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How to chat with girls

I broke my heart for you, too

Let's first analyze some mistakes that many boys often make when chatting with girls!

Continuous questioning

The phenomenon of constant questioning is common. Just give an example.

The reason for this problem is:

First, some boys meet girls they like and want to get what they want as soon as possible, so they start the interrogation mode. Is it really good for you to ask this question? This sister is not a prisoner, so don't make it look like an audit!

Then there is really nothing to say, and the way I ask you to answer gives people the illusion that we are chatting happily.

Although at first, people may give you some information unilaterally out of politeness, if you always do this, your sister won't want to chat with you. To sum up: when chatting with your sister, you can't ask questions, but you should prevent continuous questions. This will make girls feel like you are an auditor. Still can't talk, let's ask our sister out and talk over dinner.

Chatting in this way can avoid the pressure of asking questions continuously.

However, it should be noted that my sister is particularly depressed today. Talk to someone. For example, my sister said, "What a bad day! A wonderful thing happened!" At this time, you must cooperate and let your sister express "Where is it? Why, how strange is that guy? " .

You should express your opinions from time to time to show that you are listening carefully. Remember to stand on the girl's side and express your opinion. You are not a judge. Don't use rational thinking to discuss right and wrong. All you have to do is stand with your sister, so the next time your sister is depressed and wants to talk to someone, guess if she will think of you!

Don't talk about yourself

The specific performance is to completely ignore yourself or pass by when talking about yourself, such as:

Damn it, I came to you. Do you want to die with this attitude? Destined to be single for life!

If your sister shows interest in your answer, you can tell a short story about your personal experience. Bring each other closer.

However, there is another situation where girls are friendly, but they always seldom talk. At this time, as a boy, you should take the initiative and start from yourself.

After studying for so many years, it finally came in handy!

It's time to test you Learn more at ordinary times. Don't just play games all day. You can't talk to your sister! Learn photography, ps, etc., and you can also ask your sister out to take a photo, and take a beautiful photo of your sister, which simply adds points! At worst, if you have nothing to do, go and see more entertainment gossip, and there will be topics to deal with this situation!

As the saying goes, the master leads the door and the practice is in the individual. Sister Na, I can only help you here! The rest is up to you!

Finally, I will give you a video tutorial.

Remember! Chasing girls is the most important thing! Even if you take the initiative and collect so many raiders, what's the use of not taking action? Go and act!