There are many star couples who are more and more alike in the entertainment circle, such as:
Ada Choi and Max Zhang, who have been married for 9 years, especially Ada Choi with short hair, are 80% similar to Zhang Jin?
Anita Yuen and Csillam have been together for 25 years and married 16 years. Their eyes, nose, mouth and even hairline blown by the wind are very similar.
Huang Lei and Sun Li, who have been together for 22 years and married for 13 years, have become more and more "family" just by showing these two faces.
Tian Liang and Ye Yixi have been married for 10 years. They are like replicas of a family of four.
Lu Yi and Bao Lei who got married 1 1 year, although it is rumored that Bao Lei has fine-tuned, she is too much like the male version of Lu Yi!
12 Sun Li and Deng Chao who have been married together for 7 years. Even if the couple play face-changing games, they don't feel disobedient. Netizens have said: Husband and wife love!
Bo Huang and Xiao Ou have been together for 23 years and got married 10 years. Few people know that they are husband and wife. Just look at this photo and say that both brother and sister believe it, right?
Then the question is, why are there couples?
There is a popular saying in Weibo recently that couples are caused by kissing, because the flora tends to be the same.
This statement comes from a Weibo published by Beijing Youth Daily: Yin Ye, CEO of Shenzhen Huada Gene, said in an interview with Awakening that bacteria are a whole that runs in a planetary way. When two people kiss 10 seconds, they will exchange 80 million flora, and the more they kiss, the more they look like each other. This is how couples are born, because the flora tends to be the same.
Under this Weibo, in addition to Aite's own object, netizens also secretly show their love, and also enthusiastically hint at Deng Chao and Sun Li. The longer the couple grow, the more alike they become. I'm afraid they have been kissing. Are you tired of it every day?
Some netizens don't buy this statement, questioning "ugly and beautiful kisses, which direction should couples change?"
To be honest, this kind of questioning by netizens is more inclined to small probability events. Just look at the couples file in the entertainment circle. Basically, they are handsome guys with beautiful women, and Song Joong Ki with Song Hye Kyo.
Although there are exceptions under the interference of money, status, resources and other factors. In the end, everyone is still more willing to choose a spouse who is equivalent to their own value.
Even China's phrase "The tortoise looks at the mung bean" is true. Turtle and mung bean are two seemingly unrelated species. The reason why we can look at each other is that from the outside, the turtle's eyes are as big as mung beans, and the turtle's eyes are as green as mung beans.
Therefore, the problem of husband and wife is doomed from the moment when everyone starts to choose a spouse. Moreover, scientific research shows that when people choose friends or lovers, the genetic similarity accounts for at least 1/3 of the selection criteria.
People usually subconsciously think that they may get along better with people with similar genetic characteristics, so when choosing friends and spouses, they will be more inclined to choose those with similar appearance or personality.
In addition, the interaction between husband and wife in the process of getting along is also an important factor for husband and wife.
First of all, when couples live together, their living habits and diet structure will tend to be consistent. For example, when a husband buys a midnight snack, his wife rarely refuses to eat. Another example is Sun Li's love for health and sports. Under her influence, Deng Chao actually grew up from a greasy middle-aged uncle.
The contrast diagram of reverse growth is still obvious. . . Only the refreshing Deng Chao on the right looks more like a husband and wife with Sun!
Secondly, the mutual influence between husband and wife is also reflected in emotion, that is, "if you are happy, I am happy." This emotional experience will produce similar facial expressions.
Facial expressions are produced by tightening or relaxing certain facial muscles. In the long run, couples with the same emotional experience will have the same wrinkles because of the same facial muscles.
Finally, the mutual influence between husband and wife is also reflected in imitation.
There is a concept in psychology called "chameleon effect", which refers to the psychological phenomenon that people often unconsciously imitate other people's postures, quirks and facial expressions.
The closer you get, the easier it is to imitate. When couples imitate each other, their movements, looks and temperament will become more and more similar. For example, Sun Li made faces by imitating Deng Chao, and his funny temperament became more and more obvious.
Having said that, the same living habits, the same emotional experience and the same appearance and temperament are all evidence that two people love each other! Therefore, the sweetest and most correct explanation about "husband and wife" is that,
Loving you is becoming what you are now!
Cassie (variant of Cass) (F.)
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A 90-year-old man, who was dragged into the middle age just after he got on the road, walked slowly but didn't worry, and set his mind at ease to be a code man.
This article is original for Bamaying.