20 10 February 5th, Year of the Ox, twelfth lunar month.
Suzhou Taicang
On the basis that I am sure that I can make my direction and choice clearer by reading, revising and practicing this plan repeatedly, I will build my confidence in my choice and my confidence in the future. Based on my belief that I can strictly implement and realize this plan, this plan is formulated.
The formulation of this plan is based on a comprehensive understanding and analysis of my personality, hobbies, knowledge, conduct, personal habits, family education, social experience, basic status quo and personal grasp of the times and society. So, before making this plan, write down your encouragement and warning, comprehensive judgment, future expectations and dreams (plan).
(1) Encouragement and warning
There are some feelings that I think I must remember: that is, whenever I return to my hometown, I feel comfortable and superior all over. In this place, at that moment, I feel my superior potential more easily-connotation, accomplishment, vision, experience, knowledge and habits. There are other things that I can easily compare with others. I want to know that all I have is because of my years of education, accumulated experience outside and persistent study, especially my contact and communication with others. Therefore, I must always remember the sense of superiority at that moment, and I must maintain the living habits and ways that can make me have a good sense of superiority, so that I can see more, know more and live a better life! In my hometown, I can feel the advantages and disadvantages that people can't feel themselves. By the same token, someone will definitely see the advantages and disadvantages of me that I can't feel myself. And I need people who can see my strengths and weaknesses, so I must look forward, move forward, contact and collide with society-
I want to maintain my worship and admiration for the gods. Because it will make me sincere and brave. I know that the gods have been protecting me, caring for me and giving me strength from the bottom of my heart! So I can't lose. What is loss? Just tell me that I need to change my point of view! Life has many detours. If you make a mistake, don't regret it. Treat others sincerely and repent, and turn guilt into care and strength! Believe in yourself! Remember the efforts and persistence of night lights and chickens. The future is unknown and history is not far away. The column of the birth year of the deceased grandmother's household registration is 19 14, that is, the second year of the Republic of China. Probably nothing in this world is more difficult than history. Believe in yourself! Don't be bound! If I want to throw myself out, I will let myself fall freely. Whether it falls on water, grass or rocks. I must wrap myself up before landing, or I will collapse. Remember, never "get used to" the existing life.
The only way to keep the land free of weeds is to sow the seeds of wheat in the land and let it thrive. So I will keep learning, absorb the essence of knowledge and wisdom, keep a positive attitude and stay away from laziness, fear, gloom, atrophy and doubt. I want the trunk, not the branches, so I don't have to be disturbed by gossip.
So far-from the age of 26, I regret that I have not achieved anything that can comfort myself. This is a very bad feeling and state. I am very uncomfortable and sad. I don't want this feeling to last. I want to be happy, so I want to act. I can't be bound by some inherent traditional ideas I must work hard and achieve something. If all this is just empty talk, then use my regrets and regrets for the rest of my life as the price of repayment!
(B), the overall analysis of individuals, comprehensive judgment
1, current situation
College for three years (won the second-class scholarship during the period), provincial computer level, intermediate art design. Two formal work experiences: one year as a hotel waiter (promoted to foreman due to hard work) and two years as a factory warehouse manager. I have done these two jobs with ease and have been affirmed by my boss.
Married/no house, car/26 years old, between the past and the future, I urgently need to have my own career and track.
2. Analysis of personality psychology and hobbies
In the theory of five elements of personality, I belong to a person with less yin: more yin and less yang, and my personality is characterized by coldness, gentleness, prudence, concealment, good at distinguishing right from wrong, jealousy, strong self-control and high endurance. Caution and jealousy can be said to be one of my greatest shortcomings. The former makes me think deeply, anxious and worry too much, while the latter makes me suffer from an empty dream that cannot be realized. And high tolerance makes me like to be content with the status quo and ignore progress and breakthrough. Personally, human nature can be roughly divided into two categories. A bold, smart, realistic, capable, witty, clean, strong and brave, optimistic and fierce; The other kind is peaceful, persistent and sincere, timid, open-minded, kind, honest, practical, patient and tolerant. I consciously belong to the latter category, so I have to learn and change a lot. I want to be perfect, both inside and outside.
Strength, the pursuit of perfection (leading to doing things all the time, so be patient and organized in the future); Diligent and full of passion; Strong thirst for knowledge and ability to collect and store information; Relatively objective and calm analysis, attitude towards things, after hard training and gained some valuable experience, enough to make yourself strong inside; It is easy to be sad and depressed. My sadness is because I sympathize with everyone who is weak and helpless in the depths of human nature. I like listening to concerts, drawing, writing, traveling and sports! I like reading and learning, and I have read out my goals, courage, courage, mind, perseverance and perseverance.
