2. regard you as a mountain, water, beauty, moon, light, man, loyalty, heart and truth. I value you!
3, the four elements of health care Kindness is the nutrient of mental health care, tolerance is the regulator of mental health care, optimism is the panacea of mental health care, and indifference is the immune agent of mental health care.
If 1000 people pass by me, I can also recognize your footsteps. Because there are 999 people standing on the ground, only you are standing on my heart.
Eat a light meal to nourish your stomach, wash your lungs with fresh air, bask in the bright sunshine, find a group of friends to get drunk, sleep like a cat, and forget the fatigue of crossing the world.
6, confidant tea-first bitter and then sweet, with endless aftertaste; Wine cotton and stamina, refreshing; Spring-clear and tasteless, but it takes a lifetime to taste sweet. A bosom friend, such as tea, wine and spring, can benefit people for life.
7. Is life one, two, three and four? One center: health as the center. Two basic points: confusion and truth. Three forgetfulness: forgetting age, fame and fortune, and sadness. Four things: a wife, a bed of roses, a little money and a few good friends.
8. The happiest thing when you are young is to die for you. When you are old, the happiest thing is to sit under the eaves and smile and recall those impulses and experiences that want to die.
9. Eight theories of Zen? Do not dispute, vitality does not hurt; Not afraid, bright, flashing; If you are not angry, you will be at peace with all gods; Rest assured, my heart is cold; Not seeking merit, neither humble nor supercilious; If you don't insist, you can be round and square; Not greedy, rich in health; Be careful, why are you afraid of the king!
10, born in want, how can it be elegant?
1 1. Blank is romance without saying a word, and carefree without doing anything.
12, Buddha is the heart, Tao is the bone, Confucianism is the table, and the world is open. Skills in hand, you can be in it, thinking in your head, and live calmly.
13, 3,000 years of reading history, nothing more than fame and fortune. Nine, Wan Li's enlightenment ends in poetry, wine and countryside.
14, it will be sad to be ignored by people who care very much. What's more sad is that you have to pretend not to care.
15. All happiness supported by material things will not last long, but will leave with the departure of material things. Only the peace and tranquility of mind, and then the pleasure of body and mind, is the real source of happiness.
16. There are two kinds of happiest people in this world: ordinary people who live a quiet life and outstanding people who have made great achievements? If you are an ordinary person, you can get happiness by cultivating your mind and reducing your desires. If you are an outstanding person, you can succeed in your career through enterprising and hard work, and then get a higher level of happiness.
17. Now, you force yourself to grow up, become a better person, and take the initiative in life, so that you won't be forced by impulse and driven to move forward in the future. Forcing yourself to work hard is to strive for the right to be willful at any time for the future.
18, all beings? There is sweeping monk on the way, and the temple provides light and shadow for the Buddha. I asked where I was from, and I didn't know. There is Zen in it, and practice can last for thousands of years. Everyone is a sentient being, and he walks alone.
19, illusory? The piano flies at night. The bright moon shines into the book window, and the faint notes turn into sadness. Hook up a person in a painting, enjoy an eternal piece of music, and let 3,000 emotions go around. Let's walk away and hallucinate.
1, the tree shakes the bird, and the fish is surprised.
2. Bodhi only looks at the heart, why bother to seek metaphysics?
3. Buddhism is in the world, and it never leaves. After death, Kubote is just like begging for a rabbit's horn.
In this world, there are always some things that we can only appreciate, but we can't get close to them. Finally, we chose to walk away. There are always some feelings that we can only experience, silently, finally can't accept, and finally choose to leave. On the road of reincarnation, choice is connected with fate, and giving up is related to life. Life is about choosing, moving towards a new life, giving up, being free, and moving on.
There is no hard work in the world, and there is no place where people are not complicated. Even if you reject the present unhappiness, time will not pass slowly. So, have a long snack! Don't lose your temper at will. Nobody owes you anything. Learn to keep a low profile, there must be gains and losses between choices, and don't care too much. Learn to be practical, the simpler the happier. When a person has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence.
