When I came home from work, I decided to buy an overseas moisturizing facial cleanser in the beauty and health group built by my friend, only to find that I had just been removed from the group chat by my friend.
I have experienced the experience of being removed from the group chat many times before, and what I still remember is the inexplicable heartache of being removed from the group chat for the first time.
When WeChat, a dating software, first became popular, it seemed that all kinds of group chats swarmed in, and various groups such as unit groups, classmates, colleagues and small groups, like mushrooms after rain, could quickly pull everyone into various groups.
I remember that it was a day in 20 15, and I was still full of enthusiasm and exploration for wechat. Suddenly I found myself being pulled into a little hairball. See the announcement posted by the group owner, let everyone pull each other. The connected kids look at many kids they haven't seen for more than 20 years. Just as I was about to say hello happily, I didn't expect a small line to show that you had.
I feel inexplicably hurt. Before speaking, I really can't figure out where I offended the group owner, and who is this so-called group owner?
With such doubts, I finally connected another junior high school with my WeChat. When Xiaoxiao told me on the phone that she was the owner, I suddenly had mixed feelings and sent a novel. Do you have any misunderstanding? You used to be best friends. ...
I don't remember how I ended my call with junior high school, but I kept thinking about the inscrutable group owner in my mind.
Yes, I went to school with the owner since I was a child. When she was admitted to the university with excellent results, I chose to study in a vocational school and found a job equally smoothly.
At work, I often keep friendly contact with her in college. One year I went home and bought her a dress and a beautiful silk scarf with my salary.
Later I talked about my boyfriend, and I often shared my happiness with her. Unexpectedly, after graduating from college, she actually chose the same unit as my wife.
I didn't expect to see her for several years. She has changed so much. When she speaks standard Mandarin with a northern accent, I am not used to it, especially when I see her wearing very hot clothes. When I went home, I felt an unspeakable pain.
I don't know if it's because I'm just pregnant and my nerves are sensitive, or if I always joke with my lover in front of me, which makes me wary. My relationship with her seems to be fading.
When I gave birth to my daughter, she also married her colleague quickly. Later, I heard that she was divorced again. Finally, it seems to have been transferred to the provincial capital corporation.
From then on, I became a stranger to her, and she even changed her mobile phone number. Once my wife came home and said that my hometown was really puzzling. He pretended not to know him when he came to check the work with the leader. At that time, I smiled and said that everything is the rhythm of forgetting things.
It is often said that after 30 years in the East and 30 years in the West, life is always full of twists and turns, and no one can predict it.
My wife was successfully transferred to the head office at the end of the year before last. When she was entrusted with the heavy responsibility as the vice president of the head office last year, she suddenly received her one day and took the initiative to add me to WeChat. I took a look and deleted it without hesitation. I was even more silent when she frequently showed me kindness in her hometown.
I will always remember the year before last, when the villagers' owners initiated the meeting, she actually said in a high-profile way that as long as that person signed up, she would take her sister away. I'm not interested at all. Of course I won't sign up. When they sent many happy photos to the group, I kept silent.
As an Aquarius girl, I never make enemies easily. Once I am a stranger, I will treat it with the mentality of being a stranger all my life. Since you kicked me out of the group, we are strangers.