You need to polish off your bookishness, communicate more with people and get in touch with society! When communicating with people, be concise, avoid tedious procrastination, be decisive and loud, and avoid boasting and talking to yourself. The same is true of doing things! Don't be like Xianglinsao, because you lose more when you are immersed in your own pain.
Change mentality and enhance self-identity; Endure loneliness, because this is the essence of life; We should be generous, brave and decent to accept and deal with problems. Restrain your relatively grumpy temper and don't be impulsive. Some decisions will not be put into practice until at least the next night! Don't be indecisive, don't force yourself to grasp the details, so as not to lose big because of small things, but to cultivate your own overall concept. Learn, look forward, don't stagnate, and don't back down. Restrain yourself, even if it is a casual little character and temper. Don't make excuses for your ignorance and incompetence. I am lazy, slow and satisfied by nature, so I will discipline myself to form good habits of timely and full preparation, and persist and repeat them until these habits become my character. Details determine success or failure. A person who can't consciously self-discipline is undoubtedly a failure! !
Diligence, hard work, stability, progress and loyalty are my strengths. What I'm not satisfied with is that I think I'm just qualified, because I lack thinking and the ability and methods to deal with problems flexibly. These are inseparable from my usual personality and living habits. I have a relatively lazy and coping mentality-I believe I can do better, so I will demand myself from a refined perspective. Change your habits, change your procrastination and hesitation! In front of the goal, other trivial matters and hesitation can make way for it.
3, life, life summary
Meditation can help me to know myself better.
A few years ago, I didn't think I would experience what I had experienced. I didn't expect to meet tears and laughter. Of course, I don't know the taste of hardship and wanton enjoyment. Today, I still cannot predict who I will be. I don't know what my future life will be like, whether to stimulate or suppress and bear those weights silently. I have said that I will live bravely and generously, and I will not let myself shrink back, dull, paranoid, narrow-minded or closed. As long as my thoughts are still there, as long as I am brave and curious, I am still me. The greater advantage of meditation is that it makes me understand that the word "myself" actually contains a wider range of contents. It includes not only my past and future life experiences, but also the present and future of my parents and the whole family. They are also an inseparable part of me. We should not only make plans for our own future, but also take care of our parents' retirement and leisure life and the education of the younger generation. Parents' life is coming to an end, and the joys and sorrows in life will revolve around their upcoming life. The life of the younger generation has just begun, and there are too many beautiful scenery for me to introduce and guide. I just want to make my ability stronger, provide more improvement and help for their lives, and create a possible condition for them to live the life they want. In this way, they can all live a relatively good life in the end.
(3) Grasp the times, imagine the future and learn the direction.
1. Grasp the times
I vaguely remember the scene of high school placement, where the teacher watched his own class and then the students adjusted their own classes. In this way, the corridor was suddenly crowded with students who changed classes, and with tables and stools, the whole corridor was packed, messy and crowded. But half an hour later, everything returned to a neat and orderly state, and new students were in the new class.
Today's society is like a changing class. The regularity of social development only provides a direction and goal for all of us, and this messy process needs us to go by ourselves. Now everything is so chaotic, there is no discipline and rules to follow, complex and diverse values, too much uncertainty and suddenness ... In fact, in any case, all this points to a result-a modern society with a new order and a new way of life. In this new modern society, industries with simple and clear social functions are interdependent, independent and closely related, and are a complete and orderly circular system. What I want to do is that when an orderly modern society is formed in the future, I can become a part of the whole circulation system, and I can absorb and produce in this circulation system.
Relatively suitable for their own career prospects: psychological counseling; Emotional experts; Career planner; Consultant; Training lecturers; Horticultural design; Advertising design; Freelance writer; Professional writer; Commentator; Personnel manager; Senior technician; Cartographer; Warehouse management; Five-day and eight-hour general workers, breeders, sanitation workers, gardeners, farmers and flower owners; Sales, salesman.
