Learning to take care of yourself is a human survival skill, and cooking is one of them. Both boys and girls should master this skill.

A woman can't even cook and do housework. A mother who opposes her daughter learning to cook and do housework before marriage is not a qualified mother! People want to survive. Cooking and doing housework is a survival skill. It doesn't matter if they don't get married. They have to eat and live every day. If you can't cook, you can only starve to death and can't clean up the housework. Is home still like a place to live? From ancient times to the present, there is not a mother who does not teach her daughter the basic skills of survival. Teaching her to take care of herself like this doesn't even understand the basics. How can she marry a good husband! In ancient times, women had to learn to do housework, cook, be bridesmaids, teach children and wash their skins with rice soup in order to find a good husband. Although it is a new era and the status of women has improved, no matter how high they are, they should cook and eat meat. It is impossible to marry a wife who eats takeout every day. How can a woman who can't even clean up the housework live her whole life? Everything is unpredictable. It is impossible for every woman to marry a rich man and send slaves as servants. Not long ago, I read a report that a young man couldn't cook and eat, and another girl starved to death. If the mother doesn't teach the child survival skills, will the child be excellent? There are indeed some young people who can't cook or do housework. This trend cannot last long. Should arouse social concern, this is the degradation of survival, is a sign of breeding lazy people. As parents, this is a thought-provoking reason

It is the sorrow of school education and family education in China that children don't do housework.

You don't have to learn before marriage, but you can learn before marriage, which can reduce the trouble after marriage. I think most parents are worried about who will cook instant noodles after marriage.

If you want a happy marriage, don't care too much about who pays more and who pays less. The key is that boys are responsible and girls are considerate.

Parents don't have to worry about getting married before marriage, even if they are single, they have to cook and clean up the housework.

It should be like this. In the past, women's parents taught their daughters how to cook and do housework before they got married, instead of demanding this and that as they do now.

No, it's such a simple thing.

I seldom do housework before marriage, and I don't have to go to school specially. After I get married, I will get used to it. Now in the internet age, I want to eat a few dishes, watch a few more videos, synthesize a few and cook a few. Cleaning is a simple matter. In today's high housing prices, the housing area is not large. Nothing is a problem as long as you put your heart into it. Let nature take its course, and things will eventually work out.

With many small household appliances, cooking is very convenient. If you want to learn cooking, you can learn it online. What about me? I can only cook simple meals, but it will be fine if I cook them, and I will drown sauerkraut.

Cooking and doing housework is one of the important skills for people to survive, and both girls and boys learn to cook and do housework. It's good for your life. But some people don't understand it that way. At present, some parents are very outrageous. They don't teach their daughters how to cook, how to do housework and how to work at home, but they teach their daughters to work less, stay away from cooking and not do housework after marriage. They think it is despicable to cook after marriage, that is, to suffer indignities, and that it is noble to leave those jobs to their husbands and mother-in-law, so that they can have a position in the family. If you don't learn to cook and do housework, you will avoid cooking and doing housework at home on the pretext that you can't cook and do housework. Other family members will naturally cook and do housework. This kind of thinking and practice is stupid, very low-level and childish. This is the most realistic manifestation of the remnants of feudalism, which is extremely unfavorable to yourself, your daughter and your daughter's family.

It doesn't matter whether you can cook or do housework before marriage. It is not a necessary condition for marriage, but it is a problem to have a family after marriage and not be able to cook and do housework! Cooking and housework don't have to be done by the hostess. Now is a new era. Under normal circumstances, newcomers need to work to support their families. Some people get off work early, while others get off work late. Prepare meals in time when you get off work early, and do housework when you have free time, instead of waiting for the other party to come back at home to do these jobs. In other words, we should take the time to solve the problems of eating and housework. To improve the efficiency of family work, you can make up your spare time and finish your work ahead of schedule. On the rest day, we can spend a lot of time to arrange travel or shopping and solve some things that need a lot of time. This requires both men and women in the family to learn to cook and do some housework. Women can't be expected to cook after work, nor can men be expected to cook after work. But who should get home first, or who should rest at home and finish all kinds of housework reasonably, comprehensively and efficiently. With a baby, it is even more necessary for everyone to cook and do housework, otherwise the family will be in chaos.

