Temper your will in the test of setbacks.
The truth of life, when you are too proud, you encounter a little unlucky frustration. If you know the Book of Changes, it should be good luck. Assuming that a person is always lucky, this person is finished and will never achieve much. So if you punish him a little, you won't do big bad things, which is a blessing for the villain. A man who has never been in trouble will never achieve anything.
A leader, like some emperors, dismisses his favorite minister at once, refuses him to work, or sends the prime minister to a county magistrate or township head at once. This is a fact. These are brilliant emperors. I hope this one can take on more responsibilities in the future. This is the truth that "small punishment and big precepts, small people also succeed."
People in trouble, understand two sentences of the ancients. In a word, "be bold when encountering all difficulties". Speaking of all difficulties, it's like doing business. If a check is not cashed today, it will collapse tomorrow. It depends on your calm efforts. How about a collapse? After the collapse, all the dirty words were cursed at you. At this time, don't be tempted, just do it, and if you are unlucky, do it boldly. The other sentence is "Don't be careless when it is suitable for ambiguity". When it is suitable for ambiguity, you can do this or that. This stock seems to have a good motive. Come to think of it, it's wrong. You can buy it or not. It depends on your strength. Therefore, it is better to be bold when encountering all difficulties, and it is better to be sloppy when encountering ambiguous things. Don't be careless China culture is very simple about this basic accomplishment.
Confucius said that only a gentleman can be poor. In other words, it depends on who is qualified to be poor. Only a gentleman can be poor. Although he is poor, he can still have firm beliefs. If you are a villain, on the contrary, you can do anything when you are poor. If you can't stand poverty, you are not a gentleman.
It is also wonderful to talk about poverty. Some realms need to be cultivated, which is also one of the differences between Chinese and western cultures. There are many such people in ancient history. Like a famous person in Ming Dynasty (I can't remember his name at the moment, I'm sorry), he is a great painter, and his poems are very good, so he is extremely poor. The next day, there was no rice in the pot. The night before, he was still sitting under the tree enjoying the moon and reciting poems. His wife nagged him, "If there is no rice tomorrow, why write a poem?" ! "He looked at the moon in the sky and said," There are still a few hours before tomorrow morning! Tomorrow's business will be dealt with tomorrow. Now let's look at the moon. The scenery is really good. "This is a scholar's accomplishment, but the mind and measurement of this scholar's accomplishment is hard to say! In a word, a person should form a central idea psychologically and have a realm himself. If there is nothing inside, life is quite empty. I don't feel busy when I have something to do. If a person puts things down and has a clear mind, it will be unbearable! This poverty not only refers to the poor economic environment. When people are at the end of the road, when they are old, everything is empty, their children are gone, and their wives are gone. It's really hard to be alone At this time, you should have your own neutral world, and you should have your own cultivation. With this realm, we can achieve "gentlemen are poor." "
If you want to eat "bad luck" as sugar cane, the next good step will come.
Life is easy, like dry, like Kun.
"Life is easy" is the most important sentence! From the word "destiny" in Yijing culture, we can see the differences between Chinese and western cultures. The truth of the Book of Changes is life, and we can only mention the Book of Changes culture, which is not found in the West. You study western culture, Christianity, Catholicism, Old Testament, New Testament, Islamic classics and even Buddhist classics. All religions only talk about death and encourage everyone not to be afraid of death. Only the Yijing culture in China can be said: "One yin and one yang is the Tao". Death is the yin side, but also in the Tao; Life is positive and Tao is also.
All religions look at life from the side of death, so it is pessimistic to look at life and miserable to look at the world. Only our Yijing culture is optimistic about life, and we will always look at it from the dawn. You said the sun set today, but he thought it was infinitely beautiful and was buried by the coming night. Twelve hours later, the sun rises in the east again. This kind of life is endless, always growing, growing, growing ... so I often say that unlucky people are lucky. Why? Because didn't the Book of Changes say "life is easy"? It is a truth that bad luck means good luck. Everyone is afraid when they are unlucky. If so, you will be eaten by that unlucky devil. We should eat "bad luck" as sugar cane, and after eating it, the next good step will come. The so-called "life is easy" is a unique philosophical view of China culture, which is not found in cultures all over the world. So I said, only China culture dares to talk about the existing life, which can be cultivated to eternal life. This is called a fairy! The realm of immortals is "sharing interest with heaven and earth and living with the sun and the moon". This life is forever.