Everything is simple, happy, happy and free. I hope I have more experience, more experience and more knowledge-I can master a variety of software, take and pass a variety of vocational qualification training and certification exams-I can be versatile. Opportunities are like snowballs. They are getting bigger and bigger. I will find myself! I want to accept the rendering and edification of successful people and generously experience their lifestyle and social structure. Go to a big place to develop. At present, I still have many unrealistic "fantasies". No wonder, after all, there are too many temptations and utilitarianism in this society. I think I should clean up the wrong information that disturbs my judgment and choice! Secular, want to live in a big city, and if possible, want to enter the so-called upper class. Because I think even if I retire, there will still be a broad space for me to display. I know that I don't have many conditions yet, and those conditions will not be achieved overnight. Therefore, I will accept my present situation and aim to be a freelance writer and editor. I will work hard and try again.
Imagine the future
I dream that one day, I will become a freelance writer or editor, so that I can travel while working; I also hope that I can communicate with people in a fluent foreign language and show my thoughts and mind. In view of this, I should read more books and form the habit of reading and writing notes (including reading and reviewing); At the same time, you should also participate in relevant professional study and training; So as to be knowledgeable.
I must have a serious and virtuous wife, with a hard temper, but not too sharp; Not flattering but not vulgar. Besides washing pots and dishes, you must be able to do housework. Jobs can be teachers, doctors, accounting clerks and the like. Because of work, we can be in a state of separation.
People who really write are usually omnipotent because they can understand the most basic human nature. So I can also be a psychological counselor, an emotional expert, a career planner, a training lecturer and so on. , which is the so-called life mentor. Starting with "self-cultivation", we can achieve the goal of "managing the family, governing the country and leveling the world". I think I have found the key to success in life, and I can solve the two problems of what life is for and how to live once and for all. I will be an excellent writer and writer in the future. People can get a feeling of spring breeze from my words and language, and then they are willing to even talk and associate with me; So on this basis, I will be an excellent lecturer. I can also get a chance to give a speech and get some other achievements. Quantitative change leads to qualitative change, and finally I will realize my dream of being a scholar. Then I will become a big or small celebrity, and my name can represent a certain value at first. At this point, outsiders can say that I have succeeded. However, the door of my life has just opened, because only in this way can I have enough ability to do what I want to do. Maybe I will work part-time in my hometown and become a rural entrepreneur myself. Then use your vision and ability to agriculture (the primary industry) and the influence of your name to drive villagers to get rich and get rid of the embarrassing and barren life. By then, there may or may not be serious polarization in society. But in any case, I am willing to do my part for human nature.
From now on, I started a frugal, green and abstinence lifestyle, in order to make some contributions to nature and improve my quality and connotation of life. And I have decided to continue like this until the end of my life.
If I am lucky enough to die, I will definitely build a farm. There is a lot of land; The path is covered with trees. Plant a variety of aquatic plants in the pond, such as lotus, cattail, water chestnut, aquatic plants, etc. Then raise fish and shrimp. Build a wooden pavilion or a bamboo pavilion with water attached. There are wooden fences, bamboo chrysanthemums, cherry blossoms, Haitang Yulan, Sophora japonica ginkgo and sunflower lilies. Build a greenhouse to raise bonsai, build a flower wall and a flower column, and ride a four-wheeled cross-country motorcycle in the countryside in four seasons.
3. Learning direction
Be a real writer!
be learned
(4) Plan:
The formulation of this plan is reverse, that is, first imagine what kind of person I can become and what kind of achievements I will achieve in a few years, and then analyze the various hardware and software implementations and conditions needed to complete this goal on the basis of this goal. Various implementation conditions specifically include the existing economic capacity, work content and nature, personality, habits, temperament, communication skills and so on. Among them, economic ability, work content and nature belong to hardware conditions, that is, material conditions. With my ability and through my own efforts, it is not a problem to have such conditions. "I am afraid that everything is serious." Personality, habit, temperament and communication ability are software conditions, that is, psychological conditions. The so-called "gifted", these three conditions, mostly in the unconscious childhood, are presented by the farm environment, which is a long process. Therefore, these three conditions need to be discovered, understood and changed a little. Details determine success or failure, as do software conditions. A person who can't know himself and be self-disciplined is undoubtedly a failure. I want to be passionate about this only life!
Based on the contents listed above, this master plan is formulated. This master plan is a cycle every five years. Every five years is a detailed plan, accurate to the month, and it is a sub-plan. Sub-plans are summarized and updated every two weeks, months, quarters, half a year and the end of the year. Please indicate the next summary or update time when updating. The last three years of each cycle and the first two years of the next cycle are transitional cycles, and detailed plans are listed separately. The actual content of the plan should be formulated and changed synchronously according to the actual situation, and all copies should be filed, copied and supervised by close relatives and friends from now on.