6. Everything comes from karma and is born from thought. If you cling to something or something, you will suffer from loss and worry. If you can see everything, you will be fearless. Life is often about what you are afraid of. When you look down on gains and losses and have no sense of success or failure, you will succeed smoothly. The most precious thing in life is to have a normal heart, stay away from turbid waves, be as calm as water, and not be confused by the five colors in the world.
7, a worry and a happy heart, a glory and a dry dust, calmly see through the cold things, never be a dreamer. A wise man always looks forward, and a wise man always looks back. A wise man is one who conquers others; A wise man is one who conquers himself. The cultivation of the mind should be based on the purity of the mind, and the cultivation of religion should be based on the non-ego. A thing of the past, a thing of the past, cannot be won; Now, now, you can follow the fate; The future, the heart of the future, don't work hard.
8. Don't mind people who treat you badly. No one has an obligation to be nice to you. What you learn is the weapon you have. You can start from scratch, but you can't be unarmed How you treat others doesn't mean how others treat you. If you don't understand this, it will only increase your troubles. Relatives only have one fate, cherish it, and in the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never see it again.
1, the sound of windows should be the sound of bamboo rain, the sound of pavilions should be the sound of wind, and the sound of washing inkstones should be the sound of books on the couch. Idle on the sofa, lean on a few at will, and meet good sentences, such as talking to a good friend. A good book is like wine, the better it tastes, the drunker it gets.
Mao Qi sits alone and often makes tea. After seven bowls, he was refreshed; The bamboo couch is full of books, a pillow in the palace, and the heart is idle and dreams are stable. Gao Shi lay idle, accompanied by books, fell asleep after reading a few poems, and his heart floated like a pine tree.
3, under the small window, burn incense to read, stand a few drums, roll curtains to see cranes, and go upstairs to drink. This recluse is carefree, elegant and lives a happy life. Sitting in front of a desk by the window, reading with a pure heart and looking up leisurely means Nanshan.
4, read a book of Xuanzang, see beautiful scenery; Listen to a few witticisms, such as Yue Lichuan's trip. Sitting quietly reading a book, although busy in the bedroom, but the mood rotates, the eyes are washed away, and the gas situation suddenly becomes clear.
People who like reading don't make a fuss, just as passionate people don't change their views on life and death, and people who drink well don't change their quantity with cold and hot. If reading can cure customs, so can natural medicine. As a result, every corner of the literati's elegant room is filled with quiet books.
6. Among all the noble activities of human beings, reading is the lowest threshold and the highest return on investment; Books don't ask rich and poor, old and young. Read a book and gain more. Read a book for one day and benefit from it for one day.
7. The ancients had a cloud: the sound of pine, the sound of mountain birds, the sound of night insects, the sound of cranes, the sound of piano, the sound of chess pieces falling, the sound of rain, the sound of snow sprinkling on windows, the sound of making tea, all clear, and the sound of reading is the most important. There are more epigrams: treating common diseases is like a book, giving drunkards like a month. A mansion, full of antiques and pretentious elegance. If you don't study, you are still a vulgar person.
8. What is a true love relationship? All kinds of relationships in the unit must be cherished. A person's ability is only when he can handle the relationship with his work. There is no work relationship, just eating, drinking and having fun, which is not a high-quality relationship.
9. Only your own fundamental thoughts have truth and vitality. Because, only these can be truly and completely understood by a person. Reading other people's thoughts is like eating other people's leftovers or wearing old clothes discarded by strangers.
1, generous and decent, natural and harmonious, peaceful attitude towards life, no anxiety, no slack, when it's time to shoot, it's amazing.
2, time is not necessarily affectionate, but we must look at people's hearts.
3. The villain will be recognized by everyone sooner or later if he does more injustice. Don't care what others think of you and say behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind. People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you are not worth explaining.
4. Don't enter the circle of villains, and don't let villains go deep into their own fields and hearts. Don't help, don't stop, don't persuade, don't participate, don't discuss, let it develop and let it die.
5. Say hello to villains often and talk less; Do not take the initiative to contact, but do not refuse to contact; Don't be intimate, but don't break up; You can give benefits, but you can't take advantage of the villain.
