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In marriage, the most taboo is "making do". If two people are together, they are very tired. Why do we have to get along?
Yes, since you are so tired, don't make do with it.
Generally speaking, it is "advise and leave without advice". But sometimes, we have to admit the reality. My friend Ayu and his wife can't live any longer and want a divorce. He came to ask for our advice. My friends said in unison, "Leave. It is good for you to leave early. "
Actually, it's not a friend. heartless But his marriage is very unhappy. How can I put it? She is an honest person. I met this woman on a blind date. Of course, we all call her "sister-in-law" in private.
Sister-in-law is not a housewife Can't do housework, has a bad temper. It was only then that she was driven away by her family and quickly married her sister-in-law. And my sister-in-law was in the same situation as Ayu.
To put it simply, both of them chose to get married on a blind date because of family pressure. Originally, she thought that since she was married, she should live a good life. He also works hard and is good to his sister-in-law.
But after marriage, some bad habits of her sister-in-law were exposed. At first, she thought that women should change.
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You must understand that some things cannot be changed. Sister-in-law and Ayu's parents don't get along well, and quarrels are common. Then they moved out. My sister-in-law lost her job and ended up staying at home. He also said that she didn't earn much money and couldn't give her happiness. Scold ayu.
To tell the truth, she is also honest. If it were another man, I would have divorced her.
Therefore, this kind of life has passed for half a year. She finally couldn't stand it and wanted to choose a divorce. But he still hesitated. So he came to ask our opinion.
This is the experience of Ayu. I believe many people will persuade Ayu to divorce after reading it.
Yes, since you are so tired, don't make do with it.
For Ayu, this marriage is really tiring. He lowered himself to a very humble level, but he still couldn't get a happy marriage. Actually, it's not his fault. Because marriage is a matter for two people. He has been giving. But my sister-in-law has been asking for it, and she still doesn't know how to repay it. Such a woman really can't give a man happiness.
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Yes, sometimes, since two people are so tired, don't make do. If you continue, you will only make yourself worse and worse. This situation will definitely lead to divorce in the end.
Although marriage is not easy, we should learn to cherish it. Cherish, but also cherish the right person. If the other party is not worth cherishing, learn to stop loss in time. No one is a fool, there should be only one person in the marriage.
There is no happiness in such a marriage. Marriage should be the joint efforts of two people. Only Qi Xin can have a bright and happy future. Many times, in those bad marriages, there must be one person who is unwilling to pay. This leads to the imbalance of marriage.
Under such circumstances, Ayu should choose a divorce. Only by leaving each other can we have a better future. For Ayu, enough has been paid. If we continue to make do, there will be no good life.
In marriage, we need sincerity. But give it to the right person. If that person is not the right person, two people get along very tired. Don't insist. Marriage is just a part of life. Don't think that your life will be bad after divorce. Sometimes, blind and stupid persistence is the wrong choice.
Today's topic: If you are tired of loving each other, will you choose to let go? Welcome to discuss!
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