When people reach middle age, they think a lot about life, despise many people and things, and value some people and things. When a person reaches 40 years old, some problems in life will probably begin to be understood. The value and significance of life. After the age of 40, there will be no lofty ideals and pursuits, and I will begin to think about the true value and significance of life. Returning to the origin, perhaps the greatest value and responsibility of a person's life, or the fundamental meaning of existence, is to take good care of and support those who gave birth to you, so that they can spend their old age peacefully until they leave this world peacefully; Do your best to raise and educate the people you gave birth to, so that they can grow up safely and healthily, become useful people to society, or at least become independent people.

The real value of human life, except for a few great men, can change the world and make great contributions to mankind and society. The vast majority of people are destined to pass by, just doing their family and social responsibilities for the reproduction, development and endless life of mankind!

Fame and fortune are worthless in the face of health.

When people live to be 40 years old, they will definitely go to hospitals, funeral homes and places you will go to several times. He will definitely experience friends, colleagues or close relatives around him, leave this world one by one and be separated from himself forever.

After all this, I will gradually understand that many fame and fortune in the world are not worth mentioning before life and death. In the face of good health, it used to be dispensable, and gradually I will realize that "some people quit their jobs and go home, and some people rush to the examination room at night." Young people don't know what it's like to worry, but old people go away when they know difficulties. "Only in this way can you understand the lines in the TV series" Latency ":there is a victory called retreat and a failure called occupation!

It is a grass to the unit and a tree to the family.

When I was young, I always felt how important I was to my unit and others. It's like taking a day off and another day off, so this unit can't go on. Watching the unit work overtime every day, the work is overwhelmed every day. However, when you are 40 years old, it seems that one day you suddenly understand that your existence is completely insignificant to your unit. Without you, the earth will still turn, and maybe it will turn better! However, for your family, you are the sky, the pillar of the sky, the building on which children depend, the mountain in the heart of the elderly, and the tree on which lovers rely. Without you, in their hearts, the sky will fall and the earth will sink, as if the end of the world is coming.

Many social relationships are completely dispensable.

When I was young, I paid the most attention to the friendship between brothers, the friendship between friends and brothers, and various social relations. However, when you reach the age of 40, you will gradually find that those so-called friends and brothers, or social relations, are useless when important events come. You have to taste all the hardships, carry all the difficulties and wade all the rivers by yourself! You will find that the friendships and relationships that you once cared so much about are actually dispensable. At most, when life is proud, someone will add icing on the cake, but when your life comes to an end, no one will give you timely help!