6, big things are difficult, depending on responsibility; Whether adversity is good or not depends on your mind; Whether you are happy or angry depends on self-cultivation; Give and take, see wisdom; Success or failure depends on persistence.
7. If the heart is small, all the little things will be big; When the heart is big, the big things are small; Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside.
8, big heart, let the world; Empty your heart and love the beauty of the world; Calm down and talk about things in the world; Sneak into their hearts and observe the principles of the world; Keep a correct attitude and deal with the changes in the world.
4, there are things not done, and knowledge is not enough; God hides in the chest and qi floats on the surface; See talent in things and be loyal to people.
5. Take the right path, let go of the careless hand, make friends, break friends without meaning, drink tea, abstain from drinking wine, open the door to convenience and close the mouth of right and wrong.
6. Everything goes with the flow; Take it calmly; Indifference when proud; Calm when frustrated; Difficulties and twists and turns are inevitable; Go through many vicissitudes.
7. This world is neither a world of rich people nor a world of poor people. This is a world made up of people with will.
8. You are lucky to have someone to help you. It's a just fate that no one helps you. Nobody should do anything for you, because life is your own.
9. Modest people spur themselves with diplomas, while guilty people show off with diplomas.
10, people who can look at the world rationally and objectively have a spiritual home in their hearts; Anyone who looks at the world by feeling, passion and the Lord will only be desolate inside.
1 1, Confucianism governs the country, Taoism governs the body, and Buddhism governs the mind, that is, Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Proud of believing in Confucianism, frustrated and advocating Taoism.
12. What is bamboo? Bamboo is solid, no different thoughts; Bamboo is straight and does not follow the wind; Bamboo heart is empty, not willful and narrow; Stay loyal and never change your ambition. It is said that bamboo is a gentleman.
13, the profit can be * * * but not one person, and the plan can be less but not more? Zeng Guofan
14, don't do what you want for a long time, don't go to places where there are many people competing? Don't be greedy! At noon, the full moon is lost, and things are prosperous and declining. Zeng Guofan
15, the strength is not fierce, the light is not dazzling, and it is a mature personality beauty. To do this, we must get rid of pride and grandiosity. Respect the normal rights of every insignificant person. We should always be modest, courteous and humble to support ourselves.
16, watch the flowers in front of the court and gently shake the feather fan city head.
17, others respect you, not because you are excellent, but because others are excellent.
18, be careful that you can't bear to leave, while others have made up their minds to take a step back and endure calm for a while; If you complain too much, be careful.
19, the full moon is a poem, the moon is a flower, the head is spring, and the head is autumn.
20. The key to elegance is to control one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior. We are not free, usually because of bad emotions from the heart. The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive.
1, there will always be another mountain, and I always want it to move. There will always be another mountain, waiting for me to move.
2. I suggest that people who want to be leaders try to do the following three things: a. Provide opportunities: provide opportunities for your team members to engage in challenging work that is not within the scope of their daily work. Please don't do all the hard and tiring work yourself (you can't get tired of doing these jobs) and let others try. You are not the only one who can do such a job. Build trust: Trust others until they are proved guilty. I believe others have the ability to do it unless they screw it up more than twice in a row. C leadership, not management: tell them the direction they should take, and then lead the team members forward with their own examples. Never try to bind employees with rules and regulations (it should not be you unless you want to be a black-faced old witch), but use your example to influence and lead others.
If you don't know marketing, how much is your talent worth?
Customers come to your company because they want to "listen to stories", "dream together" and learn about "new ideas". As long as you understand the added value of goods, you can understand that there is no need to be limited by the same price.
5, can't make money, can't make knowledge; Can't earn knowledge, earn experience; Can't earn experience, earn experience; All of the above have been earned, and it is impossible not to make money.
6. There is only one reason why people are confused, that is, they think too much and do too little at the age when they should be struggling!
7.2.6.2's rules are considered to be synonymous with "hard work". It is said that out of every 65,438+000 workers, 20 are excellent, 60 are mediocre, and the remaining 20 are just lazy. The same is true for consumers: the top 20% are people who never buy special goods, the last 20% are people who only buy special goods, and the middle 60% are people who buy both special goods and ordinary goods, eating both sides.
