want to be bound by his family, so he missed many opportunities to get married.
Now, 60-year-old Lao Li feels very happy alone. He is in good health, has his own hobbies, has his own tea shop, earns a good income every year, and pays various insurances himself.
The buddies together asked Lao Li, do you live alone? Lao Li said that a person is free, has no family burden, is free, and is free to go wherever he wants. I am very satisfied with my present life. As for the future, I don't have to worry too early about which step to take.
Zhang Jie, 3.50 years old, said that I was forced to get married and became an older woman, so I no longer wanted to get married. Watching my sisters complain day by day makes me more comfortable and chic.
Jason, 50, said that she was afraid of getting married just because her parents urged her to get married, so she no longer wanted to get married.
Sister Zhang's hometown is in the south, and her parents are authentic farmers. She thinks that girls should get married when they are old. But Jason has his own opinion. She believes that if she can't meet someone she is satisfied with, she would rather be alone than follow the arrangement of her family like other sisters, marry a man and have a child, and then grind away her dreams in various trivial lives.
Although Jason is retired now, after years of hard work, she has her own house in the city, a pension, a lot of pension money and many hobbies.
Jason is the personal trainer of Shizhi Gym. She studied with her master many years ago, then took the provincial qualification examination and got the first-class coach certificate in Tai Ji Chuan. This is also one of her favorite hobbies.
She also studied A Dream of Red Mansions in extracurricular classes. She especially likes a dream of red mansions, insists on going to college to pay for lectures, and publishes all her thoughts in writing on the Internet.
Now Jason lives a full life. She felt free from marriage and family. Every time I hear that my sisters are worried about her husband's cheating, her children getting married, her grandchildren going to school, and all kinds of trivial things, she feels particularly good alone.