I believe this plan will not bring me any negative pressure or discomfort. On the contrary, life without plans and goals will be dark and fuzzy. My ambition comes from my sympathy and love for fragile humanity. So I can tell myself that my choice is correct and moderate. I found some characters, habits and pursuits that I had and didn't have, showed and didn't show. I must understand what kind of person I am now, what kind of person I want to be, what kind of person I will eventually become, my strengths and weaknesses, my future career prospects, and the direction of my efforts. Maybe, sometimes I doubt the authenticity and feasibility of this plan. But every time in the dead of night, I will find that my life is not as good as what I have now, and I can do better, better and better. So, I want to work hard. I firmly believe that my choice is correct, and I can reach the height I want through hard work. I know very well why I want to reach such a high height. It is because I have seen too much inaction and ignorance, and I have seen too many life trajectories and endings. I am glad that I realized the essence of life early at the beginning of my life; I am even more glad that I have walked through the ruins and destruction, because these make me more calm and plain.
Master plan:
2044 ~ (60 years old ~): Traveling, giving lectures, writing books and donating money to study.
2025 ~ the end of 2043 (4 1~59 years old): consolidate further study, master knowledge and make travel speeches.
20 12 to the end of 2024 (28-40 years old): married and established.
A talented man, find someone who can supplement and balance himself in character, plain and faint, with a long stream of water.
(From the extensive to the deep, it is best to master the profession or specialty, and reach the point of being superb and flowing. Learn from others and be a wise master. Have a green manor)
20 10 ~20 1 1 end of the year (before the age of 26~28):
1. lay a good foundation: continue to be good at the world and interpersonal communication, and lay a good foundation for your career. Cultivate good living habits and learn all kinds of etiquette, exercise the basic skills of life and survival, and find a breakthrough point in life and career.
2. Practice listening, speaking, reading and writing (English, computer and driving)
This is a realistic society, a competitive society, and everything is the product of competition. I think I can look at the world in a relatively plain way. I think my experiences and experiences over the years are incomparable and unshakable. I will keep this thirst for knowledge and good living habits until it brings me greater achievements.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; Tall buildings have risen from the foundation soil. "
Maybe I am a person with great and proud life ideals and goals. I have such a goal, not for an unrealistic sentence, but to remind myself to work hard and not to waste time. I have my own legendary experience, and I also believe that life at the age of 26 has lived the ultimate meaning of life. Is a complete life! I want to burn myself and make my life boil. Maybe that's why I'm arrogant, naturally. So I still have to restrain myself-be modest! ! I will often read and revise the master plan, strengthen my goals and increase my strength! !
Sub-plan:
This is a realistic society, a competitive society, and everything is the product of competition. I think I can look at the world in a relatively plain way. I think my experiences and experiences over the years are incomparable and unshakable. I will keep this thirst for knowledge and good living habits until it brings me greater achievements.
20 10 ~20 1 1 end of the year (before the age of 26~28):
1. lay a good foundation: continue to be good at the world and interpersonal communication, and lay a good foundation for your career. Cultivate good living habits and learn all kinds of etiquette, exercise the basic skills of life and survival, and find a breakthrough point in life and career.
2. Practice listening, speaking, reading and writing (English, computer and driving)
3. Try more things and exercise your abilities in more aspects-shallow for the ability of social interaction and communication, and deep for the profound and accurate insight and foresight of society; Let me better grasp this era, this society, this self.
What I'm doing:
Practice five strokes until you are proficient; (Key post practice)
Familiar with the operation of Excel;
Write essays and feelings.
Keep the good habit of collecting information.
Things to do in the near future:
Do sales;
Go to IKEA supermarket;
Read famous books, accumulate sentences and words, understand the usage of punctuation marks, and learn various styles and grammar knowledge;
Gardenia;
Get magazines, newspapers and books about flowers;
Mail-order "Farmers Becoming Rich Consultant"
Do what:
Make a savings plan, and save two funds every month from May 10, parents and their own.
Within two years after the self-taught examination, the undergraduate passed the College of Chinese Language and Literature and participated in other examinations and trainings. Register in may
Spend more time at home,
Learn bonsai, three-dimensional floral art and modeling skills;
Write essays, novels, plays, etc. ;
travel
Long illness into medicine, advanced health care level.
After reading "Tokugawa Ieyasu"
Buy branded radios in the second-hand market in Beijing
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Go to the park library on Sunday.
