For men, as long as women have a lot of handles, whether there is love or not, there is asexuality, as long as marriage is an empty shell.

For many men and women in marriage, it is highly fragrant not to be relatives or enemies, because there are too many married men and women who want to be enemies.

The key is to need your own happiness and not always rely on men.

For men, if the marriage partner you choose is difficult to get rid of, and you have many weaknesses in each other's hands, then you can only let the marriage continue, make the marriage a battlefield, or make the men and women in the original marriage enemies, with great probability.

Indeed, this is the truth both inside and outside marriage, and self-growth is king.

Looking at many unhappy marriages online and offline, many unhappy extramarital affairs, and many pains caused by being cheated by marriage or extramarital affairs, most of them are pinned on the thinking and mentality of "my happiness pays the bill". Think about it?

Many people think that having love means having each other, and having love means having the right to control each other. When the other person's manipulation is unsuccessful, you complain, attack and hurt, and at the same time you feel very uncomfortable. In order to avoid this path, we should always remind ourselves that love is not equal to having. ?