Reflections on Parent-child Activities in Double Ninth Festival
The ninth day of the ninth lunar month is an ancient traditional festival in China-the Double Ninth Festival, also known as the "Festival for the Elderly", which is a day to respect and love the elderly. As Huang's parents, we participated in the "Double Ninth Festival" parent-child activities organized by the second kindergarten, witnessed the children's active filial piety to the elderly in the activities, and shared her happy experiences in the activities, which made us feel the gratifying changes in the growth of our children. On the day of the event, the wonderful programs of Teacher Lin and Teacher Cai won bursts of applause. What moved me most was the last interactive session, which pushed the whole activity to a climax. Children beat their backs, beat their legs and sing songs for their grandparents. At this time, all the old people at the scene smiled happily. The "little prince" and "little princess" at home now know how to honor the elderly, and all parents are very moved.
The most beautiful sunset in life, no one will be young forever. We old people are wise and experienced, what's more, they love to talk. Every sentence contains true feelings, and every word is also a vision. We just want to spend more time with our children and grandchildren, let us know about our children's lives, be happy for our children and pray for every relative. As long as the children live well, the old man has nothing to worry about. When children grow up day by day, we are getting old day by day, and the hearts of missing and worrying are often hung in our hearts. A word from our children and grandchildren can warm the hearts of our old people.
Today's children are the treasures of all families, and superior living conditions make them the happiest generation. Cultivating and educating them is an important issue for the country, society and family, and we must lay a good foundation from kindergarten. Respecting and loving the elderly is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. This activity carried out by the second kindergarten is of great educational significance to children. I hope the children will pass on the virtues of our Chinese nation from generation to generation.
Chapter two: the feeling of Double Ninth Festival.
Chongyang lyric
The annual ninth day of the ninth lunar month, the traditional Double Ninth Festival, has arrived.
Why is the ninth day of the ninth lunar month called the Double Ninth Festival? Because in the ancient Book of Changes, "six" was defined as yin number, and "nine" was defined as yang number. On September 9, the sun and the moon combined with yang, and 29 was the most important, so it was called Chongyang, also called Chongyang. The ancients thought that Chongyang was an auspicious day to celebrate and began to celebrate it very early.
On the Double Ninth Festival, there is the custom of climbing mountains first. Autumn in September, the sky is crisp. This season, climbing high and looking far can achieve the purpose of relaxing body and mind, keeping fit and getting rid of diseases. The custom of eating Chongyang cake is related to mountain climbing. Gaohe cake is homophonic. As a holiday food, it was originally to celebrate the harvest of autumn grain and taste new grain. After the folks have the auspicious meaning of climbing high to eat cakes and moving step by step.
The Double Ninth Festival has always had the custom of enjoying chrysanthemums, so it has been called Chrysanthemum Festival since ancient times. September of the lunar calendar, commonly known as Chrysanthemum Month, holds a chrysanthemum party on holidays, and people from all over the city go to the meeting to enjoy chrysanthemums. Since the Wei and Jin Dynasties in the Three Kingdoms, it has become fashionable for Chongyang parties to drink and enjoy chrysanthemums and recite poems. In the ancient customs of the Han nationality, chrysanthemum symbolizes longevity, and appreciating chrysanthemum means blessing the elderly.
In ancient times, it was also popular to insert dogwood in the Double Ninth Festival (dogwood can be used as medicine, wine-making, health preservation and disease-dispelling, and the ancients thought dogwood could ward off evil spirits), so it was also called the Double Ninth Festival. Wang Wei, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, once wrote a seven-character quatrain, "Mountain Holidays Miss Shandong Brothers": "When you are in a foreign land, you miss your relatives twice every festive season. I know from a distance where my brother climbed, and there is one person missing from the dogwood. " Wang Wei's seven-character quatrains are profound and intriguing.