Familiar with CAD and other drawing software, understand drawings and simple computer programs;
Study for an hour every day until you are proficient in English and Mandarin within half a year. Learn Japanese, German and French in the future; Proficient in a textbook and watch movies and music with English subtitles every 20 days.
Practice and change social etiquette and living habits; Sales, hotel etiquette books, business etiquette, eating and dressing habits.
Carry a portable notebook with you for planning and recording.
Philosophers say that death is the triumph of the laws of nature.
Everything is going through difficulties and twists, so there is no need to be discouraged and depressed. To be precise, there is no reason to be discouraged and depressed.
Get close to a person and you will find his true beauty.
Quality of life is not equal to quality of life.
To sum up the above experience: to tell the truth, if I can really get rid of the environment and psychology, so as to maintain a happy and beautiful mood for a long time, it must be a great free and easy and great achievement in my life. Now I believe I can do it soon, and I can realize this dream. What's more, I have developed the good habit of understanding, thinking, summarizing and planning. Keep-! ! I like to watch foreign reports about developed countries, and I also like to watch their movies and TV series, because there is their way of life, and of course it is also our way of life in the future, ten years or decades later.
Excerpted from Wang Lifen's "Where does the river of the times flow?"
1After the press conference of "Win in China" attended by more than 30 Chinese and foreign journalists, our registration work has started. The project "Winning in China" is no longer an idea in my mind. It has actually become a public project, and I think the problem is still behind.
Although it is difficult, I really don't have much pressure, because the best way to decompress is to tell myself that I am working hard every day. As long as you try your best, success or failure is fate. In the past, when the news investigation ended and the film was handed in, many people were afraid, but I was not afraid, because before that, I always said to myself, did I try my best? If the answer is "yes, I tried my best", I am not afraid at all.
My experience, my understanding of others and my grasp of the depths of society will make me mature and calm. This process is reducing my bookishness bit by bit, polishing my book knowledge that can't keep up with the changes of the times, and stripping off some of my original concepts that are difficult to change. It is a very meaningful place in life to experience these processes carefully in silence and music, and enjoy and suffer in this experience.
For me, the process of winning in China should be a process of winning from the heart. Only those who can win from the heart can really win, but it is not easy, but I will try my best.
In the process of doing something you want to do, you will mobilize all your wisdom, and many times you will graft wisdom. This process is a process in which you deeply understand the society, deeply understand human nature and release your potential. If you don't work with people, you will never really understand them, and if you don't do it, you will never know the hardships of doing things. Doing things is a process that really makes people get better little by little. And this point, in the process of making Win in China, was thoroughly felt by people who made something.
Seeing a wise man mainly depends on his judgment on one thing, while judging a moderate thing can polish all the wisdom of this person on the times, society, human nature and so on. The perception of an era is indispensable in wisdom, which is also the basic color of the growth of other wisdom. So I am always trying to find the direction of the river of the times, because each of us is either caught by it, stranded by it, impacted by it, or carried forward by it.
With regard to man's position in the universe, Emerson said: "Man is not in nature, but in himself-everything is beautiful and valuable. The world is empty, but thanks to this ostentatious appearance, the soul is proud. "
Emerson praised the greatness of man and said, "Every real man is a cause, a country and an era; They need unlimited space, countless people and unlimited time to complete their mission; Later generations seem to follow him like a row of doormen. The great Caesar was born for the afterlife, and we got the Roman Empire from him. Christ was born, and thousands of people depend on his talents to grow. People think that he is a virtue and a reason for human existence. The system is an extension of a person's figure. "
Emerson elaborated on self-knowledge and self-love in the article "Confidence": "Believe in your own thoughts, believe that what you think in your heart is correct, and it is also correct for everyone-this is genius. It is of ordinary significance to say that you are potentially guilty; Because the innermost things will become the most superficial things in due course, when the doomsday judgment comes, our initial thoughts will come back to us. Just as the voice of the heart belongs to everyone, we believe that the highest achievement belongs to Moses, Plato and Milton. They despise any books and traditions and speak not people's ideas, but their own. One should learn to discover and observe the faint light flashing in one's heart, instead of just paying attention to the brilliance of poets and sages shining in the sky. He shouldn't ignore his own thoughts, because they are his own. In every genius's work, we will see the idea of being abandoned; But when they came back to us, they brought a strange sense of loftiness. Great works of art will not teach us more. They taught us that when all the shouts are on the other side, we should stick to our views calmly and firmly. And tomorrow, a foreigner will tell us what to think and how to feel, and we will be forced to feel ashamed that our views come from others. "