8. Living beautifully means living a spiritual realm and a personal taste. At any time, profound knowledge, good cultivation, civilized manners, elegant speech and broad mind will help you exude unparalleled personal charm.
9. The five most important investments in life: people: Make friends with the right people to get things done. Time; Spend the least time to get the most return. Health; Physical and mental health is harmonious and unified. Industry; If you do the right thing, your career is half done. Partner; Finding the best partner is the wisest decision.
10, in spring, they go hiking in the mountains, pick flowers and sing songs. In summer, they go boating on the lake to make tea. In autumn, they are full of clothes and angry horses, accompanied by youth. In winter, they chatted and laughed around the stove at night for several years.
1 1, Yang is worthy of the sky and doesn't care about people.
12, a gentleman's mistake is like the sun and the moon. There are too many, everyone has seen them, and what's more, everyone admires them.
13, people have four ages, natural age, physiological age, psychological age and social age. We can't choose birth and biological age. It is irresistible for people to get old gradually, but the plasticity of psychological age and social age is very strong. People's mental state can't be relaxed because of the growth of age, their body shape can't be kept carelessly, and their clothes are dragged too high, which will not only give people an old impression, but also make people feel older and older.
14, you must make four friends: I am grateful to the friends who encouraged you and helped you when you were down and out. A friend with positive energy will accompany you when you are sad and help you out. Guide your friends and be willing to lead you through the mud and fog selflessly. Your friends who criticize you always remind you, supervise you, and don't want your life to be bumpy.
15, "If you are poor, you can live alone", so you can be poor, but don't take advantage of others. This is your accomplishment. "Reaching for the best helps the world" and reciprocity, this is your accomplishment in treating people.
16. A real leader lets people around him clearly understand what he wants to do, what he wants to have and what he wants to be. Such leaders inspire people's unknown motivation, help them set goals to be achieved, lead them to overcome their inner laziness, anxiety and troubles, and lead everyone to achieve brilliant goals that they once dreamed of but dared not imagine. Such a leader is an example for others to stare at and follow: he is firm, wise, rational and can understand others. In others' eyes, he is a blazing flame in the dark and a magnificent background of towards the distant horizon in the sunset. People don't need to be managed, only need to be led by such leaders.
First fix the gas volume, then fix the gas field. Live up to expectations, first of all, the atmosphere; Do good deeds and be kind to others. Satisfaction is an eternal feast. The so-called contentment is not to be enterprising, but not to envy others, to know how to cherish, appreciate and be grateful for what you have. Satisfaction with things is always satisfactory, and people are rigid without desire.
2. Cole's creed: Don't be an ignorant majority. Yes, veterans never die, and heroes never die. But when the wind blows, it is doomed to fall. Between the fall of China and the wind, there is a simple truth: "Birth is a slow process of being hammered. People get older every day, expect to disappear every day, and finally become like a hammered cow. "
3, recalling the past, 72 wins the cow. Ambition is hard to meet the enemy, and years are eventful. Look at tonight, 72 wins over the Warriors. Full of lingyun, ask who is the hero in the world.
1, the law of jealousy People are often jealous of the apprentice of strangers, but of the apprentice of people around them.
2, Fiona Fang's law, people can't be too square, also can't be too round, hurt people for a while, make people away from you for a while, so people should be oval.
3, the law of saliva When you are red enough to make people drool, there will be more saliva about you.
4, using the law is not afraid of being used, I am afraid that you are useless.
5. the law of achievement? If you have no achievements, you will have no friends because of mediocrity; If you have achievements, you will lose friends because of Excellence.
6. Pie law? When the pie fell that day, be careful that there was a stuffing trap waiting for you on the ground.
7. Law of error? The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too hard on people close to them.
8. The law of fear? Novices are afraid of skilled hands, skilled hands are afraid of experts, and experts are afraid of omission.
9. Pathetic laws? It is the enemy who is happy for your sadness; It is friends who are happy for your happiness; The person who is sad for your sadness is the one who should be kept in mind.