In the folk concept, the Double Ninth Festival is homophonic with "Nine Nine", which means longevity, health and longevity. From 65438 to 0989, China designated the ninth day of the ninth lunar month as the festival for the elderly, and advocated the whole society to respect, care for and help the elderly. Therefore, the Double Ninth Festival has a new meaning, which is really commendable.
Today, when it comes to the Double Ninth Festival, I can't help thinking of the great leader Mao Zedong's poem "Mulberry Picking Double Ninth Festival": "Life is easy to get old, and on the Double Ninth Festival, the yellow flowers in the battlefield are particularly fragrant. The autumn wind is strong in a year, not like spring, but better than spring, and the vast Wan Li frost. " Repeatedly recalling Chairman Mao's first sentence, I feel more and more: "Today is sunny again, and the breeze sends cool chrysanthemums. The annual autumn wind blows gently, which is a good time for Chinese New Year. Chongyang climbs high and looks far, how long is the road of life. Looking back on the eventful years, I will not hesitate to laugh at the sunset.
Chapter III: Experience of Double Ninth Festival
Double Ninth Festival Experience (1)
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Today is the ninth Double Ninth Festival in September, also called the Festival for the Elderly. I'm going to help grandma wash her feet once, because grandma has washed my feet since I was a child. I remember every time my grandmother put the footbath in front of me and gently rubbed my feet. It's so comfortable Just after dinner, I prepared a footbath and a towel early to surprise my grandmother. At this moment, grandma suddenly came in. I immediately put the footbath and towel in front of grandma and said, "grandma, I want to wash your feet." Grandma smiled from ear to ear and said happily, "Good boy, really grandma's lovely granddaughter!" " "I asked my grandmother to sit on the stool first, put a basin full of hot water and touch it with her hands. The water temperature is similar. Then kneel down and gently take off grandma's shoes and socks and put them aside. " Grandma, put your feet in! I will treat you well. "I smiled happily at grandma. When my hand touched grandma's foot, my heart trembled. Grandma's feet are so rough. Yes, grandma has worked hard all her life, and now she washes my feet every day. I'm really ashamed! I wash grandma's feet slowly, and then gently massage. I seriously said to my grandmother, "Grandma, I will wash your feet every day." Grandma smiled happily.
The experience of the Double Ninth Festival (2)
Tomorrow is the Double Ninth Festival. I wish the elderly in the world health, happiness and longevity! They say there is an old game at home, and now I understand the truth. The old people at home make you think about it, and you feel warm and have infinite attachment to your family. Whenever night falls, there is always a lamp left for you in the traffic, and a little warm current suddenly flows through your heart?
The Double Ninth Festival is coming. I thought of my grandma, aunt and grandpa. I hope they are happy and healthy in heaven! I often think of them and dream about them. I believe they will be happy and safe there. When I was in Mao Mao Tou, my grandmother often took me back and brought me up with my aunt. My childhood was carefree, and they loved me. Menstruation, in particular, is biased against me, which is the most regrettable thing for people on earth. They all left before I started working to make money. Although I have always tried my best to do Buddhist services for them over the years, I can never make up for it. Do you remember when my aunt saw me and said, Dong? You secretly buy me cream cubes every day after school and tell me not to tell my cousin? In order to persuade me to visit my cousin's house, my grandmother had to agree to my condition-buy comic books to take away the flattened olives, and then I agreed to go? Grandma's colorful jiaozi, green balls, muffins? In my memory, it was the most delicious food ever. Did you go with her?
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, but the son wants to raise and the relatives are not there? Hurry up, spend more time with the old people at home and talk to them. Even one more phone call, one less regret in the future?
Experience of Double Ninth Festival (3) Today is the annual Double Ninth Festival, and it is also the "Old People's Day". In order to express our love for the old people, the school launched an activity, that is, to go to an old people's home near our school to celebrate the Double Ninth Festival and offer love to the lonely old people inside.
This activity is really grand. The whole school celebrated. Along the way, the young pioneers blew their horns and drummed. The sound was deafening, as if its tambourine beat did not show enough joy. I am a small photographer. After running with that small camera, I left them many wonderful moments.
