Putting the elderly in nursing homes is hardly social progress, but it is not entirely filial piety. House, education, medical care and old-age care are the four major consumption items that every family has to face. I believe that most people are very concerned about the problem of providing for the aged, and basically don't want to spend the rest of their lives in nursing homes.

First of all, we must have an objective expectation for nursing homes, which are not for the elderly. Children's substitution and assistance are essential, and children and nursing homes need to cooperate to serve the elderly; Only in this way can we achieve twice the result with half the effort, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Judging from food, clothing, housing and transportation, nursing homes are definitely not as good as home. Especially in food, will it be as fine and delicious as cooking at home? However, the menu of nursing homes is a scientific combination of nutritionists and vegetarians; In the era of overnutrition, the nutrition of meals in nursing homes basically meets the needs of residents. If the children send a little "good food" every once in a while, the elders will be very happy.

China is a society that values filial piety and family. Many elderly people reject nursing homes because they are worried about being abandoned by their children on the one hand, and because they feel comfortable living at home all their lives on the other. In the case of the one-child family, many people are really overwhelmed. Busy with work, making money, supporting the family, no time, and not so much energy to take care of the elderly. For the elderly, the biggest fear is that there will be some diseases, but after all, there will inevitably be some minor health problems. If you hire a transfer nurse, it will be a huge living expense. Nursing homes have specialized nursing staff, reasonable diet and playmates. Therefore, in general, living in a nursing home is more economical and convenient.