The sorrow of old age is not lack of money, but having an unworthy child, which makes sense, but it is not entirely right.
Old people are not short of money, and the state pays for it every month. In their words, it is better to have a party and give money in one breath.
It is certainly sad to have an unworthy child in his later years. Not only is there no one to take care of yourself, but you also have to take care of the children left behind. Some children are divorced and left to the elderly. Some children went to prison and their families were separated. The children were left unattended and the old man had to take care of them. The old man's home is a shelter, and all the homeless people come to take refuge. No one understands the hard work of the old man.
The aunt I met in the park, her son divorced and went to other places, and her grandson married her daughter-in-law, so she could have spent her old age with peace of mind. However, when the grandson went to junior high school, the daughter-in-law sent the child back to the old man without giving a penny, and the child was still disobedient. Finally, the child went to college and couldn't move by himself. It's really sad to watch.
In another case, the children are fine, money is not a problem, but they don't show up, and the old man is afraid to make a phone call. The feeling of being empty in his heart is quite bleak.
My aunt told me when she came to the park that my eldest son sent me a video, but unfortunately she fell asleep too late and didn't hear it. I'm curious and ask casually, doesn't your son keep in touch often? The old lady said she hadn't contacted for at least a year. It is conceivable that the old man's old age is bleak.
Old people are not short of money now. What they lack is love. As children, we really don't have time to visit. Let's make more phone calls, chat and say hello.
The old man's old age was described as bleak. Haven't our hearts been touched? We will be wives and mothers and set an example for our children. Don't let the old people expect it, okay?
I quite agree with the point of view of the subject. I agree with you through many life experiences and my own. I feel it is true. If a person has no money, his descendants will have nothing. This is a failure in your life. Therefore, we must educate our children well and become outstanding talents with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Only in this way can we be responsible for our family and our country. Being worthy of the ancestors of the previous generation and the descendants of the next generation is also the greatest contribution to the country. When your children are filial to you, when you are old and have economic strength, you will feel that your hard work has not been in vain. When your children can make great contributions to the country! You will be proud, not only that, but more people will cheer for you!
That's right. I agree with this view.
Between people, it is false to say that you don't compare with others, and you will compare with your relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues around you. As the saying goes, "Man struggles upwards, while water flows downwards", you should make friends at a higher level in order to make progress. I think these views are all right.
Compared with the same sex in school; Dress better than anyone else; Taller than who? Whose salary is higher than after work; Good working environment; Whose partner is better? People are comparing.
However, after 50 years old, classmates, colleagues, relatives and friends are better than children; Is a child with higher education; More achievements. After 50, no one will be richer than anyone else. By this time, many talents regret not paying enough attention to their children's growth, not focusing on them, letting them do nothing, helping their families and even helping themselves, or doing everything by themselves; Even some people are still gnawing at the old. They can't face the society, can't deal with all kinds of problems around them, and have to use their parents' money. This is really a great sorrow for the old man!
In old age, children can't be successors. At that time, I realized that children are the biggest investment in life, but it was too late. Looking at other people's children, I really envy them. How successful I am in my career is not as good as being a housewife. I can't help feeling sad
So! When we pursue our career, we should not give up our concern for our family. In this way, when we get old, our career will be followed.
The sorrow of old age is not the lack of money, but the son's disappointment? It's really hard to say, or it can be said that it's too sad. What people need most in old age is the care and care of their children. The ability of the elderly in all aspects is declining, and various diseases are also coming to the door, making it particularly inconvenient to move. If the financial difficulties are more severe, you say that such an old man needs the help of his children, but at this time, it is not a disaster, but a man-made disaster. As a human son, he should accept it.
There is a good song. I often go home to have a look, even if I am tired and busy for a year. It doesn't cost you a penny to go home and help the elderly brush chopsticks and wash dishes, and parents are happy.
A few years ago, an old couple retired in Beijing, and their retirement salary was not low. However, both husband and wife have children, and their work units are far and near. Every holiday, the children of the elderly are separated, and they don't go to their parents' homes to visit the elderly. The old couple are withdrawn and have an affair in the society, which often lasts for many years. The couple couldn't bear it anymore and took the child to court. The court ruled that they must go home every holiday and spend the holidays with the elderly. But the children of the old man said that since the old man is short of money, we should give them money. The old couple finally decided to let the court rule that several brothers and sisters must give the old man one yuan a year, but they must go home to give it to the old man. No mailing, or see you in court.