10, the fool's law treats others as fools, and you must be stupid.
1 1, the law of wind and rain Love can stand the wind and rain, but it can't stand the dull; Friendship can stand the dull, but it can't stand the wind and rain!
12. Four keys for a lifetime: circle, contacts, wealth and life? Circle: the circle determines the pattern and development space; Network: It's really important who you are with, and what kind of life you will live with. Wealth: The difference between the rich and the poor is that the rich grasp business opportunities with their eyes, while the poor see opportunities with their eyes. Life: Reading good books and making friends with excellent people are two great blessings in life.
1, even believe contains a lie; A friend is someone who can see through you but still likes you; Sometimes it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously.
2, can withstand, outstanding; Can't stand it, out-this is life.
3. Lack of initiative is a common problem among students in China.
Perhaps because of the influence of China's traditional thought, China students behave too prudently abroad. Classes are always held in remote places, and teachers always ask questions without taking the initiative to answer them.
Change: The teaching environment abroad is very open. You should actively answer the teacher's questions and express your thoughts in class, even if your answer is incorrect or you argue with the teacher. Don't miss any chance to think, and don't limit your personality development.
4. Not good at expressing gratitude
Because we in China are not good at expressing gratitude, or we don't have the habit of using polite expressions frequently. At the same time, they are very lively and like to get together and talk in public.
Change: The pursuit of personal freedom in the West is based on the premise of not disturbing others. In fact, respecting the freedom of others is to safeguard your own freedom.
If you like someone and are willing to fulfill her ambition, that is a wish;
You often put your ambition on people you don't like. She looks like desire.
1, the poor deserve to be poor if they have no ambition, and the poor are laughed at by ambitious people in Qian Qian.
People are not confident because they are afraid. You are afraid of failure, of what others think of you and of being laughed at. Even if you are immersed in the shadow of the past, you are afraid of the past and use it to promote the future. People with strong inner feelings never need "self-confidence therapy" to cover up your self-confidence. A person needs to go through two processes from self-confidence to self-confidence: from self-confidence to daring to face, from courage to inner strength.
3. A person describes a mountain for you. He knows the altitude, route, climbing skills and precautions of this mountain. He seems to know a lot, but what he tells you is often the man he saw in the raiders article. A person who has really climbed the mountain may not have many languages, but he can take you to climb because he knows the mountain. This kind of understanding is by no means comparable to reading several articles on raiders.
The real factor of "success" is how much time, energy and youth you have invested in this matter. When this thing is not finished, or even hopeless, are you willing to be lonely, endure, wait and persist alone?
I don't want to make efforts commensurate with the return, but also want to get a sense of existence and accomplishment as much as possible, so I make a loud noise to attract others' attention and cover up my poverty.
6. Those who make 30% efforts to reach 50% can only get an illusory sense of accomplishment, while those who make 200% efforts and only get 80% can get a reward from this world.
7. Luck is the modesty of the winner, and life is the excuse of the loser.
8. Because reason is the slave of sensibility, the position is first determined by sensibility, and rational logic serves the position.
9. The lower people feel that time and skills are worthless, because their time and skills are worthless. In their view, if you spend money, you must buy something you can see and touch.
10, Rolex sells luxury goods "feeling" and "confidence" instead of "famous watches", Hilton sells "comfort" and "peace of mind" instead of "coffee", and Starbucks sells "leisure".
1 1, I sympathize with those who have made progress all their lives, instead of indulging, being confused, wasting time and playing games. One day, they will die in bed, dying, but there is nothing to blame.
12. In my opinion, the influence of poverty is that many qualities can be established by material abundance in adolescence, while children from poor families need to build them themselves when they grow up. There are many compulsory courses in life. When you were young, you had no condition to learn them. When you grow up, you should try to make up for it, but you may not be able to make up for it. You may regret it all your life.
13, she asked me, "Don't you consider matching clothes?" "It's not that I don't want to think about it, but that I simply can't see the difference between this dress and the one on me." I said this from the heart. She said, "Don't you see how others dress?" "It's no use reading it!" I told her my status truthfully, "I know beauty and ugliness by looking at other people's clothes, but once I wear them myself, I have no idea at all!" " "
14, psychologist's definition of IQ: The more you can understand and accept multiple contradictory ideas in your mind at the same time, the smarter you are.
