First, honesty is the foundation. In the past, many people introduced this old uncle to an old man with good looks and good figure. They are ten years younger than him, so we all thought that the old uncle would agree, but he didn't expect to talk to others for two hours, so he refused. The reason he gave was simple. He said that this is not a person who can get married and live. At this age, he still wears heavy makeup every day, speaks carelessly and won't do any housework. And she just wants to find a man to spoil and support her. Although men should take on more responsibilities at home and be nice to women, some women are just stones, and no matter how nice you are to her, she also thinks it should be. However, in marriage, two people should give and take care of each other, not give and receive, so that one day the marriage will be unbalanced.
Second, optimistic health is a plus item. One of the reasons why the old man wants to find a wife is that someone takes care of himself. So a healthy body and an optimistic attitude are the key points. Because this can make your life smoother and worry-free, and avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles. Jaco's aunt died of illness in her last marriage, so she has been in bed for five years. The old uncles have been waiting for her and never slept well, so this makes him have more requirements for health when facing his second marriage.
Third, the money is clear and there is no worries. For the elderly, the issue of money has become quite sensitive. Because for couples who get married for the first time, there is almost no money dispute. If they get married, the money will naturally be shared, but this is not the case for the elderly, because there may be some disputes between the house and property of the elderly and their children. Therefore, if the elderly decide to remarry, they may wish to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage to clarify the division of property between the two parties and avoid discord caused by property problems after marriage.