Soon, with this majestic voice, we came to the nursing home. Grandparents in the nursing home received us with kind smiles. Then, we began to perform, first of all, the first grade singing performance; Second grade recital? The program went smoothly and the time was step by step. The activity is over, and we also follow the route back to school.
After this celebration, I have many feelings. Double Ninth Festival is a very important festival. This festival allows us to do what we can for the elderly and elders. Let's dedicate our filial piety and love to the elderly, so that they can enjoy their old age happily and live a carefree life.
The experience of the Double Ninth Festival (4)
Whenever autumn is crisp and chrysanthemums are fragrant, the people of China once again welcome a special festival-the Double Ninth Festival.
The Double Ninth Festival is held on the ninth day of the ninth lunar month. At that time, grandmothers sang and danced for themselves in various counties and villages. 99 Chongyang is catching up with the colorful autumn, and it is also infected with the colorful and beautiful autumn. The "Nine-Year Plan" includes longevity and good luck, and I wish the old people a long and healthy life. The Ninth Plan represents the joy and excitement of the people of China.
The customs and habits of the Double Ninth Festival live up to this beautiful situation and increase the happiness of this autumn. How many people drew the happiness of this autumn and drew a smile for how many people? You can't see or touch it, you have to feel it from the heart. Double Ninth Festival can also be called Cornus Festival, Chrysanthemum Festival and even "Picnic Festival". autumn
This is a good season for outing. You can go to the countryside to "pick green", climb mountains, or engage in activities that are beneficial to your health. This is very beneficial to your health. China designated the Double Ninth Festival as the Festival for the Elderly. Students, at nine o'clock on September, what did you do for your grandparents and how to make them unforgettable and happy? Listen to my personal experience.
It's the ninth day of September again, in the sky and on the roof? Autumn is everywhere, and the earth is covered with a thick and fluffy layer of gold sand, which is golden and shiny. I looked at my calendar. It turns out that today is the ninth day of September, and September is the Double Ninth Festival, which is grandma's festival. How could I forget what gift to give her? I thought about it for a long time, but I don't know. Just when I was upset, I picked up a newspaper and saw the words "Double Ninth Festival". I was overjoyed. I read the newspaper carefully, and it is clearly written in the newspaper that whenever the Double Ninth Festival, grandchildren will accompany their grandparents to go out to the suburbs.
Have fun, eat cakes and watch chrysanthemums. This is the best gift to experience the happiness brought by this autumn. After reading this newspaper, I have a small plan in my heart.
I went to my grandmother to test her memory. I smiled and said, "Grandma, do you know what day it is today?" Grandma said doubtfully, "Oh? Oh? Oh, is it your birthday? " "No, no, my birthday is a few months early." Grandma thought again, "Is it National Day today?" "Not even, today is the Double Ninth Festival, a holiday for you." Grandma suddenly realized and smiled. I went on to say, "Let me accompany my grandmother to the suburbs!" " I'm going with grandma. I chatted with my grandmother and went further. Looking at the clear water and admiring the majestic mountains, we suddenly felt refreshed. Unconsciously, I spent the Double Ninth Festival with my grandma.
It's getting dark Mom and dad came back with a bag of cakes. It's really a timely help. I am preparing to celebrate my grandmother's old age day. It is decorated with various patterns, some of which are embedded with several kinds of grass. Our family sat around the table and tasted the cake with relish. They are delicious. Grandma smiled as if she were five years younger. A family has a sweet mouth and a sweeter heart. The hearty laughter spread throughout the body?
