Most people are very familiar with this sentence. As we all know, different people have different understandings of money. Some people think that money is earned through hard work, so they will work hard on this road.

Some people think that if a person wants to accumulate more wealth, he must scrimp and save, so they are generally frugal in their daily life.

There is nothing wrong with thrift. Thrift is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but everything has advantages and disadvantages. Everyone must pay attention to the discretion in this matter.

Some money really saves a province. For example, people don't need to spend too much money on food and clothes. Some people especially like luxury goods. They buy cosmetics and choose famous brands. They choose brand-name backpacks and clothes.

They did it for the sake of so-called face. They want everyone to think they are different. They are rich, but they are really useless.

Some people are obviously moonlight people, but they always insist on high consumption. This kind of poverty and exquisiteness is really not worth advocating.

In this case, we really should be frugal. Where we should be frugal, we should not be frugal. The next thing, we can't save money, no matter how poor you are.

Human money

There was a colleague in the previous unit who was very economical. He belongs to the kind of person who can break a dollar in half, but he has a principle that human feelings never skimp on expenses.

We all know that his family is poor, and his monthly income will be used to pay off various debts, such as credit cards, such as flowers and plants, but even so, he has never deducted from the matter of human relations.

In a month, he accompanied the ceremony four times in a row. We all knew that he could not make ends meet, so we advised him not to do so. After all, some people may stop seeing each other in the future, which is meaningless.

He told us that those human feelings need to be spent, not to mention that those people can see them at ordinary times.

Facts have proved that his idea is very correct. Now his income has quadrupled. Many people may wonder why he can do this. In fact, the help of relatives and friends along the way is indispensable.

Everyone thinks he is good, so they will think of him when they meet a good opportunity. He is a hard worker, and his strength is not weak. What he lacks is opportunity. Now he finally got what he wanted.

Living in this world, it is inevitable that some people are secular, and it is inevitable that some people will pay the price for it. If you don't associate with others in order to save money, you will become poorer and more helpless in the future.

You know, people are social animals. As long as you live in this world, it is impossible to maintain those previous relationships without relying on others. This is what smart people should do.

Whether you are a relative or a friend, you must stick to it. Only in this way can we maintain our feelings. Sometimes you will miss the birthday party and not attend the wedding. You may become strangers from now on. This is the world of adults.

Money for eating with others.

I once met a very stingy colleague. Everyone calls him Lao Pan. Lao Pan was about 35 years old. It is said that there is a son and a daughter below, probably because his life is not particularly satisfactory. He is a miser through and through.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with a person's frugality, but his frugality has exceeded everyone's bottom line. For example, he usually goes out to eat with everyone and never spends money.

Many people may find it strange. Now, when eating with friends at the same time, don't most of them adopt AA system? Under such circumstances, can he be spared? Yes, in this case, he will also rack his brains to escape.

For example, I have no money on me today. This excuse is ridiculous. How can we go out for dinner without money?

What's more, in today's society, almost all payments are made by mobile phones. Everyone knows him, so they don't want to share his knowledge, but in the later time, everyone doesn't want to play with him.

Don't be greedy and cheap when eating with friends. You think you can save some money, but what you lose is face and reputation. Who wants to deal with you from now on?

If a person lives like this, it is actually a terrible thing. Think about it. If you often take advantage of others and even go out to eat with friends and relatives, you are not willing to pay the bill. What kind of contacts do you have in the future?

You don't need to make everyone like you. After all, everyone's preferences are different, and everyone is not a saint. You can't do this, but at least you can't make everyone hate you.

Funds for developing contacts

One needs to develop interpersonal relationships. Some people cancel all the parties to save money. He won't contact his friends to save some money. You may think he is very sensible, but in fact this is the most ignorant performance.

Personal connections have a great influence on a person's development. If you can keep developing contacts, you will get great returns one day.

Only those who have really experienced it can understand this. To give a very simple example, a salesman just started to be average, but he likes to play with everyone. As long as it helps his work, he likes to make friends.

It is normal for everyone to eat, drink and drink together. This time, this colleague invites you, next time, this customer invites you, and next time, that customer invites you. However, he was not spared.

Everyone needs to spend money to be friends, which is inevitable for everyone, but the money is really spent. He has expanded his contacts and will come in handy one day.

Money for self-improvement

I once met a very clever colleague. When he just graduated from college, he was penniless and earned about 3000 yuan a month. He has no higher education, so he can't have a higher basic salary like others. Plus his ability is average, so his performance is average.

His family is poor and his parents can't afford him. He lives in the simplest rental house and leads the most ordinary life, but he spends money on training classes every month.

At that time, some people said that he was wasting money because he was already poor, but after a few years, the effect came out. He gradually caught up with everyone's pace and his income increased greatly.

Although he is not outstanding, at least he is no longer the last king. Now he has more than enough to support himself and changed to a new environment.

People who really spend money will spend money on investing in themselves, because this kind of money is worth spending and will get greater returns in the future.

In this world, no one succeeds for no reason. If a person wants to succeed, he must make more efforts than others. Learning will never stop, so it is worthwhile to spend money on it. Only in this way can you fight against social competitiveness.

Money for shaping body and health.

You don't have to buy brand-name clothes and shoes, but you should dress appropriately and make yourself clean and tidy. This is very important.

Nowadays, people judge people by their appearance, so it is very necessary to pay attention to their appearance. In addition, people can spend money on health, such as buying some health-preserving things to eat, or often taking part in fitness activities, or going to the gym when necessary.

Anyway, this money is well spent, because it is the capital for your future development.

It is always said that the poor should spend less money so that they can live better in the future. In fact, this idea is wrong. In this world, there are many poor people, but in the end everyone has turned over.

The steering wheel of life is in your own hands. Don't save money blindly. Saving money in some places is self-defeating.