If you don't even praise yourself, it's harder for men to find your good points. Once you learn to love yourself, it is easier to accept the love of others. One of the reasons to stop you from finding a boyfriend is actually your own idea. Be confident! Remember that you deserve happiness. Some people do not know what they want in the process of seeking love. Once they fall in love, they let their feelings be excessive, irresponsible and casual. It was a long time before I found myself spinning around in the same place and couldn't find the right person. Lack of self-confidence, don't believe in yourself, and don't know how to love yourself. In fact, people who feel good about themselves are often very confident people, and they can feel it from his manners. Such people tend to attract the attention of others, get the recognition of others, and naturally attract the opposite sex. So you lack self-confidence, praise yourself in the mirror at ordinary times, and believe that you are also excellent. How can you find your soul mate if you have never left the room? You need to go out, although it sounds terrible. Don't hide in the house, and don't close your lips. In order to establish contact with others, you need to communicate. Expect too much. Your ideal object may be handsome, charming, charming, rich and fashionable, or beautiful, exquisite and considerate ... but please wake up, you are looking for a mortal rather than a god-like idol! Everyone has shortcomings, what's more, God is fair to everyone. Give you a good face, you may not be rich, give you the ability, you may not be tender. Find out the most important, others can be abandoned appropriately, and then slowly run-in and reform in future exchanges.