The experience of the Double Ninth Festival (5)
Helping others is a traditional virtue of our country. This summer vacation, the school carried out activities such as "helping others". What shall we do? It is said that all the old people in nursing homes are lonely, and some are all thumbs and have not come out for several years. I think I should visit them, play some songs for them or chat with them to bring them happiness. In the morning, I went to the community neighborhood Committee and chatted with my aunt who was in charge of this work. I didn't expect my aunt from the neighborhood Committee to support me, so I got in touch soon. I'm overjoyed! Arrange condolences in the afternoon. In the afternoon, I heard that the grandmothers in the nursing home haven't taken photos for a long time, so I wanted to take some photos, so I brought my camera. Accompanied by my aunt in the neighborhood Committee, I came to the nursing home. Although it is past the nap time, it is nearly 4 pm, but the nursing home is still quiet. We first came to a room where four grandmothers lived. The oldest lives here, all over 70 years old, and the oldest is 86 years old. It was all because the children were too busy to take care of these old people that they were sent here. When I entered the room, I saw them sitting in their beds in a daze. When I heard that I was here to perform for them, I suddenly came to the spirit and gathered around. Hearing that they will be photographed, the old people are even happier. They are busy putting on their favorite clothes and cleaning up their hut?
"Good afternoon, grandparents. I came to perform for you today. May my piano bring you happiness. I wish the grandparents here good health and all the best! " I won their warm applause as soon as I finished my words. Then I played songs such as "Dance of the Golden Snake", "Jasmine Flower" and "Cloud Chasing the Moon" for them, one after another, which reminded them of the past. Grandma Wang said that she liked to dance yangko when she was young, and that she liked to watch dragon and lion dances in festivals. Boss Zhang said that she loved playing chess when she was young, and she was still a master! Look at their happy appearance, I think they are all young at once! The sound of piano and laughter in this room attracted the grandmothers who lived in the next room. They lie prone on the window and look in, and occasionally interrupt a few words. After the performance, I took photos of them. Grandma, smiling from ear to ear, took my hand and took a photo with me. I stacked two stools together to form a temporary tripod, and then pressed the shutter. When I was leaving, my grandparents sent me away with staggering steps. They reluctantly said, "Children often come, and we will miss you!" " "
Chapter four: Reflections on the activities of offering love on the Double Ninth Festival.
Thoughts on Love Activities in Double Ninth Festival
"Because there is love, the temperature is constant." Act with love, and the temperature is naturally constant. 2012101October 23rd, it is the Double Ninth Festival again. The company decided to hold a million donations today. The day before, I was still worried about how to deal with the cold weather. Today, I was warmed by the warm sunshine outside and the grateful and enthusiastic faces of every giver. This Double Ninth Festival is particularly meaningful to my life, and it also adds a glorious stroke to my life. I am very grateful to Aidu Company for giving me the opportunity to participate in this love offering activity on the Double Ninth Festival, and I am also very grateful to my colleagues who have cooperated silently, so that the moment of cohesion can double the happiness of each of us.
When I first talked to the sanitation worker, his plain and nervous face was still vivid. It was a face with doubts and worries, it was a simple and old face. When I told him that today was the Double Ninth Festival and that I was the messenger of love and health for millions of people, he began to relax his nervous face. When he saw our affirmation and sincere greetings to his hard work in this festival for the elderly, when he got the light socks, free medical certificate and free experience card, he was very moved and smiled from the heart. I was also infected by him in his grateful thanks, and I realized the meaning of giving and dedication more deeply. If you don't really go to the scene and give your love to each other, I think this kind of happiness full of love will never be realized.
Through the company's public welfare activities, I personally not only got a promotion, but also gained happiness and happiness. At the same time, I deeply felt the company's determination to sincerely offer love, regardless of gains and losses, pay attention to the health of the elderly, repay the society wholeheartedly, and inspire other enterprises to sincerely offer love. As an employee of Aidu, I will also strive to be such an Aidu person who has a sense of social responsibility, is full of love and cares about the health of the elderly.
"Caring for people" and "caring for people" are the soul of a lover, which is also the direction of our efforts. If you don't know the meaning of living, then join in love!
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Chapter five: Reflections on the Double Ninth Festival.