I hope my answer can help you and more people. Now grow up with you and study together.
I was like this for a while, and then I was careful everywhere and found that things were still not done well. So I adjust my mind, climb mountains to relax my mind, listen to songs to release pressure, and then adjust my mind to do things smoothly, so people are not absolutely unlucky. The key is to look at their mentality.
Psychologists tell you that these four signs will appear before a person is unlucky.
People always complain, and it's bad luck if something happens. But from the psychological point of view, human behavior and subconscious are complementary and interactive. In other words, your "bad luck" may be related to your mood and behavior. If the following situations are found, the probability of bad luck is very high.
First, let yourself be careless. People who usually don't like to tidy up themselves are very indulgent to themselves. They allow themselves to be inactive, late and not make progress. Not only these emotions and attitudes will be reflected in your face. Your slowness and laziness will also make your image look decadent and ugly. Others will also judge their attitude towards you or whether to cooperate with you according to what they see. It will naturally affect your fortune. If a person doesn't know you, he will first judge whether you are reliable from your appearance. If a person already knows you, he will think you are sloppy and disrespectful to life, and will look down on you over time.
Second, lack of passion. Without enthusiasm and enthusiasm for life, nothing can arouse their interest. Every day is fuzzy. Also let yourself fall into a vicious circle. Such a person's aura will make people uncomfortable and avoid it. How can I be lucky? If you want to be lucky, you'd better adjust your mentality and control your emotions first. As long as you can be optimistic about every day, even if you have temporary setbacks, you will find unexpected good things waiting for you.
Third, arrogance. People with this personality can easily ignore other people's words and suggestions and focus on their own achievements and satisfaction. If you want to be lucky, you need to communicate with more people humbly and get more information and help. And such people can only drive away all the people who are good to you and drive away the opportunities that will give you. Arrogant people are usually unpopular with others because no one can get along with an arrogant person for a long time.
Fourth, infatuation with debauchery. A person's cultivation and conduct greatly affect his fate. Indulge in debauchery, the greater the greed, the narrower the mind and height. Not only can you not have a clear mind to judge the choice of life, but you will also be confused about your future because of these. People who are addicted to sex and alcohol will destroy their bodies over time, or even have no bodies. How can they talk about luck? How many talented men and military commanders in history, and kings of past dynasties have ruined their world-famous reputation because of the problem of wine and color.
If you want to refuse bad luck, you must start from cultivating yourself. If you have the above four situations, you must avoid them. Only by avoiding these things that can bring you bad luck will you be lucky again and again. Then we should pay attention to dressing up. The requirements are not high, but we must be clean and tidy, leave a positive impression on others, and be optimistic about things at ordinary times. When dealing with people and things, we must also be modest and not too arrogant. Drink alcohol in moderation at ordinary times to achieve the effect of fitness and health care. Don't indulge in wine with your friends every day, let alone in love and emotion.
What you lose is what you gain. Since it happened, we must bear it strongly. The savior is yourself. As long as you bite the crown, you can survive. Maybe you will have a bright future if you bear this. Don't be decadent or give up everything in life. We came into this world to bear ups and downs.
First, cultivate one's mind and nature.
Key points: through self-reflection and observation, the mind is pure, the will is firm, and words and deeds are harmonious.
Results: It can effectively prevent disasters caused by personality defects such as greed, impatience and indulgence, improve the quality of married life, improve physical and mental health, promote career development and increase happiness in life.
Second, do good deeds and accumulate virtue.
Key points: Dedicate time, wisdom, property, etc. For the needy society or individual, purify the soul, accumulate virtue and make contributions.
Results: It is helpful to improve morality and reputation, increase happiness, prevent and resolve the infringement of villains, and improve interpersonal relationships.
Third, medical care.
Key points: balanced nutrition, adequate sleep, proper exercise and optimistic attitude.
