When we obey human nature, we will live like ordinary people; Real masters are anti-human operations. -ding
First, self-improvement goes against human nature.
Self-improvement means self-improvement, self-cultivation, self-reliance, continuous improvement and self-improvement.
The mission of mankind is to pursue dreams through self-improvement.
Just as celestial bodies maintain vitality through movement, a gentleman should constantly pursue self-improvement.
Self-improvement is the mother of luck.
Self-improvement is a spirit, a beautiful moral character and an essential quality for a person to live out his dignity and life value.
It is a powerful driving force for a person to grow up healthily, study hard and achieve his career.
A gentleman respects those who are in himself, but does not envy those who are in heaven, so he advances in the day.
Self-improvement is to fully understand your own favorable factors on the basis of self-love and self-confidence, be proactive, strive for progress, be unwilling to lag behind, have the courage to overcome difficulties, and be a strong person in life.
No matter how noble and poor you are, it's all your parents' business. You should try your best to create your own world.
Stick to the channel and strive for self-improvement
There are not enough people to rely on, you have to live on your own.
If there is an enemy outside, it will strengthen itself first. Self-reliant people are afraid of me, and I am not afraid of others.
Setting the goal of self-improvement is helpful to overcome depression and weakness, thus invigorating the spirit and shouldering the heavy responsibility entrusted by the times.
Great cause is rooted in persistent work, with full spirit to engage in, do not avoid hardships.
There is no skill to beat others except self-reproach, and there is no skill to beat others except self-improvement.
Self-improvement is the health of the world, and Zhigang is the great Wang Zhidao.
Self-improvement, striving for progress, is an infinite vision and unremitting pursuit of a better future.
Even if a person has reached the peak, he still has to strive to improve himself.
Self-improvement, striving for progress, proudly tall and straight when the wind and rain hit.
Self-confidence and self-reliance are strong pillars.
Starting from self-improvement, success is sincere and interest-free.
Self-improvement is down-to-earth, indomitable, and step by step towards lofty ideals.
A firm belief will win strong people and then make them stronger.
Self-improvement is contempt for difficulties, response to setbacks, and yearning and longing for success.
It is difficult to do anything at present, and since ancient times, men have been more self-reliant.
Self-improvement is the driving force to struggle in the storm of fate.
The ritual spring is passive, Cao Zhi has no roots, and people are self-motivated;
Running water does not rot, family members do not die, and people's livelihood is diligent.
In the cruel reality, self-improvement is the mainstay of struggle.
The strong tend to get stronger, just as the weak tend to get weaker.
Even a little self-restraint can make people powerful.
Self-improvement is where there is a will, there is a way. Cross the rubicon, cross the rubicon. After all, Qin Guan is the great ambition of Chu.
Self-improvement is a hard work. Three thousand more armor will swallow Wu's heroic spirit.
Self-improvement is the courage and courage to let go of your sweat, eat your own food and do your own thing.
Take constant as the body and take a new day as the road.
Self-improvement is the determination to "see success or failure, live a heroic life and start all over again".
Those who are not afraid of pain are stronger, and those who are not afraid of death are stronger.
Victory belongs to the persevering.
Self-improvement is a bright ethics that can't be overwhelmed by difficulties, can't bow to bad luck, and is not afraid of dangers.
Strong people can struggle in the storm of fate.
With courage and perseverance, the inevitable disaster will be conquered.
Career often becomes difficult, but it is ruined by impatience.
The most obvious sign of a great man is a strong will.
Self-improvement means keeping mental state, making up your mind and overcoming all difficulties.
If you are strong enough, you are unprecedented.
Life is like an ocean, only a strong-willed person can reach the other side.
Second, anti-human entrepreneurship.
We all need anti-humanity, because the process of anti-humanity is the process of creating value.
I dare not comment on human nature at will, but I cannot deny that human nature often means casualness.
Occasionally, we will lose many opportunities to reinvent ourselves and better communicate with others.
In most communication, going against human nature is to make more people comfortable, because it is particularly difficult to lower yourself and take the initiative, because polishing yourself requires special restraint and efforts.
From the perspective of anti-humanity, entrepreneurship is precisely the best carrier of anti-humanity.
The essence of an enterprise is to meet unlimited demand with limited resources. This process itself is a contradictory process, a mismatch process, and a process of changing the majority with a few forces.
