Marriage pays attention to balance. Although this sentence is not absolute, it is indeed appropriate to some extent. At least men and women should know what they are and be able to match, so that two people will feel happy when they are integrated. No one feels that they have lost, and no one feels that they have suffered, so that everyone will be balanced. Otherwise, if the marriage is unbalanced, one party will definitely suffer. It is difficult for people who suffer to keep their position. Naturally, they will try their best to find a balance. Such a marriage will be difficult to stabilize.
It is a disadvantage for men that unmarried men find divorced women, and it is difficult for them to balance their hearts. So in general, men will not do this unless women have some special attraction to balance the original unbalanced marriage. For example, the marriage of Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning is an example. As far as age is concerned, Weng Fan suffers, but as far as fame is concerned, Yang Zhenning suffers. Both sides suffered losses and took advantage. The two are balanced, and it is considered as a balanced marriage.
Usually unmarried men are 30 years apart, and their family situation is not very good, so it is difficult to find a girl they like. In this case, you have to find such a divorced woman or a woman with children. If a woman is carrying a girl, an unmarried man may be willing to get married, because he can have a second child, and his family will be very happy. Therefore, on the whole, a newly married man can find a divorced woman with children, but only if the man has special shortcomings or the woman has special skills, otherwise such a marriage agreement will be difficult to reach.