This story is also unbearable in today's society. Because everyone has a family, we should work hard to raise a small family first, and then raise everyone. If you can't eat and wear warm clothes, how can you feed everyone?
If our children are disappointing, it depends on how disappointing they are, whether they break the law or fail in school. In a country that still doesn't support the elderly. If there are illegal and criminal acts, they must be tried by law. Reform yourself in prison. If you fail in your studies or career, it is a personal gift. You can't force it, follow the natural development, and in the end you may have a good result, a good marriage, and do something that will make the gods cry. And if everything is ok, it is not filial to the elderly, which, which (laughs). It needs to be written clearly in paper and ink. Maybe the fish is starting to stink. Maybe I was spoiled since I was a child and didn't give my children a good education. That's how they ended. Maybe he didn't complain for special reasons and didn't want to take care of you. Anyway, wait. The above is my personal prejudice. Let's look for my own reasons and come to a conclusion. Maybe if you don't change money after the wave, you will burn high incense.
It makes sense. In the real society, some children of such families do not follow the right path, and some become criminals.
Personally, I think it is quite right. I often see some worthless black sheep adjusting with their parents in gold medal mediation. No, there happened to be an issue a few days ago! My parents worked hard in Japan more than 20 years ago and made a lot of money. After returning to Shanghai, they gave a son and a daughter the best life, not only treated them well, but also took their children to travel to many countries ... and now! After sending the eldest daughter to study abroad, the mother and daughter disagreed, and the eldest daughter hacked her mother for four years. What about the youngest son? I can't believe my parents still owe me 4 million. The reason is that he thinks that when his sister went abroad to study, her parents sold the house (then worth1500 thousand) to pay her tuition; What about now? With the skyrocketing housing prices, parents have to give themselves 4 million yuan to start their own businesses, otherwise they will lose money ... After their parents resolutely disagreed and couldn't come up with so much money, this worthless son actually smashed a home and watched it several times by the beautiful and temperament mother on the stage. I am completely speechless with the helpless and desperate expression of my tall, powerful, handsome and trendy father.
That's true.
Children are the hope of a family ... from the birth of a mother to the birth of a baby, it will give parents a surprise and a hope. Even lies will prove that parents are very happy when others point to a baby girl and say that they have added a little prince and princess. ...
When children grow up, going to school is the happiest thing for parents. They look forward to their children's promising dreams.
Parents think that as long as the grades are good, there will be a "good harvest". All the way to college, I thought that my parents burned incense, and then I found a satisfactory job, fell in love, got married and had children. ...
Only then did my parents let go of their hanging hearts and said that they had not been busy in this life, and finally "life has turned over a page." Happiness in old age ...
On the other hand, if children are undeserving, they will nag their parents all day, have no real job, often chew their tongues and don't talk, and even break the law. ...
The parents will be miserable, how worried! Beat my chest and beat my feet, who should do it? No matter how much money there is, it will flow away like running water. ...
Therefore, I hope that parents in the world will cultivate the next generation well, which is better than any wealth. As long as the children are strong, even if our generation doesn't have much money, you have cultivated a "potential stock", so we don't have to worry!
Children are born with a blank sheet of paper, and what kind of pictures they leave on it has a lot to do with their parents' education. The parents of an unworthy child can't escape responsibility.
Our neighbor has a child, who has been spoiled since childhood, made some small mistakes, was protected by his parents, and was not disciplined in time.
Until he grew up, he made a big mistake and broke the law, and stayed in a labor camp for ten years. After coming out, I still don't know how to repent, blowing my beard and glaring at my father. A few times, I even started to hurt my father.
The old man's sadness can be said to be self-inflicted. Children are like saplings. Trim when it's time to trim, cut when it's time to trim, and don't let it bend when it's straight. Let him grow blindly and savagely, how can he succeed?
Educate children to be willing to invest, time and money. Give up and you will gain, and pay and you will gain. A promising child is our greatest asset.