What good habits must children develop before the third grade, or it will be too late? First, cultivate children's view of time, don't procrastinate. Wenwen is an idle child. She gets up every morning to study, and is also "invited three times and urged four times" by her mother. She has been forcing her mother to be late, and she has been distracted when she is doing her homework at home, waiting for an animation for a long time. My mother is very helpless about it.

However, chenchen's mother is different. From the time the child is obedient, the mother teaches the child how to allocate the time of the day, what to do in the morning, what to do in the afternoon and what to do in the evening, and then do their own things according to the priorities of this matter. Sometimes the child will forget, and the mother will also prompt: "Baby, what time is it?" "What should I do now?" The child remembers it as soon as he listens, and quickly and actively implements the contents of the plan.

After slowly cultivating the concept of time, if the child intends to dawdle, just point to the digital clock on the wall or ask if he is back on time now, the child will set a good time and do what he should do. For things that must be done every day, such as getting up, brushing your teeth and gargling, washing your face and eating, you don't need to constantly urge, and your child will honestly listen to the guidance of "duration".

Second, cultivate children's own good habits. Ningning's mother dotes on her children. When Ningning was in the first grade, she would peel her own eggs. Usually, she packs her schoolbag and combs her stationery. All this was arranged by her mother. Now that she is in the fourth grade, she will be called "mom" for the first time.

Chenchen's mother wouldn't do that. In her opinion, children are actually happy to try to do things at home by themselves. When there is no danger at ordinary times, she helps the children at home. Children eat by themselves, and if they eat for a long time, they are in a mess; Pour your own water, as if you were drinking it while using it. Half of the water is drunk and the other half is spilled everywhere. Clothes, pants, jeans, cotton socks and shoes were all tried on by herself, and they were all crooked, and then she helped the children.

In all kinds of links, she tries to motivate children to do what they can, so that children can gradually learn their own lives, and children themselves feel the joy of harvest when they do things alone.

Third, cultivate children's good habits of previewing and reviewing their lessons. Many children have no good habit of previewing and reviewing their lessons when doing their homework. Children may find it complicated and time consuming. However, parents must pay attention to developing good reading habits, previewing and practicing. When Chen Chen was in the first grade, she didn't like previewing and reviewing her lessons, and felt it was unnecessary. Therefore, chenchen's mother and chenchen went through a long debate and authentication. The end result is that after previewing the course, they will know a lot in class the next day, and after reviewing their homework, they will write their homework much faster. Comparatively speaking, it is more time-saving and labor-saving to preview and review lessons. Finally, chenchen realized his mother's position and gradually developed a good habit of previewing and reviewing his lessons.

Conclusion: Children have a lot of money, so it is better to keep a good habit. Cultivating a child's view of time is to make his life and work clear; Cultivating a child's independence is to make his life and work smoother; Cultivating children's reading habits is to hope that they can study and train more easily and achieve excellent results smoothly. Mom and dad mean well and need to use it in the wrong place!