Reflections on the Double Ninth Festival
Zhangjingyi county no.2 middle school
65438+ 10 23, the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, the Double Ninth Festival, is called "Double Ninth", and nine is Yang number, also called "Double Ninth". In this festival, there have always been customs such as climbing mountains, offering sacrifices to ancestors, inserting dogwood and enjoying chrysanthemums. The Double Ninth Festival is also a festival to respect the elderly, showing gratitude, respect and care for the elderly. Festivals just remind everyone not to forget to respect the elderly. Respect for the elderly should lie in every moment, and every day should be a day of respect for the elderly.
On the coming day of the Double Ninth Festival, a piece of news attracted me. Beijing 26
Meng Fan, a 24-year-old boy, pushed his mother all the way south. It lasted 106 days and walked 4000 kilometers. 10 June 18 At noon, Meng Fan, a young Beijinger, pushed his mother with mobility difficulties to Jinghong, the capital of Xishuangbanna Dai Autonomous Prefecture, Yunnan Province. He successfully completed the hiking trip and realized his mother's wish. After reading this news, my initial feeling is that the young man is really good, and it is the greatest blessing for my mother to have such a good son. However, I still can't help but reflect on myself, which makes me regret it. My mother had the same wish before her death. She also hopes to visit Xishuangbanna, the tropical rain forest and the customs of ethnic minorities. But for various reasons, she didn't make it, and she always wanted to take her again in the future. My mother died of cancer at the age of 52. The biggest tragedy in the world is that children have to be raised and not be with relatives. We always think about the future, thinking that there is plenty of time, but life is unpredictable. Who knows what will happen in the future? There is nothing in the future. Meng Fan warned us with his own practical actions that we should respect the elderly with our own practical actions, with fewer excuses and more actions.
Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Disciples' Rules began with "Disciples' Rules, Sages' Training". The first filial piety, the second letter. "There is also the feeling of" Twenty-four Filial Pieties ",and the earth-shattering story has been passed down through the ages. In modern society, we have to understand filial piety, but we still have to let our parents live well, comfortably and emotionally. I remember an advertisement like this. Children and grandchildren have called home and said that they will not go home for dinner. The old lady looked lonely and said, "Busy, you are all busy. "Every time I see this advertisement, my heart is sour. When I am old, I don't hold out much hope. I just hope the children can go home often and have dinner together. In fact, what the elderly fear most is loneliness. A big house, there is a person inside and outside, from darkness to dawn. We are usually very busy at work, and it is their greatest happiness to take our relatives and children home to see their parents on weekends. What they need is neither advanced nutrition nor advanced Hanfu. As long as we can stay together as a family, talking to the elderly and listening to their intimate "nagging" is the greatest filial piety to them.
Our parents raised us with hardships, and we should always be filial. However, some people forget their parents' kindness and regard them as a burden. The media often reports that some children abuse the elderly, which is really outrageous. I remember one. I remember it very well. An old lady is over 80 years old, regardless of her children. I live in an adobe house outside the village, saying that the house has a roof, no doors and no windows, let alone a bed, and I can only sleep on a pile of grass. Don't send meals to the elderly, neighbors secretly send food and are scolded by their daughter-in-law. Not a son.
Poor people can't afford to support their mothers. They live on the second floor by themselves, and the place is very spacious, but they just don't let their mother live. The police have repeatedly coordinated without results. Later, the village sued her son and the court enforced it. Daughter-in-law was about to jump into the river, and no one stopped her. Later, the court wanted to sell her rice, but the daughter-in-law was helpless. She took out the money like cutting meat, and finally gave 500 less. The first thing the old man did after he got the money was to buy a washbasin with three yuan. One particular detail I noticed was that the great-grandson of the old man spat at her after seeing her. Three-year-old children don't know anything, they all learn from adults. The old man's son and daughter-in-law also have sons and daughters-in-law. Will they follow their example and treat them like this when they are old? Will grandchildren do this to their parents? Everyone is old. Today is their tomorrow, and the children are watching. In order to have a happy and comfortable old age in the future, children should set an example for their children.