It is in this process that we can complete the remolding of a few people and realize high-quality value shaping.
In life, we will find that many leaders are doing things that people don't like to do, such as working overtime for a long time, smoking, drinking and even all kinds of abnormal life behaviors.
But it is precisely these anomalies that are the normal state of entrepreneurs, the normal state of management and the normal state of enterprises.
It is very difficult to remold the team, achieve the core strength of a class, and really create value with temperature, emotion and strength.
It is precisely because of these difficulties that the value of shaping the core team, the importance of time and events, and the value of dedication have emerged.
We can't deny time, but we must recognize the temperature under time, otherwise where did the master's statement and practice come from?
In an extremely growing group, we should all firmly believe that this environment is full of goodwill, that it is a safe and valuable environment, and that it is an environment that we hope to collectively reshape and completely break through.
It is particularly difficult to be a capitalized person, because capitalized people mean dedication and responsibility, breakthrough and innovation, and trust and rebirth.
In real life, we often find that the higher the level, the easier it is to reach trust, and the lower the level, the easier it is to doubt life. Because self-improvement means trust, and inferiority means doubt.
We all need to completely break through ourselves in reality, instead of being satisfied with written expression, emotional expression or even excited worship. These skills can't solve the fundamental problem.
Full of temperature and passion, full of growth and self-modesty, full of responsibility and enjoyment.
Third, anti-human learning.
Sometimes, I have a lot of freedom to control my time, but in the end I find that I just use it for boredom.
The next boring step means falling, but I don't want to fall and start to feel sad.
I am happy to play drama, sleep and dance school, but I despise myself.
I'm tired of deliberately going to graduate school, but I appreciate myself like this.
My essence should be a lazy pig, but my dream is to be an upward person.
Everything becomes anti-human because of human nature.
Weak self-control is not so much human nature as the * * * nature of most people.
Everyone has desires. Desire is human nature, which can also be called "animality". It is grinning. If it smiles too much, it will look ugly, but it is always full of power. Most people's desires are similar, but based on different personal abilities, the degree of desire is different, while the desires of a few people are more "exquisite".
Desire, if you want to realize it, it is impossible to overcome the weak self-control without some means.
I call all deliberate efforts learning, because deliberate learning gives me a sense of pain that I can't enjoy.
In order to realize the nature of human desire, we need to study deliberately. To reverse the weak self-control and think about the humanity of the dance academy.
Therefore, true learning is anti-human.
Most of the time, we always eat and die, and we are complacent intermittently;
Sometimes we are too lazy to be like pigs, but we dare not feel at ease like pigs;
We have no ability to change everything in front of us, and we are not satisfied with ourselves;
What supports us is not the sparkling dream in front of us, but the abyss behind us;
In the end, we failed our ambition and all our sufferings.
Don't bury your ambition, don't live up to the pressure you bear, and learn to study against humanity because of humanity.
Fourth, it goes against human nature.
When you see a friend of the same age who used to be similar to you or even worse than you, now he suddenly develops and makes a lot of money.
Your brain's first reaction is:
1. "Great, how did you do it? I want to find him to study hard. "
2. "Hey, he is either speculating or lucky enough to step on the tuyere. What's the big deal? I can do it, but I didn't do it at the time and I lacked some luck. "
We must admit that people have bad habits. People are self-centered. Everyone wants to live better than others. Just like when a group of girlfriends take photos, they must hope that they are the most beautiful one in the photo.
However, the reason why Niu can stand out among a group of ordinary people is that his way of thinking and operating system are anti-human and different.
They can control their instinctive jealousy and choose to ask each other, even if this person is not as impressed as himself.
If you look at the current online ecology, you will find such an interesting phenomenon. People who talk about other people's shortcomings in high-traffic places such as Zhihu, Weibo and WeChat official accounts every day are generally not very successful.
They are inferior to others in wealth and influence, and can only be satisfied by verbal war of words, which is different from the internet addiction teenagers who are addicted to games.
Have you ever found that there are too many people in this world who don't have a skill and can't make money, and hope that others can't make money, so that their hearts can be balanced.
If you want to be poor together, why are you richer than me? Instead of thinking about how to get rich together.
The logic is that you can't see others as good, even if others are good, it doesn't matter to you.
This way of doing things will definitely make your career path, even your life path, narrow and lonely. Because no one wants to cooperate with you, even if you cooperate, you will feel risky and increase the cost of trust.