Of course, it is great for both men and women to learn how to cook, do housework and operate various household appliances before marriage, but many young people don't have time to do these studies before marriage. Simple cooking is common among young people. If you want to make quality, appetizing and nutritious food, or have the standards and skills to entertain guests and make banquets, that's fine, but it doesn't matter if you don't. Learning after marriage is also an important part of family life. The epidemic situation in recent two years has put forward urgent requirements for young people to learn cooking. You can order takeout or eat out if you have money. However, in an epidemic, you sometimes have to do it yourself, which is both hygienic and economical. People who can't cook, in the recent two years, feel that their spare capacity is insufficient, so you should make use of all conditions, learn to cook as soon as possible, and learn the skills of doing housework to make your life more colorful.

Learn to cook by yourself and save money by doing housework. In the current severe economic situation, saving money is also an important part of family life. It is obvious that cooking and doing some housework by yourself can save some money and make life better, but it is not easy to do it yourself and do it well. It is very important to establish the concept that it is glorious to cook and do housework in the family. Both men and women should not wait for others to serve, unless they are billionaires, they just use their brains. If they are allowed to take part in housework and cook, it will waste the precious time of talents, but there are very few such people. Even those who are so rich don't all take part in housework. Some people tend to have better cooking and housework skills.

People who can cook and do housework at home are hardworking and intelligent. It's someone with status in the family! If you don't do these things, you will have no position at home. On the contrary, people who love work have a position in the family and are respected by other family members. No matter the older generation or the young people, they should establish the concept of cooking at home and doing housework with honor, so as to understand, help and support each other, and bring the whole family together to build their own happy family together.

Nowadays, the elderly should understand the fatigue of young people's work and the state that they don't want to cook and do housework after returning home. My old home is in the northeast county, and many young people who work in the county go home to work, because they get home a few minutes after work, and some have a long journey away from home for more than ten minutes. There are more people who go home to cook and do housework with the elderly. Going home and watching the old people cook and do housework, few people are idle. When young people come home from work and don't work, others will laugh and their parents will criticize, but here in Shanghai, the situation is different. Young people study hard in class. Very tired. The key point is that many people have to take a bus for an hour or two to go to work and an hour or two to get off work. Without seats, they had to stand. When they get home, they have to continue to work through their mobile phones or computers. On the surface, they are still thinking about their jobs, and some people are still working. This happened to my daughter and son-in-law. At first we didn't understand, but later we gradually understood what was going on. We try our best to create conditions for them to have a good rest. Do the work that should be done at home. It is generally understandable to be a mother-in-law, but it is difficult to be a mother-in-law. I hope a mother-in-law can better understand the working conditions of her son and daughter-in-law and create good conditions for them. Of course, children should create conditions and do more housework. Let the elderly who take their children to cook and do housework have a little rest time. The premise of this is that the child should have the ability to cook and do housework, otherwise the old man will dislike you for not doing well, and he will do it himself.

Whether before marriage or after marriage, cooking and housework are all good things, and what can be done should be improved; If you can't do it, you should start learning at once and master these skills necessary for survival as soon as possible. Only in this way can we gain the initiative in family life and our family will be better and happier. I

Women have always been housewives who do housework and cook for thousands of years. It is necessary for people to cook. Men are the backbone of the family. Because my wife and children work hard, I have to do housework. In a word, we must work together to build a good family.

Cooking is a basic life skill, so it's better to learn a little so as not to suffocate.

When I was young, I didn't like housework such as cooking, so I couldn't eat after I got married. Because I work in a foreign country, no one cares after I get married, so I can only learn to do it myself. Even if I cook porridge, it is a shame to make a thin paste at a time. We rented a house in the countryside outside the company, and the dishes cooked by the landlord's daughter-in-law were delicious. Speaking of rice, the dishes that I often fry here are tasteless, the stewed fish is tasteless, and the rice is badly steamed, which makes the picky eater complain frequently. I also hate that he keeps worrying and often gives the rice to the pigs raised by the landlord. Don't look at such a simple thing, you really can't do it well without practicing. A few years ago, I saw a newly married young man at work. When she mentioned cooking, it was even worse than I was then. Two people ate takeout, which was unhygienic and wasted more money. Therefore, it is quite necessary to learn to cook before marriage to ensure that your minimum quality of life will not decline.