Effect: Improve physical and mental health, which is beneficial to career, wealth and marriage and family.
Fourth, make friends with noble people.
Key points: consciously make friends with all kinds of dignitaries with both ability and political integrity and establish a private advisory group.
Effect: Improve career wealth and interpersonal relationships.
V. Continuous learning
Key points: Insist on learning all the knowledge beneficial to life in a targeted and planned way.
Effect: enhance wisdom, improve ability and improve luck in all aspects.
Sixth, choose the right occupation.
Key points: according to the characteristics of career and wealth and the actual situation of life, choose the industry and occupation that suits you best and stick to long-term efforts.
Effect: Realize the optimization of career wealth.
I'm just browsing, browsing other people's homepages. Many people have written New Year's resolutions, and I also want to write mine.
However, when I settled down to write my wishes, I found that I had no wishes.
Travel? I am too lazy to move.
Reading? I've been reading, but I can't think of a book I really want to read.
Watching movies? I have been slacking off since graduation, as if I were afraid to face the light and shadow, or afraid to think.
I just hope that the work will not come in waves so quickly and occupy all my free time, so that I can have time to read books, watch movies, drink tea and raise animals in a daze.
However, I know this is impossible.
As a newcomer to the workplace, why are you disheartened?
In fact, it is better to admit that I am lazy, but why should I choose this deadly business?
I'm a person, right? I am a special tornado.
If you want it, you don't want it. If you don't get it, you don't like it. It's a pity to abandon it. It's tasteless.
Simply put, it is never satisfied, that is, a person who doesn't even know what he wants.
Although I'm going to be a senior three, my mind is still fixed, and when someone tells me that a person a few years younger than me has become the mother of several children, the implication is that I have to consider entrusting me for life or something, and I know very well in my heart-does this have anything to do with me? I still want to wander freely for a few years.
Year after year, I am wasting time, and time is consuming me.
Is it a weird little devil inside or a romantic dream of eternal spring? Unfortunately, time waits for no one, especially when the environment around me changes dramatically. I am not confident to say that I will always be the ignorant girl who imagines the future on the streets of Beijing.
When people reach a certain age, they should be responsible. Of course I know this, but the "equality" I want seems impossible in this world.
Someone told me that when a woman gets married, she becomes a vulnerable group, and I firmly believe it.
Because, whether physically or psychologically, women bear far greater responsibilities than men.
Many things are established once they are accepted. It is better not to think about them, and it is better to worry about the tail of youth.
Am I disheartened
Why don't you even have a wish now
Maybe, but I dare not face it.
Forget it, keep twisting.
The more unlucky a person is, the less upset he can be. He wants to calm down, breathe fresh air, lie in the grass and look at the blue sky and floating white clouds, and make friends with his closest friends. Speaking out the troubles in your heart will relax your mood and ease your mood. Only when your mood is relaxed, your mood is relieved, your heart is calm, and then you think about the solution, things will be much easier. As long as you are not hit by bad luck and have confidence and strength, you can achieve final success.
① Calm down and quit the circle of friends. Quit your circle of friends when you are unlucky! At this time, it is best not to accept the stimulation and influence of others, and stay alone quietly. This kind of loneliness helps people to calm down and think and find their own problems. "Bad luck" is also a person's energy field ... ② Abandon all bad habits and empty yourself. When you are unlucky, you should get rid of all bad habits, such as playing games and staying up late, which may damage your health and you must get rid of them as soon as possible. For example, if you like to seek excitement and gamble, you should give it up. Don't lose your money when your fortune is weakest.
There are many things that happen in succession, which is actually a "chain reaction". When the first "unlucky" thing happens, if you do other things in frustration, it will complicate simple things, and even interpret other people's well-meaning words and deeds as malice, causing new embarrassment.
Therefore, when encountering "unlucky" things, we must deal with them calmly and rationally and accept the reality. With a positive and sunny attitude, even if you will encounter inevitable troubles and "bad luck", you will not let them happen constantly around you! Do you believe me? -That's right! .
Fate is fair. When you are unlucky, you will see people worse than you, and your mentality will be correct. Don't always look up, lower your head appropriately.