Ordinary people talk about how to ensure that they don't suffer, and excellent people talk about how to help others.
There are only two important things in life, working with a mission and building a truly meaningful relationship.
Commercial success is only an accessory.
Good interpersonal relationship:
The first layer is utilitarianism. We make friends purely because we appreciate each other, not because we think about how to get something from each other.
The second layer is mutual benefit, the two sides help each other and grow together;
To the highest level of pure dedication, at this time, you are strong enough in the spiritual realm. Whether you are materially free or not, you don't have to ask the world for anything spiritually.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) is anti-human mentality.
True happiness is not what you have, but what you are grateful for.
If you believe that everything is the best arrangement, you will not be anxious, angry, sad or struggling.
"Gratitude" and "fate", if we can always do things everywhere in life with these two mentality, the happiness index will definitely improve a lot, there will definitely be no so much entanglement, and our health will also get better.
Learning and losing weight are against humanity.
It is difficult to persist without great pressure or strong desire in people's hearts.
Therefore, most people will not take the initiative to learn or lose weight many times.
This is the appearance, and the deeper reason is:
It is human nature to want immediate reward, and what is needed in the heart is immediate feedback.
Weight loss and study need long-term accumulation, and the feedback period is too long.
It is often reported that the fat girl was dumped by her boyfriend, and the success of losing weight to thinness is the final result of being stimulated, having strong desire and perseverance.
My heart and I often say that we are fat, but we never take the initiative to exercise more or deliberately control our diet, because our desire is not strong.
In learning, I also hope to read more books, but because there is no pressure of entrance examination, reading is very casual and seems dispensable.
My niece often talks about working hard, which high school to go to, which university to go to and so on. The goal is great, but her actions have not changed much, and it is difficult to turn pressure into motivation.
It seems that the root really lies in human nature. I hope I can pay the price and get immediate results. This is the weakness of human nature, and it needs to be treated persistently in order to violate human nature.
From a certain point of view, isn't gratitude and fate a kind of anti-humanity?
Vi. endangering human life
Human nature is human nature, instinct, neutrality, without any emotional color, as the name implies, we are born.
What is human nature?
For example, greed, like to get something for nothing, or get twice the result with half the effort, or vanity, or take advantage, and so on. It's all human nature.
In the process of doing business, many people use human nature to do business.
Let me give you a small example: after buying vegetables in the market, the owner of the vegetables will usually give you some onions, which will make you feel that you can eat onions without spending money in the future and make you feel that it is cheap. In the future, you will unconsciously go to the booth where onions are delivered to you. In fact, the money for buying onions has long been earned by the other party.
Obedience to human nature is directed at others, and violation of human nature is directed at oneself.
On the first day of the lunar new year, the table is full of delicacies, but people who have requirements for their bodies can only watch others let go of their bellies and eat and drink, but they have to keep their mouths shut. If they really want to eat, they can only swallow saliva. Is this against humanity?
On weekdays, people work from nine to five, and the nightlife is quite rich. For your own career, you get up earlier than chickens, do more than cows, and go to bed later than dogs. Dinner is not on time yet, and you are still having lunch when others are eating. At one or two in the morning, you are still in the office, and it may be dawn when you get home. In your family, the nanny outlives you. Do you think this is against humanity?
JD。 Liu of COM once lived in his office for five years in a row, where he ate and drank. Do you think this is against humanity?
It's against humanity that makes JD.COM what it is today. And he went to the United States last year, didn't control his humanity, and finally made a fuss. I think the loss is definitely not as simple as billions.
Seeing delicious food, I can't help it; Seeing beautiful women, I can't help it; I can't help seeing some interesting things. It means that you are still a little far from success. Be hard on yourself and get closer to success.
I don't believe this. Li Ka-shing was born to get up early.
I don't believe this. Ma Yun was born a "flying man".
I don't believe this. You like to work overtime when others are holding their wives.
I can't believe this. People eat and drink in the sea, and you really don't want to eat.
Many times, it's not that I don't want to, it's not that I can't, but that I can't.
On the road to success, there are too many nays. It is precisely because of too many failures that many people can't do it, so the road to success is not congested.
No wonder some people say that on the road to success, we must endure loneliness and temptation.
Ding guijun
July 30, 1965 438+09