When it comes to setting an example for children, my mother-in-law is doing very well. My husband's grandmother lived alone before her death. She said she was used to being clean and convenient alone. We want to eat jiaozi, and my mother-in-law will let me bring a big bowl. If we want to eat pancakes, we will bring one. It was cold in winter, and my mother-in-law brought a big bowl of hot milk. My husband's uncles and aunts are also very good, and they are better for the elderly than their mother-in-law. This is especially true for my elder sister-in-law, who is over 60 years old. Because she is near, she comes up to chat with her grandmother every day, and washes her feet and hair once every few days. The house is clean and tidy, and there is not even a fly inside and outside. I also bought a TV and a mini refrigerator for my grandma. Grandchildren come back, put down their things and go to see the milk first.
I can't eat all the delicious food I bought, and I play mahjong with my grandmother. People in our country say, "You are a blessing that you have cultivated in your life. Children are so filial. " Grandma was hospitalized for two months, and her parents-in-law, uncles and aunts, and elder sister-in-law took turns to serve. Someone had to hold her hand 24 hours a day, otherwise she would be afraid. After grandma died, we all missed her, but no one felt guilty about grandma. We did everything we had to do and felt very calm.
My mother-in-law educated me with practical actions. Do you think I can't be filial to her? Mother-in-law is not only filial to the elderly, but also considerate of us. My family has a lot of land, and she can't keep anything at home alone. She grows peanuts, corn, soybeans, mung beans, sesame seeds, green onions and many other things. I hardly need to buy what I eat at home. My mother-in-law said that she would eat whatever she planted. My mother-in-law often says, "You have to go to class and watch your children study hard. You don't have to be in charge at home. If I can make money, I will save it for you. " It's almost winter, and my mother-in-law bought me two pairs of cotton trousers, thin and thick, saying that it's hard for me to take care of the children alone and I'm afraid of freezing. To tell the truth, my mother-in-law is dearer to me than her own daughter. You said old people are like this. What else can we say as juniors? If nothing else, you have to be filial. My mother-in-law praised me for being filial to everyone, and she felt satisfied as long as I did something. My daughter and grandma are very close, and both of them were brought up by their mother-in-law. If she doesn't go back for a while, she has to call, or her grandmother will come to pick her up. I am really happy to see my family happy. Happiness is not how much money you have, but family harmony and happy life. If everyone is less estranged and more understanding like us, then every family is happy.
Love and respect for the elderly, not only for their own families, but also for other elderly people. Mencius said, "Old people are old, young people are old, and young people are few." This is China's traditional idea of fraternity, which we should carry forward. The Double Ninth Festival is coming, and the nursing home will be busy again. Schools, institutions and institutions should go to nursing homes for condolences. I remember last year, it was reported that the old people in the nursing home had their hair cut four times and took two baths from morning till night. The tossing old man is miserable. After this day, no one came again. Other units donate things to nursing homes, no matter whether the elderly use them or not, just donate them and complete the task. Like this way of respecting the elderly, can the elderly feel warm? We really should spend more time thinking about what the elderly really need, so that our love can find our home and the elderly can feel our love. Because the elderly are people who have contributed to our society. When they were young, they dedicated their youth to us and society. The modern civilization, peaceful and quiet living and working environment we now enjoy are the results of the unremitting efforts made by the old people to benefit future generations and society when they were young. Our love for the elderly is an obligation and gratitude.
The attitude towards the elderly reflects the demeanor of a nation. Our country is trying to provide services for the elderly without worrying about their old age. The state increases the amount of pensions year by year, improves the medical system, and provides the elderly with a sense of security and medical care. China is entering an aging period, so it is very important to deal with the problems of the elderly. I believe that our country has the ability to handle this problem well, so that the elderly can enjoy the joy of life and feel their own value in their later years.
On the occasion of the Double Ninth Festival, I appeal to young people from all walks of life.