15, high-quality communication should focus on results, not emotions, and communication starts from the heart.
16, communication has three elements: written language, phonetic language and body language. Written language conveys information, vocal language conveys feelings, and body language conveys attitudes.
17. There are three factors that affect the communication effect: occasion, atmosphere and emotion.
18. Three characteristics of communication: initiative of behavior, interactivity of process and diversity of objects.
19, the five basic steps of communication: nodding, smiling, listening, responding and taking notes.
20. Communicate with five hearts: joy, tolerance, empathy, praise and love.
2 1, communication is the transmission of emotion, information and emotional interaction. There is no right or wrong in communication, only a position.
22, the same flow can communicate, communication can be heart-to-heart, heart-to-heart can be traded, the same flow equals confluence, confluence equals heart-to-heart, and heart-to-heart equals heart-to-heart.
23. If you want to succeed, you must first learn to be "abnormal"-change your mentality, state and attitude.
24, the way to success = thinking x action x expression.
25. Many failures are not because there are no planned actions, but because there are no planned actions.
26, work is a hundred years of work, profit is a thousand years, and name is the world's name.
27. What is a team? Look at these two words and you will know that an eloquent person speaks to a group of people with ears. This is a team.
28. A person with a low realm cannot say lofty words; A person without a sense of mission can't say anything with a sense of responsibility; A person with a small pattern can't say anything about the atmosphere.
29. Seeing that others are not pleasing to the eye is not enough cultivation.
30. Good people have no time to do bad things.
3 1, born from the heart, change the heart, you can change the face. A dark heart can't hold a bright face. If there is love, there must be goodwill; Where there is kindness, there is joy; Where there is happiness, there is elegance.
32. Go up or go out.
33. Career is composed of three views (also called pattern and ambition)+methodology (also called skill and execution).
1, piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, hops, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea
Even if you are famous in Jiangdong, you will always be with you.
3. What is romance? "wasting time eating slowly, wasting time walking slowly, wasting time drinking tea slowly ... these are all romantic"; Romance is actually to create a time and space, a feeling, a yearning, an ideal, and bloom a rose in your secular land.
4, the road to the king is never easy, it is an honor to have someone to accompany you.
5. A person who has outstanding performance in his current job should be able to continue to be promoted to a higher position; And if a person stays in the same position, it means that this person may not even be competent for the current position.
6. Reporter: What is the secret of your happiness? Curry: The secret of happiness is comfort. Don't let others judge who you are.
Usually, when you do something in the right way, people will hate you. Usually, when you do what others want to do, others will hate you. Usually, where there is success, there is resentment. This is human nature-green.
8, may be like a seed, suddenly fell into the heart, and then slowly germinated, indicating that you slowly became interested in it, step by step, and then daily growing.
9. The most painful thing in life is to keep working hard, and the dream will never come true. This is our life. Thankfully, I heard a voice at the other end of the time corridor say, "Maybe not today, or tomorrow. The important thing is that it is in your heart. The important thing is that you have been working hard. " Martin Luther King?
10, "Emotion is like a piece of paper, once it has a crease, it will never be smoothed", "Paper is wet, spread on a flat plate to dry, and it will be flatter after drying", but due to lack of knowledge, it can't be done.
1 1. It's better to meet if you miss it, and climb if you follow it. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you, and then, each of us goes on our own practice-half-life plainclothes.
12, who will finally shock the world and who will be deeply silent for a long time; Whoever lights lightning lingers like a cloud for a long time. ? Nietzsche
13, parents are still struggling, but you are showing off poetry and distance.
14, "One night I burned all my memories, and since then my dreams have become transparent; One morning, I threw away everything from yesterday, and my steps have been light since then. " Tagore "
1, spring has gone and spring has come, only sighing that summer is full of clutch, which can't burn the elegy of Qiu Si's lonely winter night.
2, the breeze blew a bottle of wine to stay, and the drizzle drifted and the wind was drunk.